Suicide - Your Questions Answered.

[Adam$]

Many people, when faced with certain problems, turn to taking their own life. As you probably have heard people saying not do commit suicide and stuff. But why exactly?

It may be..

Depression
Family Member / Close Friend Passed Away
Parents Split Up
Bullying at school or neighborhood
Problems at school
But whatever your problems may be, suicide is not the answer to your problems.

You may think it will work, for example, you will not be around to face your problem(s) anymore. It may sound alright, but it definetly is not. Think of all the things you will be unable to do. You will not be able to grow up, get a job, enjoy life, get married and possibly have children. Not only will it affect you but it will affect your friends and relatives also. Think what it is like, have you ever had a friend or a relative that has passed away, for any reason? It's terrible, isn't it. You are sad, and you witness the sadness of others also. That is what people will be going through when you are gone.

You may think your parents don't love you, like if they shout at you or something. But if you revert to suicide, they will be upset. Not only will they feel deeply upset but they may also be filled with guilt.

Whatever your problems are, you are not alone. There is someone to talk to, although you may not think it, it will help you a lot if you talk to someone. (contact numbers are displayed below). They will help you. Perhaps if you are being bullied at school, you should definetly talk to an adult you know and trust well (parent, head of year, school nurse). If you feel the need, have a trip down to your local health centre. They will have a nurse that will speak to you in full confidentiality.

Think about the issues raised there, if you are feeling suicidal or know somebody who is. Remember, You only have one life. Make the most of it, and ensure you are happy.

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USEFUL CONTACT INFO
These numbers are completely confidential.

ChildLine - Free and confidential advice
Tel: 0800 1111
Web: www.childline.org.uk

Bullying Help - Getting bullied? Need Help?
Kidscape: www.kidscape.org.uk
Bullyingonline: www.bullying.co.uk

Left Home? - Run away from home? Send a message Home.
Tel: 0800 700740
Web: www.missingpersons.org/messagehome.html

NCH - Parents going through Divorce
Web: www.itsnotyourfault.org

OneLife can help you. Onelife offers general help, and is run by the BBC. You may telephone Onelife on 0800 110 100 or visit the website at www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/onelife.

[Ziploc Bag]

im guessing you copied that from a site?

[Anflex]

I don't think we should be discussing such topics like this.

[MsTanya]

People who commit suicide are selfish, they never think about the people who care about them and how they would feel once that person isnt there anymore

[Lycan]

Now thats Just Plain Rubbish ... (Previous Post to this one)

A Depressin Thread!
http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=113203

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Many people, when faced with certain problems, turn to taking their own life. As you probably have heard people saying not do commit suicide and stuff. But why exactly?

It may be..

Depression
Family Member / Close Friend Passed Away
Parents Split Up
Bullying at school or neighborhood
Problems at school
But whatever your problems may be, suicide is not the answer to your problems.

You may think it will work, for example, you will not be around to face your problem(s) anymore. It may sound alright, but it definetly is not. Think of all the things you will be unable to do. You will not be able to grow up, get a job, enjoy life, get married and possibly have children. Not only will it affect you but it will affect your friends and relatives also. Think what it is like, have you ever had a friend or a relative that has passed away, for any reason? It's terrible, isn't it. You are sad, and you witness the sadness of others also. That is what people will be going through when you are gone.

You may think your parents don't love you, like if they shout at you or something. But if you revert to suicide, they will be upset. Not only will they feel deeply upset but they may also be filled with guilt.

Whatever your problems are, you are not alone. There is someone to talk to, although you may not think it, it will help you a lot if you talk to someone. (contact numbers are displayed below). They will help you. Perhaps if you are being bullied at school, you should definetly talk to an adult you know and trust well (parent, head of year, school nurse). If you feel the need, have a trip down to your local health centre. They will have a nurse that will speak to you in full confidentiality.

Think about the issues raised there, if you are feeling suicidal or know somebody who is. Remember, You only have one life. Make the most of it, and ensure you are happy.

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

USEFUL CONTACT INFO
These numbers are completely confidential.

ChildLine - Free and confidential advice
Tel: 0800 1111
Web: www.childline.org.uk

Bullying Help - Getting bullied? Need Help?
Kidscape: www.kidscape.org.uk
Bullyingonline: www.bullying.co.uk

Left Home? - Run away from home? Send a message Home.
Tel: 0800 700740
Web: www.missingpersons.org/messagehome.html

NCH - Parents going through Divorce
Web: www.itsnotyourfault.org

OneLife can help you. Onelife offers general help, and is run by the BBC. You may telephone Onelife on 0800 110 100 or visit the website at www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/onelife.


You missed out that it may seem the easy option for you but think of all the suffering you wil cause your family! Very good article though

[Adam$]

You missed out that it may seem the easy option for you but think of all the suffering you wil cause your family! Very good article though
Not only will it affect you but it will affect your friends and relatives also.

