My friend needs help

[Ree]

Heres a message from my friend who cba to sign up
heres ze message:

hi i am .. urm.. im lilly :s
um yeh
so anyway
i dno if im bi or not
i really like my best mate
i just wana lean in and you know
but its so stressfull
my mates will bully me if i tell them probly
and i just wish it wasnt me
all i think about is "am i or arent i?"
its so confusing
i think, i know i am, but i just dont want to be coz of what people might say
i dont like pretending to be what im not
Ive kinda elt like this for ages tho..

OK THANKS FOR THAT LILLY
i will ask the forum users what they think
:)

[Racoon]

Well ' Lilly ' You should talk to your friend. Tell them how you feel. And ask them how they feel about you. If they dont like you ( as Lesbien ) Just say ' Okay , But do you still like me as a mate? ' If they say no youre weird. There not worth it.

[Ree]

Well ' Lilly ' You should talk to your friend. Tell them how you feel. And ask them how they feel about you. If they dont like you ( as Lesbien ) Just say ' Okay , But do you still like me as a mate? ' If they say no youre weird. There not worth it.

Lilly says :

but it really aint like that cause ive known them since i was 3 months old
i just cant just throw that all away
but they kinda flirt with me
but i might be wrong!

we're going shopping tomorrow
i may say something then... but i probly wont
it wood be too.. weird..

Ree- Thanku lilly, lets see their reply :)

[timROGERS]

It's up to you really if you tell them. But if they begin to dislike you because of it their not very good friends.

[mynameishelen!]

It's up to you really if you tell them. But if they begin to dislike you because of it their not very good friends.

Wise words.

[Frisked]

Just tell, she might have the same feelings back. And btw, i like how your using 'Lilly' to disguise yourself. LMAOROFL

[Rosie]

Just tell, she might have the same feelings back. And btw, i like how your using 'Lilly' to disguise yourself. LMAOROFL
lolsolsoslolll!!!!!!!!!

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Just tell, she might have the same feelings back. And btw, i like how your using 'Lilly' to disguise yourself. LMAOROFL

Lots of people do this as they are too embarased to admit it

[Ree]

Just tell, she might have the same feelings back. And btw, i like how your using 'Lilly' to disguise yourself. LMAOROFL

urm, No? :l
and rosie, why u laughing fool.

[Racoon]

Come on guys! Dont be mean. ' Lilly ' Just tell your friend about how you feel.

[Rosie]

urm, No? :l
and rosie, why u laughing fool.
sorry lilly
Ill bow down to you next time.

[Ree]

sorry lilly
Ill bow down to you next time.

Do you know how pathetic you are. :)

[ross]

Ree isn't Lilly. Cause I spoke to Lilly. So go to hell you lot accusing her.

[Rosie]

Do you know how pathetic you are. :)
Uh yeah.

[Ree]

Uh yeah.

then sort it out

[Rosie]

then sort it out
For you? i don't think so :)

[Ree]

For you? i don't think so :)

Oh, No, not only for me ;)

[Rosie]

You and lilly? ;o

[mynameishelen!]

You and lilly? ;o

Wow you're mature

[Rosie]

Wow you're mature
Tell me about it..

[beth]

The only person who can decide what to do is you.
So yeah ;] Just go with your heart.

[kasi]

tell lilly to ask her friend when she goes shopping if she's had any thoughts about being les/bi, and before you ask her the question say : "okay, i'm gonna ask you a question. even if you say yes i'll still be your friend." then ask her if she had/has any thoughs about being les/bi.. if she says yes, tell her you are too then yeah things will go from there. :]

good luck "lilly"