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HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 05:54 PM
Ok well, my best mate Myles, I've known him for 14 year on xmas day. And well, I intoduced him to someone who was a really close mate to me, this was about 4 months back, she was called Sammy, she lived in Londond ect. They had never met each other, but decided to go out with each other. Sammy has had a REALLY :rude: life, and I mean big style. I had no problem what-so-ever with them going out, but deep down I knew Myles never loved her. So, since a few month ago, hes been going on at me on giving him ways to dump her without hurting her feelings. I kept saying you wont be able to dump her without hurting her feelings...

Then, he left it at that, and a few days back he said he is gunn dump her on boxing day, and he knows what hes going to say. If you ask me, its pretty tight to plan when and how to dump someone, weeks beforehand. So I said, well whatever...

Then, on Monday, I got home from school, I had a really bad day, didnt wanna do anything. So I got home went on msn, and he started speaking to me, having a go at me, calling me all the swear words under the sun, then started taking the mick out of me, and I had enough. I told Sammy somthing she needed to know. So I did, she wasnt shocked, she said, they hadn't even spoke on the phone for 2 months, she knew she never loved him. So she dumped him.

Then, next day I'm off ill. He gets back from school, and threatents to kill me. He said my life needs ruining becuase I ruined his. Today, he had a knife at school, but didnt have the guts to do anything. I'm not lying about the knife, I saw it, he had a pen-knife.

Did I do the right thing? and what should I do next. :(

Some people have seen the MSN convosation I had with him, and can back me up I'm not lying.

What shall I do?

You
14-12-2005, 05:55 PM
No it wasn't as i said im coming to kill him on friday :)!

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 05:55 PM
Hmm, I dont think thats such a good idea...

But uhhh yeah. Lol

Chaz
14-12-2005, 05:57 PM
Whoah thats a harsh story,

he won't kill you, someone as shallow as him wouldnt have the guts.

if he does he'll have the whole hxf crew on him!

Kasabian
14-12-2005, 05:57 PM
**************. I don't put with thing's like this and i also carry a Pocket Knife with me

Concentric - Super Mod
Do not ask for other peoples' personal details.

Dirgeofcerberus
14-12-2005, 05:58 PM
Lol, he wouldnt dare get you inside or outside of school.
Try and talk to him in real life or on msn, tell him why you told Sammy what you did, tell him that he pee'd you off by swearing at you and taking the mick out of you, so Sammy needed to be told the truth.

Try to speak to him inside of school and take friends with you just incase it turns nasty.

Laura.
14-12-2005, 05:59 PM
Back off. If he wants to kill you then back off and tell an adult. It's not your fault. Its his. He was going to use her for a present maybe. A girl finds it hard to get over a long term relationship. Especially when its on a special day. E.g: Birthday, Christams, New years, Boxing day, Christmas Eve. Its horrible, and mean if he was going to dump him then you did the right thing and told her.

Jordan3
14-12-2005, 05:59 PM
No offence, but he's an idiot and a coward, for bringing a knife and all that. You did the right thing, for both your friends, if they can be called that.

Kasabian
14-12-2005, 06:00 PM
Give him his chance.. I garentue he will bottle it. But have a knife with you and a group of friends.

camera
14-12-2005, 06:00 PM
Its nt ur fault. but it was rather a bad idea to introduce them to each other in the first place. but then again, u didnt noe that this is gonna happen. so its nt ur fault.

p.s. u, marcus and fiona ditched me :@

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:00 PM
Lol Tommo, do you think I did the right thing tho?

And Cloud, I've tried, he just gets pother people involved :(

And yeah Helen, I've backed off alot today. I'm glad people think I did the right thing.

Kasabian
14-12-2005, 06:01 PM
Lol Tommo, do you think I did the right thing tho?

And Cloud, I've tried, he just gets pother people involved :(

Tbh you didn't know this was going to happen.
Talk to him or use my previous ideas :)

Dirgeofcerberus
14-12-2005, 06:02 PM
Give him his chance.. I garentue he will bottle it. But have a knife with you and a group of friends.