;]


Ziploc, I didn't copy from a site. I wrote it. :\

And Anflex, I wrote this thread after viewing another, about suicide, so yeah.

[Lycan]

Not only will it affect you but it will affect your friends and relatives also.

;]


Ziploc, I didn't copy from a site. I wrote it. :\

And Anflex, I wrote this thread after viewing another, about suicide, so yeah.

People who Choose Sucide ... are Upset... that they ahve to choose it.. its there last option and they oviously feel that there family and friends can't help or are even making it worse... most actually turn to friends before doing anything stupid asking for help ... Depression Leads to Sucide... and some times no one can help

trust me

I No

[MsTanya]

Now thats Just Plain Rubbish ... (Previous Post to this one)
No it isnt "/

Take Kurt Cobain, yeh he was depressed but when he shot himself do you think he cared about his wife a kid? If he did, he wouldnt of done it. This is just an example so dont anyone come out with all the 'Someone could of shot him' cause its aload of bull

[Lycan]

Maybe he did think of them... and thought it was for the good of them...

you don't no the situation

So You Can't 1) Use it as an Example
2) Comment On It

[Code]

All these people who say that people who commit suicide are pathetic; I think they're quite the opposite. I've tried it a few times, and god knows I couldn't. I was just scared. Too damn cowardly to do it.

So I think they're pretty brave.

[NekkLe]

I think this thread is useful. Welldone for making it, atleast its there to help people who feel they need help with there lives, a resource they can relate to can benefit them in the most.

Seeing the amount of people who feel depressed and ask for help here at HxF, I think a thread such as this can provide alot of help. So yes, its is necessery for this to be posted.

We all have our opinions about suicide, some are agaisnt it which I can understand and some are for it in a sense that they feel the need for it can help with the depressed life.
I feel that its useless, I have a knowledge of what people go through, different help is suited depending on the person.
However, good thread +Rep :)

[Lycan]

All these people who say that people who commit suicide are pathetic; I think they're quite the opposite. I've tried it a few times, and god knows I couldn't. I was just scared. Too damn cowardly to do it.

So I think they're pretty brave.

Yes!!! ... Thats How I Feel!!!

and yea this is a good thread! ... its the next stage further then the thread i started a couple days b4 this one!

[Adam$]

I think this thread is useful. Welldone for making it, atleast its there to help people who feel they need help with there lives, a resource they can relate to can benefit them in the most.

Seeing the amount of people who feel depressed and ask for help here at HxF, I think a thread such as this can provide alot of help. So yes, its is necessery for this to be posted.

We all have our opinions about suicide, some are agaisnt it which I can understand and some are for it in a sense that they feel the need for it can help with the depressed life.
I feel that its useless, I have a knowledge of what people go through, different help is suited depending on the person.
However, good thread +Rep :)
Heh, thanks. Detailed post. ;]

[RedStratocas]

People who commit suicide arent "Selfish", but my english teacher had the best word for people who commit suicide. Cowards. People who commit suicide are cowards of life, who are afraid of the real world, and dont think they will make it.

[MsTanya]

Maybe he did think of them... and thought it was for the good of them...
I bet his daughter wouldnt like to think her dad thought it was best for her to kill himself

[Lycan]

Ok ... He Probebly Didn't Like the Fact he was gonna damage his family and probebly made him more depressed that it made him more want to do it

[deltateamaplha]

Before posting threads like this please mail me or Bi!!y to look over it!. This is a very sensitive subject and needs to be doin with care.

[Adam$]

Before posting threads like this please mail me or Bi!!y to look over it!. This is a very sensitive subject and needs to be doin with care.
Ok, perhaps I didn't know? :\

[GoldenMerc]

i dont want to be stupid or everyone thinking im lieying but my mates dad hung himself over money.after a divorce you havent put that in

[ChloeDust]

Good thread this will be useful to people who are having problems etc. Good detail and it seems you know what you're talking about. +rep

[deltateamaplha]

Ok, perhaps I didn't know? :\
Hehe Don't worry just in fututre I mean if you want to post an other good article like this one :D.

[:-Rico-]

I commited suicide it worked then I came back as a lion i did it again now I am a raging homosexual alien....I mean a normal 12 year old....of course....

[Dust-Ball.]

People who commit suicide are selfish, they never think about the people who care about them and how they would feel once that person isnt there anymore
Not True I Neally Did It once Due To Bullying And I Was Not Sellfish I Was Scared Ok So If You Are Going To Say That Keep To Your Self

I Neally Did It But The police Pulled Me In To The Car Before The Bus Hit me
Don't Do It Take The Advice And Use It Dust
-X-

[:-Rico-]

I Neally Did It But The police Pulled Me In To The Car Before The Bus Hit me
Don't Do It Take The Advice And Use It Dust
-X-

If I was the driver of the police car I would of hit you before the bus :)

[ItsDave]

I don't think we should be discussing such topics like this.
I have to ask, why not? Its a serious problem. Me and my friends were discussing it today. Its a very sad thing, I've thought about it a couple of times. Once, I stood in a road, near a roundabout, a car came, it braked, I hit the door, recieved a fractured rib, thats it.

