View Full Version : Whats the matter with you?
Jasmin
01-12-2005, 07:46 PM
I am constantly bullied about my hair colour, i dont know if any of you have ginger hair, or bully people with ginger hair, but im saying this now. Im sick of it, its not like i can help it, its not like my mum can help it! SO WHY TAKE IT OUT ON ME?! im constantly getting called
"ginger Pubes" or "Ginger *****r" (Commen)
I Just want to turn round and just well hit them, but mum keeps telling me not to retaliate, and they will get bored, but they keep doing it, its like all teh year 9s 10s and 11s who are bullying me, some other year 8s keep flicking my hair, and calling me GINGAR and it gets me really upset, also im a Tad Overweight (due to comfort eating) so yea i get called Fatty or whatever ='[ and im very self consius of my weight, which makes me more upset, which makes me eat more, which makes me fatter ='[ I Just dont know why? i mean ive used up all the comebacks, and nothing works?! can you lot like help me ? and before you ask, yes i have told a teacher, but they did nothing and said they where jelous, JELOUS?! yeah right. My mum keeps saying they are losers who are commen, and they single me out because im unique, but thats kinda mean on the others who dont hurt me emotionaly.. I just dont know what to do anymore, i keep cutting my arms with scizzors, because it makes me feel, i dont know o.O no im not emo, i just need a bit of help in my time of need ='[ </3
Hit em them. Itlll shut them up
ilovejordan
01-12-2005, 07:51 PM
I am constantly bullied about my hair colour, i dont know if any of you have ginger hair, or bully people with ginger hair, but im saying this now. Im sick of it, its not like i can help it, its not like my mum can help it! SO WHY TAKE IT OUT ON ME?! im constantly getting called
"ginger Pubes" or "Ginger *****r" (Commen)
I Just want to turn round and just well hit them, but mum keeps telling me not to retaliate, and they will get bored, but they keep doing it, its like all teh year 9s 10s and 11s who are bullying me, some other year 8s keep flicking my hair, and calling me GINGAR and it gets me really upset, also im a Tad Overweight (due to comfort eating) so yea i get called Fatty or whatever ='[ and im very self consius of my weight, which makes me more upset, which makes me eat more, which makes me fatter ='[ I Just dont know why? i mean ive used up all the comebacks, and nothing works?! can you lot like help me ? and before you ask, yes i have told a teacher, but they did nothing and said they where jelous, JELOUS?! yeah right. My mum keeps saying they are losers who are commen, and they single me out because im unique, but thats kinda mean on the others who dont hurt me emotionaly.. I just dont know what to do anymore, i keep cutting my arms with scizzors, because it makes me feel, i dont know o.O no im not emo, i just need a bit of help in my time of need ='[ </3
Aw bbz loads of red heads are hott O.o
the hottest guy in my school is ginger. WHy dont u tease them about stuff?
Jordan3
01-12-2005, 07:53 PM
red heads are hott
Addie
01-12-2005, 07:55 PM
Aw bbz loads of red heads are hott O.o
the hottest guy in my school is ginger. WHy dont u tease them about stuff?
Ditto.
If I was bullied of my hair colour I'd hit the person. I can't take name calling.
Metric.
01-12-2005, 07:58 PM
Ew, I didn't need to know about your pubes :(
Just dye your hair?
ilovejordan
01-12-2005, 07:58 PM
Are there any other red heads in your yr?
And not every red head has red pubes lol..
Aimseh
01-12-2005, 07:59 PM
Trixeh i have strawberry blonde hair. I don't get teased. You get the odd one saying 'ginge' but i just laugh it off. When i laugh it off they are like thinking why is she laughing and they never say it anymore. I no it's harsh to be called but Trixeh they don't realise they are ruining another person's life. Try and seek advice outside of Habbo and have really good talk with someone. I know it hurts but try and laugh it off. I did and i havn't been called for like years. Also it's the inside that counts, not the outside. I hope everything is sorted out for you.
Addie
01-12-2005, 07:59 PM
Ew, I didn't need to know about your pubes :(
Just dye your hair?
She shouldn't have to dye her hair!
ilovejordan
01-12-2005, 08:01 PM
I like the colour red :rolleyes:
Addie
01-12-2005, 08:02 PM
I like the colour red :rolleyes:
Me too <33
ilovejordan
01-12-2005, 08:02 PM
im off to watch imma celeb byee x
Laura.
01-12-2005, 08:13 PM
Aww Bbz
Dont worry, two of my good mate re "ginger" they just laugh it off when people do this. About the weight, I have the same problem with a lad in my form. He goes ice skating the same day as me and cos i didnt use my own skates he said to my best mate I broke them cos of my weight, I went mental and chased him around the rink. I stop him too pee of and get a life. But the thing is, he is heavier and bigger than me.
The only thing that I can say is laugh it off or even tell them too pee off. Btw What year are you in at school?
I have gingery brown hair and you get the odd comment, but you gotta just laugh it off chick. and being overweight.. if you're happy with your size, ignore the comments.. if not, then you have to be able to help yourself.
And with the cutting your arms, it won't make the bullying stop so theres really no point for it.. I know this'll sound harsh but you have to believe me when I say I've been there.
Because self harm is disrespecting yourself. And if you can't respect yourself, nobody else will.
<33 I hope you have a happier time in the future.
Eamonn
01-12-2005, 09:38 PM
Why do you get upset though , its just like someone going to me black head or summit or to a blonde person blonde lols
Absently
01-12-2005, 09:41 PM
Ignore them go into a life of oyur own I do that If I get bullied I just ignore them or I start a fight with them just saying so what in all meh never gets d.t though for fighting
Fluffball
01-12-2005, 09:45 PM
If they say ginger pubes.. Ay theres blonde accually :P That'l shut em up.. or say u have pubes the colours of there hair.. if they take the mick then.. They are mocking them selves
Jõnathan
01-12-2005, 09:47 PM
I actually have ginger pubays.
I just checked.
I just go with the flow, I self-abuse myself.
And it's all right.
ilovejordan
01-12-2005, 09:48 PM
I actually have ginger pubays.
I just checked.
I just go with the flow, I self-abuse myself.
And it's all right.
Im sure thats gna help her "/
Eamonn
01-12-2005, 09:49 PM
I actually have ginger pubays.
I just checked.
I just go with the flow, I self-abuse myself.
And it's all right.
you mean you did'nt know before but you just checked now and realise you do =l
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