Dude, no to the knife.
If you take a knife you are just of a coward as he is, plus it will show you need a weapon to fight. But take a group of friends.

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:02 PM
Yeah, I wouldnt stoop so low to take a knife, and :o Hes just unblocked me on msn ;S

Dirgeofcerberus
14-12-2005, 06:03 PM
:o Whats your addy? PM me with it.
I wanna come join the convo and call him. xD

Dupion
14-12-2005, 06:04 PM
Well he was gonna get whats coming to him anyway. If he wasnt even talking to his gf then she would dump him. Serves him right for the trouble hes in.

YellowParasol
14-12-2005, 06:05 PM
Nope, its not your fault..

Digital
14-12-2005, 06:07 PM
Lend my hunting knife and see if hes a man?

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:11 PM
Lol Craig, I said I wont stoop that low. But if he did hit me, I'd hit him 10x harder.

Dirgeofcerberus
14-12-2005, 06:21 PM
Myles just got alot of abuse shouted at him. xD

RLY-CRAIG?
14-12-2005, 06:22 PM
Go to the police as soon as possible-He sounds like a complete utter nutter

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:23 PM
Myles just got alot of abuse shouted at him. xD
Lmao ^^

and Samz, I'd rather try and forget about it...

Dirgeofcerberus
14-12-2005, 06:23 PM
He then started to call me a saddo just because of my name.
He must be a saddo as well because he knew it was Final Fantasy.

RLY-CRAIG?
14-12-2005, 06:24 PM
Lmao ^^

and Samz, I'd rather try and forget about it...

Hmm okay are you a boy or a girl bythe way?

mynameishelen!
14-12-2005, 06:24 PM
Tell your parents

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:24 PM
Boy, I'm Slydz :rolleyes:

*Looks at my user title*

Craig
14-12-2005, 06:24 PM
Take a fricking bigger knife to school. Also,start hanging round/speaking/trying to become friends with harder/older kids.
Or,you could always tell headteacher what he has,but make sure he doesn't find out it's you.

Bef
14-12-2005, 06:25 PM
Omg Beni <33 Hes just some sad little loser, he wont have the guts to touch u, and if he does then il touch him... and in a bad way...

RLY-CRAIG?
14-12-2005, 06:26 PM
Boy, I'm Slydz :rolleyes:

*Looks at my user title*

Can't remember that name I have a memory like a sieve

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:26 PM
Craig, am gunna. I already know some year 11's that hate him.

Bef, I know hes such a :rude:. He set loads of my RL mates against me >=(

Oh ok Samz ;P

RLY-CRAIG?
14-12-2005, 06:28 PM
You could always punch him

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:29 PM
I would, but I dont start fights. He came anywhere near me I would.

But he oes to weights a gym and that. He could deck me... Rofl.

Craig
14-12-2005, 06:34 PM
It's mind over matter.

Thats what I think anyways,think you can win,then you will

Will
14-12-2005, 06:34 PM
Ok well, my best mate Myles, I've known him for 14 year on xmas day. And well, I intoduced him to someone who was a really close mate to me, this was about 4 months back, she was called Sammy, she lived in Londond ect. They had never met each other, but decided to go out with each other. Sammy has had a REALLY :rude: life, and I mean big style. I had no problem what-so-ever with them going out, but deep down I knew Myles never loved her. So, since a few month ago, hes been going on at me on giving him ways to dump her without hurting her feelings. I kept saying you wont be able to dump her without hurting her feelings...

Then, he left it at that, and a few days back he said he is gunn dump her on boxing day, and he knows what hes going to say. If you ask me, its pretty tight to plan when and how to dump someone, weeks beforehand. So I said, well whatever...

