Depression - The Happy Subject

[Lycan]

Depression is a Form Of Mind, Its a Negitive View Of Life

Most People Would Go "Duh" At that

Anyone Who Suffers From Depression Unless Exstremily bad won't kill themselves but will "self harm" which involves scratchs themselfs or cutting in hidden areas.

If you no someone who does then just make sure they no your there for them and are someone they can yell if it makes them feel better (yelling is actually quite good, once you've yelled at someone the stress goes for a wihle)

i no most of this because i hav a very complicated past and i just no...

I have many friends who are in the same situation infact some seek help from professionals but we team up and stick together to try and keep happy!

Most Depression is During Teenage Years and Is Over a Family Event Or Boy/Girl friend troubles

All Depression Can be Cured, but If you are there forsomeone remeber if you think there in danger, make sure your in the way between life and death


this is a pointless Post but anyone whos worried about a friend whos depressed / Needs advice or is Depressed theres someone info above that might help, or you could go to the Famous Google Engine and Find More Detailed Info ... Or You Could PM me , I Can Make Anyone Laugh ....

-- Thanx For Reading , feel Free to Tell me the Post is Pointless Or Rubbish or Smells Funny --

[Luayminator]

Its quiet helpful for those who do suffer from depression, hope it helps some.

[Embean]

That does always help.
Im badly depressed.
And i cut my wrists with sharp objects.
The longer you've been depressed the more, the sharper objects you move onto.
Thanks for the advice but sometimes it doesnt always work.
My sibling now i cut myself and so do my parents.
They try to do stuff about it but it doesnt stop me.
I've been bullied all my life, but now im not anymore.
But im sometimes bullied outside school, but not anymore so i dont cut myself as much.

[Lycan]

Most People Are Bullyied ... I Am, Infact even my friends use me as the freak/ weirdo ... i used to cut ... but then things happened, i'm still depressed as ever
I Just Choose to Show a Shell Or Mask to my friends then be myself when noones around,

Anyway I Hope the Thread Helps Anyone

[StripedTiger]

My "friend" says she has depression etc. and ive been there for her many times but ive elft her now and cudnt care less.

She puts the stress on herself

doing things she wudnt be
getting pregnant 4 times!
going out with someone who done something to her
And going out with a 54 year old

Theres only so far she can push her luck.

And when i was stressed n depressed she didnt help one bit she just blamed my other friends n i was like what the hell?

[Lycan]

Probebly Not even depressed Just Attentison seeking... i had a relationship with a girl like that... she even faked a sucide.. writing me a note... texting me messages from her parrentts phone saying she was dead...

[issaa.]

Probebly Not even depressed Just Attentison seeking... i had a relationship with a girl like that... she even faked a sucide.. writing me a note... texting me messages from her parrentts phone saying she was dead...

thats kinda sick, ive been depressed yeah but i have sort of got over it, i have good days and bad days, im having less and less bad days as the weeks go on which is a good thing. I hope this thread really helps some people.

[Lycan]

thats not all of it... the third time she 2 timed me... she got her new bf his mates and attacked me in the street! with a chair leg!

anyway... people who commit sucide do tihnk of there family! just so u guys no... THEY DO, there family and friends are the only reason they hang onto life but sometimes thats not enough

[NekkLe]

I don't think the longer you've been depressed, the sharper the objects will get :s Its just what you can get your hands on and what damage you can cause.

I've never been depressed but I've been close to people who have been, I know a bit on what goes on with a depressed.
Your social life is where depression mainly comes from as stated in this thread, defeating that object can make those feel a releas, hence self harming. People who self harm can't think straight, there depression is like a drug, it seprates there life from there loved ones which can leave the ill person feel left out. The more this happens, the further away there going to feel from there loved ones, the ones they know best, the ones that live for them, living without them will seriously mess you up.

As its a illness that affects your mind, its difficult to drag yourself away from your condition. Again, confidence plays a key factor in this cycle, gaining it is difficult. As I've explained many times, exercise is the best for it, I won't go in in depth with it because I've said it about a hundred times ;)

[Lycan]

"Loved Ones" ???? Needing Them ... I'm Greatful then it ended when it did... the one i loved Lied to me... atempted sucide... tried killing me.... and so much grrring more!!!

Sod Cofidence... i've neva bin confindend... and i havn't always being depressed!


My Next Couple Of Posts I'm Going To Say What Depression Is... More Detailed... And How it leads to Actions like Selfharm and even sucide... i'm fed up of thoose who have never being in teh same state as me and others and depression... so instead of them making up things that sound good... I'm Gonna Tell the Truth Of
Depression And How it Turns to Sucide

[Lycan]

To Any Mod Reading, I No this is a Double Post... Sorry!

Depression????

Some Out there will read it and there picture someone they no instantly... Depression Can be Brough On by a number Of thinks....