[Adam$]

OK, I'm 5 days behind but I agree with Lazydude. It is a sensitive topic but teenage suicides are increasing, and when they make that decision they do not think of the grief they may cause others.

[mynameishelen!]

People who commit suicide are selfish, they never think about the people who care about them and how they would feel once that person isnt there anymore

I don't agree with that. Why should you be expected to live if you don't like your life, just so you don't upset other people.

[MsTanya]

Not True I Neally Did It once Due To Bullying And I Was Not Sellfish I Was Scared Ok So If You Are Going To Say That Keep To Your Self

I Neally Did It But The police Pulled Me In To The Car Before The Bus Hit me
Don't Do It Take The Advice And Use It Dust
-X-
You can get help if you are being bullied, and just because you are/have being/been bullied that doesnt make you not selfish. Think about how the people who care about you would feel.

[ChloeDust]

Tanya sometimes it's not as easy to think like that whilst feeling depressed or w/e :/

[MsTanya]

Tanya sometimes it's not as easy to think like that whilst feeling depressed or w/e :/
I know ive been in that situation, but then I realised how I would hurt everybody else

[Frisked]

Im glad ive never thought about doing it! Its weird :s

[Revis]

People who commit suicide are selfish, they never think about the people who care about them and how they would feel once that person isnt there anymore
Yeah, I only tried because I thought everyone around me would be better off without me...

[alexxxxx]

I do not think people who commit suicide are brave at all. You are brave and couragous if you get through your problems without having to kill yourself. And killing yourself is REALLY REALLY selfish. Someone out there will care about you and they WILL be devastated if you just WASTED your own life. There is always a way. ALWAYS a way.

[MsTanya]

Yeah, I only tried because I thought everyone around me would be better off without me...
And did you realize that wasnt true?

[Revis]

And did you realize that wasnt true?
Yeah. But I'd had a really rough month or so and I was really real low.

[MsTanya]

I found this on a site..

You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out. Fine ... but before you kill yourself, consider these facts:


Suicide is not usually successful.

You know a guaranteed way? Ask the 25 year old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both of his arms are gone.

What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent, with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he lept from a building. Now, he's brain damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he knows he used to be normal.

What about pills? Ask the 12 year old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun? Ask the 24 year old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.

You might too. But .. who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse the job ... but someone has to do it. Who will cut you down from where you hung yourself, or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your father? Your mother? Your sister or brother? The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.

Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. You do have other choices. There are people you can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call a doctor or hospital. Call the police. They will tell you there's hope. Maybe in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it? Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later. And we'll work with whatever you have left.

If you are reading this, steal it and put it in your site too. If you're seriously considering this permanent solution to a temporary problem, please find help. This isn't the way to go, you may think that everyone would just be better off without you, but have you ever seen a family who has lost a loved one to suicide? They're messed up, the parents usually get divorced, the siblings never talk to each other. This not only ends your life, it changes the lives of others around you, but not in a good way. There are people who love you, and people who have been through the same things as you, even though it may not seem like it at times. So please, seek help.


And so I hope you have realized, Suicide is not the way out. there are so many other safer ways of dealing with your problems. Maybe you think it's easier to just die. But think of what you are giving up. you're leaving your family, friends, and all the people who care about you and love you. And maybe you're not even that old yet, you have to experience life, find true love, that kind of stuff. Killing yourself isn't going to help. That's just running away from your problems, it's not solving anything, it's not making it better.

I know i can't convince you to not commit suicide, but just please think about everything a little before you do anything.

There's always someone who will be there for you to talk things through even if it seems like no one is there for you. Everything will get better, and it will be okay.

So whenever you are going to pick up that knife, or razor, just think about all the people you are leaving behind, all the memories, and all the good times.

I guess sometimes everybody feels like they want to die at least once in their life. And you think there is no other way, just read this over.

Remember:
You live to have fun, and joke around ... Not to be depressed. I know depression isn't an easy thing to get over, but it is possible ..

[!-.Scammed.-!]

my friend committed suicide a few years back. He mum and dad had died and she was put up for adoption. She got really depressed and eventually got adopted. she killed herself on her birthday when she was 15. I was distraught and her foster parents were. I tried to support her as much as I could, but she just didnt want to live. I know how ever1 feels...

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

[sexy_gal13]

suide isnt such a gr8 topic ive tryed it me self but it didnt work n i know i wish i neva did it for ppl lk us this type of thred isnt good so i think you should think about what you put on here im not affarid any more i got help n now i am ok and i am not affaird to tell people about it either

[sexy_gal13]

suide isnt such a gr8 topic ive tryed it me self but it didnt work n i know i wish i neva did it for ppl lk us this type of thred isnt good so i think you should think about what you put on here im not affarid any more i got help n now i am ok and i am not affaird to tell people about it either