divorcing... [Archive]

kasi

27-12-2005, 02:36 PM

k my mom just told me that her and my step-dad are divorcing. i don't know how to go with it cause he's like my real dad and was there since i was born...

have any of your parents divorced? if so what do you do now?

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 02:38 PM

Nope but mine were going to, Um look on the bright sides of things, You'll get more presents at xmas and birthdays etc and they'll be happier seperated.

Anger

27-12-2005, 02:39 PM

Yup mum and dad did when i was urm 4? i just live with my witch of a mum and i dont like my father x]

Kasabian

27-12-2005, 02:39 PM

You'll get more presents at xmas and birthdays

tbh that isn't the happier side of it.
the happier side is that if they split they will be happy. I think :s

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 02:40 PM

tbh that isn't the happier side of it.
the happier side is that if they split they will be happy. I think :s

I said that too. And i suppose you'll be closer to them because you'll see them on their own?

camera

27-12-2005, 02:41 PM

yuh my parents are divored. nw im living with my mum only. she remarried once but my stepdad passed on. so now shes a single parent.
anyway back on topic, well, my real father is the kind who abuses my mum and us...i was young then..abput 4-5 years old. i cant rly do much coz im still young at that time...

Rawr

27-12-2005, 02:44 PM

Luckly mine are still together and going strong as far as i know! :)

HellyBelly

27-12-2005, 02:46 PM

Mine have split, I knowwhy and I dont really wanna discuss it. But I suppose its for the best Kassie, and your mum and step dad will be happier. You will get to see them when they split.

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 02:48 PM

+ if you ever get down i'm sure your friends will always be there for u?

Laura.

27-12-2005, 02:54 PM

Mine are divorced. I see my dad every weekend and on special occasions. I live with my mum because she lives closer nto my school and my dad lives in a pub. They are still good mates. And talk, get each other presents.

kasi

27-12-2005, 02:56 PM

thing is i dont think im gonna see my step dad again.

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 02:57 PM

thing is i dont think im gonna see my step dad again.

You have a right too.

kasi

27-12-2005, 02:57 PM

You have a right too.
im not sure i want to though.

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 02:59 PM

im not sure i want to though.

Why? You said you've known him since you were born & that he was like your real dad?

Kasabian

27-12-2005, 03:00 PM

Yeah, But if he's been a total d!ck to her mom then..

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 03:02 PM

Tommo i thought u left ;) and what if he wants to see her and explain?

kasi

27-12-2005, 03:02 PM

Why? You said you've known him since you were born & that he was like your real dad?
cause of what hes doing... and he was but hes changed

Anger

27-12-2005, 03:03 PM

mine broke due to my father being married to another woman x/

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 03:03 PM

cause of what hes doing... and he was but hes changed

Aw, Has he tried to explain to you?

Kasabian

27-12-2005, 03:04 PM

Tommo i thought u left ;)

i'm staying on till 3:15 then i'm gone forever.

kasi

27-12-2005, 03:04 PM

Aw, Has he tried to explain to you?
he doesnt know i know what he did. my mom just told me this morning when she came back from work

ilovejordan

27-12-2005, 03:07 PM

he doesnt know i know what he did. my mom just told me this morning when she came back from work

Hm, If he tries to explain let him? but if they are gettin a divorce then you might have to go to court to see who has custody over you, my bm8s parents are splittin up too and she's goin to court she's real stressed so i think your mates will be there for you and you gotta stay strong and think that your mom will be happier than she is now.

kasi

27-12-2005, 03:09 PM

Hm, If he tries to explain let him? but if they are gettin a divorce then you might have to go to court to see who has custody over you, my bm8s parents are splittin up too and she's goin to court she's real stressed so i think your mates will be there for you and you gotta stay strong and think that your mom will be happier than she is now.
i dont think he can explain this, and my mom has full custody over me cause shes my biological mother and when her and my real dad broke up [i wasnt born yet] she had custody over me then, so yeah.

beth

27-12-2005, 03:30 PM

My parents need to divorce, but like my mom says she hasnt got the money to buy us a house to live in with her so she says she'll have to stay here till my younger sister is 18 [in 14 years time[
Its horrible here..

RainFall.

27-12-2005, 04:36 PM

It can be very hard for Parents to get divorced. If you have seen them as loving birds for many years and them suddently aparting, it can cause severe depression or temper periods. If you are suffering in anyway Kaye you can contact me. My Mum + Dad announced that they were getting divorced in October. It was nothing big considering they hadn't been very happy over the past few months. I would rather see them happy than being trapped in a fake-love relationship.

TealArms

27-12-2005, 04:37 PM

My mum left my dad when she was having me about 3 months before

t0tsy

27-12-2005, 04:43 PM

Mine have divorced....but they had to cause they were always at each others throats..so.. it's not very good for me and my bro though (i have a bro and a sis but my mum hates my big sis), it didn't turn out very well.. I see my mum about 4 times a year if I'm lucky..so.. to be honest, it's not the best thing ever.. but sometimes it has to happen.. I try to give my mum another chance.. coz she practically abandoned us but she never ever gives me a chance. She's always too busy doing something else.. like with her boyfriend. He is very ill but still, we are her CHILDREN. She puts him before us A LOT..