Can anyone help me out here?

[!!mike!!]

Right im bi and i just slept over my mates house. He knows im bi so he asks if i would do anything with him. i said ok. 1st it was just kisses then snogs then we were under the covers. What do u rekon his reactions will be at school next monday?

[Col]

It will feel weird at first, we can't really predict the future, so.. It's really a waiting game.

[!!mike!!]

Its just it felt so right. I went through a phase when i was 12 about boys now im 14 it just feels so right. My lesbian freind helps me out alot. But still she doesnt know much and i cant tell her everything.

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[Aimseh]

It may feel wierd at first but i think after a while it will be fine. It was him that asked you aswell.

[!!mike!!]

kk, but this dude has a gf, i sed ok to a kiss but then going furter was all him experimenting. im 14 nearly 15 whats the furthest i should go with a boy

[Col]

Don't go to far, it may ruin your friendship - Just discuss with your friend what you's want to carry on doing.

[!!mike!!]

what i mean is what is the furvist i should go if he wants to go further

[paradox]

You have to decide that for yourself :)

[Pawf]

Well, judging that the law (I think) is 18 to have gay *** I don't recommend going too far

[Opey..x]

talk to your friend now before
you go back to school,
and if everyone at school know your gay alredy and it goes round it shouldnt to to bad.
what your friends done is wrong he has a girl friend and im not being rude but maybe he was just experementing to see what it was like for you
good luck i hope it all goes well xx

[Linguistic]

What would you do?

There's really not many options. He may ignore you, he may act like nothing happened at all, or he may be "closer" to you. I think it most likely that he will act like nothing happened and will want to continue the same level of friendship you had prior to the incident.

[:baris:]

Well, judging that the law (I think) is 18 to have gay *** I don't recommend going too far

Nope, Two people from the same gender can have *** as they cant have kids
and stuff. i think lol

[Craig]

It will feel weird at first, we can't really predict the future, so.. It's really a waiting game.

I'm sure it will be weird. From films I seen and r/l males and females then it's quite awkward.

[chilloutrich]

If it feels right then go for it.

[Undesirable]

Right im bi and i just slept over my mates house. He knows im bi so he asks if i would do anything with him. i said ok. 1st it was just kisses then snogs then we were under the covers. What do u rekon his reactions will be at school next monday?

He's clearly curious about it. And intrested in finding out what it's like - as alot of people are. However, until you have discussed it all, i suggest you go no further. It doesn't say if you were drunk? And i presume you weren't being young? Then he knew what he was doing, and asking for. If he hasn't acted odd, or off with you, then things could be ok. But i wouldn't take it much further, until properly discussed. And remeber legal implications when it comes to sleeping together etc. :) All in all, approach this in a sensible manner, act responsible in doing anything..no matter how big or small it may seem.


Nope, Two people from the same gender can have *** as they cant have kids
and stuff. i think lol

No there is an age, however it's either 16 or 18. It's not to do with the getting pregnant, it's so that people are off a mature age to handle and make their own decisions. You also have to take into account, that gay sexual relationships, have a higher chance of catching aids. And therefore no commitment off that kind should be made unless both people are mature and responsible enough, hench the legal age.

[Corey777]

I think that 18 or over rule is only in the UK, so if you don't live in the UK, you should be fine. There isn't a legal age here in Canada or the USA (I think).

Anyways, I would agree with Rich here. If you both feel comfortable, go for it.

[blah blah blah]

In Australia, Where i am, Its illegal but whats to stop it. its like a private crime. how would the police know. I doubt you or your partener would want to turn in.

ANYWAY!

If you trust your m8 and concernd on what he would do. go up to him in the school morning and asks him about it. MATURELY!
However, if you didnt know him that well and conerned...you just cant predict the future and will have to wait.

Keep us posted on what happens at school :D

[fitcovboy]

Regards the age limit, it is best to know the law when involved in such activities.
Section 28 On 17th November 2003 Clause 28 was abolished in England and Wales. It had already been abolished in Scotland in 2002.
It is unfortunate that there has not been much publicity about this. Age of Consent

Heterosexuals - 16

Lesbians - 16

Gay men - 16

In 1967, when gay *** was partially decriminalised, the age of consent for gay men was set at 21 compared to 16 for heterosexual people and lesbians. The unequal age of consent signaled society's disapproval of homosexuality. Gay *** was still seen as immoral, dangerous and to be discouraged.

Hope that helps !:)!

[kreechin]

Right im bi and i just slept over my mates house. He knows im bi so he asks if i would do anything with him. i said ok. 1st it was just kisses then snogs then we were under the covers. What do u rekon his reactions will be at school next monday?

Hw wanted to do it ehh? Go for it ^_^ Should be ok about it, may feel a little awkward but it will all be ok my best mate was the same :)