Then, on Monday, I got home from school, I had a really bad day, didnt wanna do anything. So I got home went on msn, and he started speaking to me, having a go at me, calling me all the swear words under the sun, then started taking the mick out of me, and I had enough. I told Sammy somthing she needed to know. So I did, she wasnt shocked, she said, they hadn't even spoke on the phone for 2 months, she knew she never loved him. So she dumped him.

Then, next day I'm off ill. He gets back from school, and threatents to kill me. He said my life needs ruining becuase I ruined his. Today, he had a knife at school, but didnt have the guts to do anything. I'm not lying about the knife, I saw it, he had a pen-knife.

Did I do the right thing? and what should I do next. :(

Some people have seen the MSN convosation I had with him, and can back me up I'm not lying.

What shall I do?

YEp:rolleyes:

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:37 PM
YEp:rolleyes:
What the hell is that supposed to mean?

And yeah Craig, if he starts, I'll swing.

Will
14-12-2005, 06:37 PM
What the hell is that supposed to mean?

And yeah Craig, if he starts, I'll swing.

I'm answering the topic title dur

And I quoted the whole thing, bot just that bit.

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:38 PM
I'm answering the topic title dur

And I quoted the whole thing, bot just that bit.
Lmao ok then. Everyone said its not, but you say it is.

Why is it my fault then?

Dirgeofcerberus
14-12-2005, 06:39 PM
How is it his fault Will you nub?

Will
14-12-2005, 06:41 PM
Lmao ok then. Everyone said its not, but you say it is.

Why is it my fault then?

He asked for everyone's opinion and I gave it. Is that a crime?

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:42 PM
He asked for everyone's opinion and I gave it. Is that a crime?
Nope, but back it up. Everyone else did.

Will
14-12-2005, 06:43 PM
Nope, but back it up. Everyone else did.

Exatcly. End of.

Michael.
14-12-2005, 06:44 PM
Can't remember that name I have a memory like a sieve
I must use that similie more often.

Rarelime
14-12-2005, 06:49 PM
It wasn't your fault at all. You did the honest and truthful thing a friend could do, tell the truth. He's obviously upset at the moment, give him some space for a while and he'll eventually calm down. He needs to sort himself out if he wants to harm one of his good mates.

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 06:52 PM
It wasn't your fault at all. You did the honest and truthful thing a friend could do, tell the truth. He's obviously upset at the moment, give him some space for a while and he'll eventually calm down. He needs to sort himself out if he wants to harm one of his good mates.
Thanks, but I got a feeling we wont be mates anymore. Hes gotta be mental to even think abut bringing a knife into school. Its not like him. :(

Digital
14-12-2005, 06:59 PM
Lol Craig, I said I wont stoop that low. But if he did hit me, I'd hit him 10x harder.
Having a knife would get him kicked out just drop hints in class and the others will grass him up :)

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 07:03 PM
Having a knife would get him kicked out just drop hints in class and the others will grass him up :)
Hmm, suppose.

:AJG
14-12-2005, 07:08 PM
Called attention seeking he wouldn't actually dare stab you lol

timROGERS
14-12-2005, 07:10 PM
If he hurts you, Klock will send his evil ninja rabbits on him :D

HellyBelly
14-12-2005, 07:10 PM
If he hurts you, Klock will send his evil ninja rabbits on him :D
Ooh, I wanna see that ;P

timROGERS
14-12-2005, 07:11 PM
So do I.

ilovejordan
14-12-2005, 07:45 PM
omgs ben bbz :'( u told me bout this on msn no it isn't your fault and yes u did the right thing and make sure your not alone with him that could trigger stuff.

RLY-CRAIG?
14-12-2005, 07:52 PM
I must use that similie more often.

Okay then;)

HellyBelly
15-12-2005, 10:00 AM
omgs ben bbz :'( u told me bout this on msn no it isn't your fault and yes u did the right thing and make sure your not alone with him that could trigger stuff.
Yeah, he unblocked me and tried talking to me normally, I just blanked him out.

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