1) Loss Of a Loved Person or Even Animal (Great Attachments and Trust... Someone who was there and sorted your problems or Listened)
2) Stress (Alot Of Stress Can Cause Someone to Panic... Get upset and Just Loose there Confidence
3) An Event In Your life, A Bad Memory...Or Even Someone else Being Depressed
4) Driven into depression by Bullying... Lies... etc

To Help You Understand the Depression , I Will Use mySelf as a Case Study (I won't use names of anyone)

My Depression is Thanx to my Last Gf,Who Pretended to be Depressed herself (Sometimes People Do Pretend to be depressed as an Antension seeking Move) This Slowly Drove me Downhill.. but not that far into depresson... Slowly the Lies She told me (i didn't no they were lies...at the time.. eg she was seeing a Phyctrist, Or even she was Pregnaunt! and she 2 timed me 3 times... and pretneded to Commit sucide. My Depression is thanks to her lies...she got the final 2 timed person as her new Bf and him and his mates attacked me, one of whom was later arrested for the assult. I Can't get this problem out of my head... which makes me feel worse everytime i think about it and seem them, everyone at the school i go to beleifs her end of the story... that i bullyied her... and worse things... including strangle making my life impossible at school

Thats ONly a Small Amount of What Drove me to Depression

Once Depressed , People feel like they want to take anger out of something.. or even they just want to do something becos it makes them feel better, more relaxed. This is Where Drugs Might become involved making them more depressed... most drugs and alchoul is a Depressent... Others Cut themselves in areas where there parrents won't see... makes them feel better to feel pain (i did this...) Eventually If they feel disconnected or even worse.. they start thinking about just stopping there problem by killing themselves(Sucide) , Normaly Done by Slit Wrists (Easyier) Or by Drug Overdose .. (i won't go into what i atempted) . Personally I Have Few Friends In Real Life... but thoose i do have are usually in the same state... and we look out for eachother... having someone in the same situation as you who can cheer you up works... Talking to that person ... yelling or just being with them helps... and if it helps stay with them... theres nothing wrong with being depressed.. but its better to be Happy and be you!

most depressed people hide behind a shell of who they arn't and are hiding within

This is Part One Of My Guide to Actual Depression (Anything Not yet Added Probebly Slipped My Mind and I'll add Later)

[NekkLe]

So your basically saying you have no loved ones :s ofcourse your going to be depressed, having no-one beside you is going to gagg on your social confidence.
Like I said, I've never been depressed, but I know people who are close to me who have been. I'm not trying to sound smart about it, I'm stating my own opinions which I've seen in my life time, its obvious that you can't accept others opinions because you've been doing it alot latley.
I don't think you have to be depressed to know full what happens when your depressed, general knowledge and insights to it help alot and thats what I'm basing my opinions on.

I'm sorry for you and the life you've had, however, by the looks of it, you don't really accept life for what it is. You say that your not very confident, and you sonud as if you havn't tried to be.
People that are depressed would like to get there life back together, in doing that, they push themselves to acheive it. Maybe you should look at yourself lately and ask yourself some questions.

[Lycan]

Well Every Situation is Different...
And Considering i'm telling people things i don't tell anyone and i get a reply about how uncofident and basicly your post is saying i'm stupid and immature!

Stop Pretending to Understand Everything.... i was using myself to help people who have problems and thoose who don't understand not thoose who think they understand and like being the best

I spend most of my everyday life being ingored and acepting others views and Opioens ... If u can't acept mine .. or my remaining friends and myselfs Opioen on depression and how it leads to sucide ... not post on this thread

i'm currently posting from school... yea i'm on a computer at sch rther then being with anyone ... comment on that...

You've made me more "angry", "grumpy" or as u might call it "Immature" basicly you've p***sed me off

Please Don't reply to this thread Or to any of my Posts In the Future

[NekkLe]

Well Every Situation is Different...
And Considering i'm telling people things i don't tell anyone and i get a reply about how uncofident and basicly your post is saying i'm stupid and immature!

Stop Pretending to Understand Everything.... i was using myself to help people who have problems and thoose who don't understand not thoose who think they understand and like being the best

I spend most of my everyday life being ingored and acepting others views and Opioens ... If u can't acept mine .. or my remaining friends and myselfs Opioen on depression and how it leads to sucide ... not post on this thread

i'm currently posting from school... yea i'm on a computer at sch rther then being with anyone ... comment on that...

You've made me more "angry", "grumpy" or as u might call it "Immature" basicly you've p***sed me off

Please Don't reply to this thread Or to any of my Posts In the Future
As you have given me permission to, I will, there isn't a problem if your on your own looking at a computor, infact, thats totally off point.
Its quite funny you see me as 'trying' to be the 'best', what is the best?

Another thing is, I don't want to cause arguments, you post in this forum to feel better, not to maon and groan at people, your not accepting my posts so I have every right to back it up with some detail.
Now, you've typed up a post all about me, for what reason? in that time you could have commented on a post and thought of a way around it.

