wats mr important hangin wat ya m8s or ya bf or gf?

[sexy_gal13]

my bfs doin me head in cause all he does is hang with his m8s 24/7 neva wid me is it lk dat 4 every 1 wid sum1 ?
:s :(

[FrozenWhisper]

my bfs doin me head in cause all he does is hang with his m8s 24/7 neva wid me is it lk dat 4 every 1 wid sum1 ?
:s :(
Boys come and go but friends are forever. It's the same for guys. I'm with someone and I reackon we see enough of each other. It helps that one of his best mates is going out with one of my good mates.

[Cypher-]

My girlfriend was the same to me, A few times we were alone together she said to me about the amount of time I spend with my friends, I think now we have been out longer she realises Ive known them for life and I cant just abandon them, its probably the same for your fella.

Its the same the other way round too, my mates always used to say she had me under the thumb for the amount of time we spent together lol :p

[FrozenWhisper]

My girlfriend was the same to me, A few times we were alone together she said to me about the amount of time I spend with my friends, I think now we have been out longer she realises Ive known them for life and I cant just abandon them, its probably the same for your fella.

Its the same the other way round too, my mates always used to say she had me under the thumb for the amount of time we spent together lol :p
lol. I agree. I think you should spen 3/10 with your gf/bf and the rest with your mates. Don't mind me I'm feeling hyper for some reason :)

[sexy_gal13]

yeah but my bf is 3 yrs older than me n its hard but hes alwayz with his m8s hes neva wid me but hes sayin he wanna start a fam n dat

[Cypher-]

Its never a good idea to start a family young, Im guessing both of you are below 20, so its a bad idea lol :p Just tell him that you dont want to, explain how much it would cost ect ect with a kid and buying a place to live and food and clothes and paying all the bills!

Relationships at this age should be fun, not hard work :p

[sexy_gal13]

yes i c where ur cumin from in 16 in a few days hes 19 but i think it wud b nice but mayb when im a but older i wanna get a job n dat 1st if u know wat i mean but im scared if i have one will he still just go with his m8s?

[Cypher-]

Yeah i can understand you there, Im 18 right now and Im in college at the moment, just about to pick up another job because Im planning stuff in the summer etc etc Its best to get a job around your age I think, to go shopping, bars, clubs etc etc (not promoting alcoholic drinking of course) but I guess he should realise if hes 19 that a 16 year old wouldnt want to start a family.

He needs to mature a bit more perhaps and realise everything isnt about him. I learnt it the hard way from an ex-girlfriend :)

[sexy_gal13]

o right yeah i know where ur cumin from ive got my exams soon n i dont wanna fail them cause of the baby if u know wat i mean cause i wanan get a good job then settle down but i do wanna stay with him but im scared if i say i dont wanna ave a baby he will go n dump me

[Cypher-]

Im going out now so Ill post this before I go :p

Good luck with your exams firstly, Securing a future is the best thing and Im trying to sound as less nerdy as possible but if he dumps you because you dont want to have a baby then hes a git and it wouldnt of worked out. Just tell him, it will work out better either way, trust me. Have a good day!

[sexy_gal13]

thank you very much u have been a help n i hope we stay in touch you seem a ok guy n know wat ur talkin about n ye i will tell him thank you again

[FrozenWhisper]

Im going out now so Ill post this before I go :p

Good luck with your exams firstly, Securing a future is the best thing and Im trying to sound as less nerdy as possible but if he dumps you because you dont want to have a baby then hes a git and it wouldnt of worked out. Just tell him, it will work out better either way, trust me. Have a good day!
That is true. My mum had me at 18 and I'm not planning on settling down till I'm at least 22 :). And if he doesn't understand that you don't want a family yet I'd say he's a git that only thinks of what he wants :)

[sexy_gal13]

yeah but wat if i do decide to have a baby then it ****** everythin up then wat do i do im all confussed cause 1st he sed he didnt now he does

Edited by Cypher- ~ Please dont avoid the forum filter :)

[FrozenWhisper]

yeah but wat if i do decide to have a baby then it ****** everythin up then wat do i do im all confussed cause 1st he sed he didnt now he does
look it doesn't matter what he wants. It's what you want. But I think you should wait till your older to have a baby.

[sexy_gal13]

yeah i think u r right get my life sorted n if he does luv me he will stand by mr right ?

[FrozenWhisper]

yeah i think u r right get my life sorted n if he does luv me he will stand by mr right ?
right :). I'm only 13 so I don't know that much about settling down and stuff but I think you should wait till you've atleast finished school and a good job :)

[sexy_gal13]

yeah i finish soon so its gonna b ok n ive already got a ok job which will b workin b hind a bar so that part of my life is sorted

[FrozenWhisper]

yeah i finish soon so its gonna b ok n ive already got a ok job which will b workin b hind a bar so that part of my life is sorted
Yer. Just remember if you start a family then you wont be ok to just party and go out with your mates all the time :)

[sexy_gal13]

i know that but i cud go out sumtimes n i dont lk goin out now lk i only go out a little so it wudnt make a diff really

[FrozenWhisper]

i know that but i cud go out sumtimes n i dont lk goin out now lk i only go out a little so it wudnt make a diff really
Ok :). i still think you should wait till your atleast 18 tho :).

[sexy_gal13]

yeah i think u r right how do u know so much ?

[FrozenWhisper]

yeah i think u r right how do u know so much ?
I dunno lol. I just reeber the good old days when I was 10 years old and planned my whole life lol :)

[sexy_gal13]

lol ye i thought my life was planned out untill it wall went wrong about 2 yr ago n then everythin changed 4 the bad not 4 the gd

[FrozenWhisper]

lol ye i thought my life was planned out untill it wall went wrong about 2 yr ago n then everythin changed 4 the bad not 4 the gd
aww :P. lol. Anyway i'm gonna leave the thread but good luck :)

[sexy_gal13]

thank u btw

[brodeo]

my bfs doin me head in cause all he does is hang with his m8s 24/7 neva wid me is it lk dat 4 every 1 wid sum1 ?
:s :(

The question should be 'is it better to be able to spell or not?'

[sexy_gal13]

The question should be 'is it better to be able to spell or not?'


wat do u mean ?

[FrozenWhisper]

wat do u mean ?
He's said that cause your using text talk/ slang :)

[sexy_gal13]

wats wrong wid it lk ?

[paradox]

Slang txt speech can be hard to understand sometimes lol.

and it helps if your at school and so is your bf/gf cause you'll see them alot then.

[sexy_gal13]

ok then im sorri about the lanuage n i do see him i see him quite a lot so wats it matter ?

[!-.Scammed.-!]

well, it would hvae to be meh mates lol!

[sexy_gal13]

y would it ?

[it]

Your mates. Youre more likely to stay friends with your mates than have a long term relationship with your partner.

[GJay]

gd point it but i see oppositely.

my friends treat me quite badly and they're very immature. So if Karl was a local boyfriend, I'd be spend all my time with him. We've been going on for 2 years and comparing him to my college mates, he's the only closest friend I've got. He's my friend, best friend, boyfriend, near fiancé, near husband, the father of our unconceived child and my soulmate!

[Luayminator]

gf or bf for me

[sophie]

Friends are forever! A boyfriend or girlfriend should always come after friends..at this age anyway!

[Largo]

Friends, as you can have muliples of them, and girlfriend/boyfriend, you do one thing to break their heart and they're gone. Unless they give you a chance. But don't even think having a baby at 16 .. girl ¬.¬ , baby at 16? All I have to say is :
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[Mentor]

If i had a Gf that would be a good question, as unluckly i dont my answer is self explantory