Normal?

[-Take-Me-Emo-]

Hi, i have been bullied at school and people call me gay but i have never thought that i was gay as i hve always prefered girls but i am wondering if they are changing who i am by calling me something i would never have thought to be

[superkat]

I take it you are a boy. Unfortunatly some people just say 'You're Gay' as an insult to people as opposed to the real meaning of the word. If you are 100%
sure that they mean that you are gay in there eyes then i can say i am 90% sure it won't change you as a person (sticks and stones). The only thing that may change is the fact that as they are calling you gay you are now looking at the same gender in a different way to explore your feelings. If you have always preffered girls but are looking at boys i guess you are bi-curious/bi.

From what you have said i don't think you are Gay. I think you are a victim of bullying. If you are feeling really down becaue of the bullies then confind in a friend or a parent, anyone you can talk to.

[RyAzIzErE]

You Can Always Speak to your Head of Year or your School Counsellor Or Seek Help on Chidline

And Katrina Very Good Advice!

[Col]

People sometimes use the word ''gay'' to offend people. Not always to influence you to turn gay.

[timROGERS]

I'm always being called 'gay' being the form nerd, but it's been going on for ages. Once I thought like you did but now I know what I am, or I think I do :)

[-Take-Me-Emo-]

Thanks for the advice :)

[Frisked]

what do you belive? are you or aren'y you? this boy in my year gets bullied for that too. DONT LET BULLIES CHANGE YOU