School Urgent Help !

[SupaIGA]

Hiya, Please only reply if your mature and are willing to actually help me!

In later 2003/early 2004 I done something at a sleep over with a lad in my year, This however has just started to make its way around school and its just days away before exploding and everyone knows.

What do I do ? Please help im going to be bullied so much! Any advice ?

Thankyou :(

[ross]

Ok, hello.

Lucky for you, this happened to me. But found out later, that the people (2 of them) were complete and utter idiots. Now they both smoke, drink and sleep on the streets on Fridays. But anyway.

It wasn't meant to happen. It was early stages and you know what happens when your hormones are changing. Well, I won't go into detail. But what happens was (the third boy) who did something disgusting with his dog (then again, I won't explain because I'll get banned) and I thought it was sick and I went home.

Now, that third boy told everyone in school what happened. And, both of the other two boys were denying it and tellingt hem what the third boy (Matthew) did. People asked me and I denied it.. I really couldn't take the bullying, the fights or whatever. And up until this day (3 years later) people still talk about it, and I still deny it.

That boy Matthew brings it up on how I snogged one of them, he's pathetic and should shut up.

Well onto your problem, which is simular.

Deny it the best you can. Say he's lieing, even if it's not nice to lie.

I'm sure you'd rather lie than to suffer the pain and bullying.

Stay stange mate, it'll all be fine.

Whoever spreaded it around is an idiot, I'm guessing the boy you did something with is spreading it around?
If he is, he's an idiot, ok mate :)

[Hecho]

Klock I Never Actually Relaised You were Gay?

[ross]

Klock I Never Actually Relaised You were Gay?
I am. I did do a thread on it, oh well ;') now you know.

[Hecho]

Sorry To Be IngoratnBt Can i ASk How Old You Are And Have You Told Your Parents?

[SupaIGA]

Thnx for your reply, However no the lad who done it isnt the one who is spreading.. The spreaders no everything about the night and whenever I hear it said I go bright red so I carnt really deny it.

Im just so scared and have even concemplated running away... I just dont know what to do keeping all the stress inside me :(

Im 15 and no they dont no

[ross]

I'm 15 too and no I have not told my parents.

[Hecho]

Thnx for your reply, However no the lad who done it isnt the one who is spreading.. The spreaders no everything about the night and whenever I hear it said I go bright red so I carnt really deny it.

Im just so scared and have even concemplated running away... I just dont know what to do keeping all the stress inside me :(

Im 15 and no they dont no
Sorry I Was Talking About Klock When i asked that!

[Undesirable]

Hiya, Please only reply if your mature and are willing to actually help me!

In later 2003/early 2004 I done something at a sleep over with a lad in my year, This however has just started to make its way around school and its just days away before exploding and everyone knows.

What do I do ? Please help im going to be bullied so much! Any advice ?

Thankyou :(

Let them say what they want..it's really childish.. to go and make fun of people because they are seen to be "different" :\
However... was this an accident.. or.. something you wanted to happen? Either way.. let them talk.. as long as nothing physical happens to you.. just ignore what they say.. they will soon get bored.. and if they come up to you and say "Oh your gay etc etc" just say yeah.. so what??.. they usually just walk away with nothing to say after that!

[Herman]

It's best to just ignore them and don't take them so seriously. Yes I know it's hard to ignore, but don't go crying everytime they remind you of it. They just want to see you in pain and want you to feel bad. Just be confident, when they approach you, walk away. They'll get bored eventually, like the person above said. :D

[=Jen=]

This happened to me on a gossip site, It got around school and I was dumb and started skipping school... Eventually I just denyed it and said, Well what if I did? It was a dare!! And how would you know? Did you do something with them to get this info!!?? =P