I'm scared

[Afrojoe]

I think i might be gay, i find big men attractive and i can't stop looking at them and having dirty thoughts.

If it turns out i am gay how on earth will i tell my family and friends?

[Mohawk Man]

look its nothing to be scared of i am having the same problem as well. if you do need to tell some one tell some one you can trust and tell family but dont keep it bottled up inside otherwise it will haunt you and you will be depressed like i was for 6 months?!? so dont leave it too late

PM me back if you need to talk

[Afrojoe]

My Dad is an extreme homophobe, he always insist he will beat me and disown me if he ever found out I was gay.

[Bep624]

Maybe it's best you tell him that you are at least curious to start. He may seem angry at first, but unless your dad is gay all dads are kind of...weird at first. No offence to him but it's something that you are and it shouldn't make a difference if he's loved the same person that he did before he found out you were gay. PM me if you need to talk and just remember to be strong.

[Rizla]

My Dad is an extreme homophobe, he always insist he will beat me and disown me if he ever found out I was gay.

Then he clearly isn't a nice person. People get called homophobe for gay jokes, I've been called homophobe loads for a gay joke, but I have nothing against gays or lesbians, if I did would I be on these forums? If your dad beats you and disowns you, then leave home. If you aren't old enough, then don't tell your Dad until you are old enough to live alone. Tell your mother first, if she's more understanding, and just see what her reaction is. ;)

[Razorblades.]

If He Hates You For it, DFont Worry. Its YOUR life, It's LIke Asking A Friend If They LIke Chocolate, And They Dont, So You Dont Either. Its Stupid.
Sorry For Putting Food Into The Subject, But I'm Hungry, And Haven't Eaten In LIke, A MOnth. (Okay, More Like An Hour, xP)

[GoldSolid]

Ur dad should love you for who u r, if u tell him.. dont be scared

[Dan Williamson]

You should break it too your family bit by bit.

Tell them you may be Bi-Curious or Bi-sexual and then see what they say.

If they don't do much then if you feel you are actually gay then tell them that.

If your family loves you then they will not be homophobic towards their son.

- Dan