O gawd, even more messed.

[Bef]

Okaay, well this new boyf of mine Aaron, the one i thought i would just have a bit of fun with. Well last night i kind of realised i have fallen for him. But he's going to the army in January. I really do like him, this is so unfair, finally found a guy i actually like and he's leaving...
There's nothing i can do, i can't ask him to stay just for me. Lol, we have only been together 3 weeks and i origionally just thought he would just be a bit of fun, stop me being bored, you no. But he's so sweet, arrgh.
What can i do? He was talking last night like when he goes to the army i can come see him, and he will come down and see me etc... but i know what I'm like, out of sight, out of mind. Il end up getting really horrny one night and cheat on him...
Shall i just hide his shoes? HELP!

[ilovejordan]

Thats a hard one :o um.. If you love him so much you wouldn't cheat would you and maybe when you visit you can like satisfy yourselves? Think how he's going to feel too he's not gna be able to cheat is he. Put yourself in his shoes

[Kasabian]

Rofl, Hide his shoes!

nah, If you've become emotional attached then you should keep it going for as long as possible and Listen to your heartttt

[Rebuild]

Thats a hard one :o um.. If you love him so much you wouldn't cheat would you and maybe when you visit you can like satisfy yourselves? Think how he's going to feel too he's not gna be able to cheat is he. Put yourself in his shoes

Well said, you shouldn't be able to cheat on him if you love him so much.. sounds tough but you just have to cope with it and make the most of the times where he comes to see you or you go to see him.

[Bef]

Its not love yet, love takes work, but i think it could be, i could love him if you get me.
And i don't think before i do things, when im drunk, thats it, il cheat. But i don't wanna hurt him.
I wanna be with him but i don't want to end up cheating on him. So confused, iv only got a few weeks to work out what im going to do,
Im thinking of suggesting we have an "open relationship" that way i wont feel guilty if i cheat... but i doubt anyone would agree to that, and i do wanna be with him! Arggh. going over his tonight. :(

[pechie100]

i dunno ?
lol
do whatever the most sensible post here says
i wudnt no what to do
lol

[ilovejordan]

Its not love yet, love takes work, but i think it could be, i could love him if you get me.
And i don't think before i do things, when im drunk, thats it, il cheat. But i don't wanna hurt him.
I wanna be with him but i don't want to end up cheating on him. So confused, iv only got a few weeks to work out what im going to do,
Im thinking of suggesting we have an "open relationship" that way i wont feel guilty if i cheat... but i doubt anyone would agree to that, and i do wanna be with him! Arggh. going over his tonight. :(


Tell him how you feel? And dont get drunk then ;)

[pechie100]

Its not love yet, love takes work, but i think it could be, i could love him if you get me.
And i don't think before i do things, when im drunk, thats it, il cheat. But i don't wanna hurt him.
I wanna be with him but i don't want to end up cheating on him. So confused, iv only got a few weeks to work out what im going to do,
Im thinking of suggesting we have an "open relationship" that way i wont feel guilty if i cheat... but i doubt anyone would agree to that, and i do wanna be with him! Arggh. going over his tonight. :(
why not give him a call telling him how you feel

[Rebuild]

Its not love yet, love takes work, but i think it could be, i could love him if you get me.
And i don't think before i do things, when im drunk, thats it, il cheat. But i don't wanna hurt him.
I wanna be with him but i don't want to end up cheating on him. So confused, iv only got a few weeks to work out what im going to do,
Im thinking of suggesting we have an "open relationship" that way i wont feel guilty if i cheat... but i doubt anyone would agree to that, and i do wanna be with him! Arggh. going over his tonight. :(

Don't get drunk then. ;P

If you don't want to cheat on him then you shouldn't, just be more responsible, don't drink enough for it to happen and if your not drunk don't let it happen. I don't think having an open relationship would be a good idea.

[YellowParasol]

Well i don't really know what to say but... One night, tell him how you really feel about him and try not to be drumnk when you say it :p

[Craig]

You could tie him to the bed.

[ilovejordan]

You could tie him to the bed.

Kinky.

[pechie100]

You could tie him to the bed.
roffle
and eat a banana right in front of his face ??

[Bef]

You could tie him to the bed.

Thats a good plan
And guys, me, not drink? NEVER
And im not the sort of person too tell people how i feel really. Not irl anyway. Lol. all i ever do is beat him up, and bully him <3

[ilovejordan]

Thats a good plan
And guys, me, not drink? NEVER
And im not the sort of person too tell people how i feel really. Not irl anyway. Lol. all i ever do is beat him up, and bully him <3

The poor guy ;)

Text him then if its easier and yeh drink but dont go over the driving limit w/e that is

[paradox]

Well i don't really know what to say but... One night, tell him how you really feel about him and try not to be drumnk when you say it :p
You got drunk the day you supported Peterbrouugh F.C lmao.
If you really cared for him, you would like at the postive sides of things, Not that hes going away, but that you'll be able to see him again.

[Bef]

Nah, what if he drops the soap in the showers and and...