If your going to act silly around this subject, why post it? I'm obviously not providing any light to your thread so I guess I'll leave it :)

[Lycan]

That was a Pointless Post Aimed to Annoy me Further .. Your Come up with some reason in which it'll make me look stupid immature and perhaps insane, i started this thread to let others no what depression is and how to deal with it if it arise's , in doing so i actually did beguin to feel happyier.. sharing my problem in a case study thinking maybe someone for once would understand the problem or if someone was in a situation if the advice or even myself could help them. I Have Not Acepted Your Posts because to put it simply "You Have Annoyed Me", most of my post on habbox are aimed at helping people or even just started athread to see what reaction it will get
eg: What Is your Favourite Wallace and Gromit ...
You Can Post On this Thread All You Want If It is to do with the Thread Subject and the Aim Of the Thread which is almost the same thing, Not for you to analyise my posts and display how you think it is and bragging that you've never being depressed doesn't actually make anyone feel any better
although you did say "People that are depressed would like to get there life back together, in doing that, " which might mean you were depressed, which is basicly Contradicting Yourself. This Subject if very close to my heart and at no point on this thread will i ever joke or mess around and infact take affense at what you have said. Although This Might be seen as writing something rude to you or "getting at you" it is infact just me letting you no how i feel and making sure what you have said about me is awnsered correctly and the Final part of you last post was " I'm obviously not providing any light to your thread so I guess I'll leave it " The Onlything You have proved any light on is apprently me as i have already said, your anlasing me but you don't understand the subject which is what this thread is about. so although i do welcome your posts as i have said but until you understand the situation and topic probebly i think it would be a better idea if you just watched


Edited - Oh and That Silly thing... http://habboxforum.com/showthread.php?p=1116863#post1116863 Yea i'm Just So Silly and Immature ...

[NekkLe]

So all my posts are virtually rubbish to you? you still havn't learnt how to accept peoples opinions have you?
I think your being very ignorant and immature about this, and to put that into perspective, your post above is based on me which is a shame because the title doesn't say much about 'NekkLe's Way of Life'.

My knowledge is valid, I'm not going to bother typing it out again in order to get a ugly response. I've already stated about the knowledge I have about this subject and I do understand it!
I'm sorry my posts made you upset but I've accepted your opinions and I've also tried to back them up for you, maybe you should learn how to use some respect and accept my opinions.
From now on, I won't posts anymore on this thread as it makes me look an idiot. Its turned into a silly row over nothing.
I've done my bit and I'll leave it there, thankyou!

[Lycan]

During this Thread Only one of your Posts has being on topic and that was the first, Other then that I Belief they have being directed at me being seen as "less" then you . I Acept alot of peoples views in my everyday life both online and Ofline

This Isn't a Row,

Note to all, Over the Next 24 to 48 Hours I'll Close This Thread and Open a New One Which I will Include all the Information From myself and others that i belief will be useful to others, next to the Info i Will Quote and Rep Thoose Who Gave it to me!

Oh and Nekkle its people like you... who i beleif (personal Belief!) make both this forum and peoples lives just that lil bit worse (not alot but a little and sorry to any mods who may end up reading this but if you had gone throw what i have only to have someone say this to you... )

[MonkeysGoRawr__]

Nekkie or whatever your name is!
You dont understand what its like to be depressed, You dont know whats its like to wake up in the morning and feel hurt!
Ive went though most stuff, even though ive not cut as much doesnt make me any less depressed.
I know your views count but if you dont know what to say on the matter then dont say anything at all!
I dont mean to sound cheeky or anything
But when your telling my mate that hes immature than that is out of order!
So please, Dont judge someone until you have a walk in their shoes

[NekkLe]

Jeez! we have a new commer :rolleyes:

#1. I never said I knew what it was like to be depressed because I've never been as depressed as some of you 'seem' to be.

#2. Try reading the whole thread before you start accusing me of not knowing whats what, I know about depression and the physical and mental factors it has on you, your understating me.

#3. If I was one of those people who ruined forums, why am I still here? I've been here alot longer than you two and know the sort of people who enjoy using these forums.

#4. Yes, the last few posts of mine have been off topic, simply for the fact that I have to continuosly explain myself to you, obviously its not having an affect on you. Try looking at your last posts, they've all been about correcting me, wow! yoour doing well kid.

#5. Please close this thread, it went way off topic when you criticized my post, that being, negative towards others opinions.

#6. When someone wants advice to an issue there concerned with, I will do my best to inform them on how to tackle the problem or how to go about it, I like to help. Having an opinion about something is far better than criticizing others posts just because you don't agree with them.

Please don't question my ability to help others, my advice is simply there for the taking, you either use it or not, its valid.

Finally, my knowledge of depression is from close freinds and family, why you question that, I don't know?
You seem to have some silly grudge agaisnt me, I've never seen you before until this thread was opened.

Noob

[Lycan]

Closeing Thread,

Anyone Whos Depressed And thought that the INformation given in this thread by users was helpful, in the next 24 Hrs I Will Remake it with the Correct Information

The Reason This Post Is Closing is Because of a Self Centred N00B who likes to be the star of the Post

Nice List btw you may of being here longer doesn't mean you no the subject better, Your helping has only given me grief, your advice was having ago at me.. many already no that advice and find it pointless Unless you no a First Person Feel of Depression - Shutup knowing someone whos depressed isn't the same as being it... its a Delicate Subject that you've atempted to take control of