Advice needed please! [Archive]

-Take-Me-Emo-

31-01-2006, 07:41 PM

My cousin hates me i think. One of my habbo friends sent me there msn convo. but i promised i wouldnt tell my cousin she had sent me it. i dont know what to do as i cant confront him about it seeing as i promised.

-Take-Me-Emo-

31-01-2006, 07:48 PM

i no im double postin but im soooo desperate :(

Rawr

31-01-2006, 07:51 PM

I would confront your cousin and ask them why you hate them and why they have been saying things behinf your back.

-Take-Me-Emo-

31-01-2006, 07:53 PM

but then my friend will hate me :S
its a really sticky situation

Biseinen

31-01-2006, 07:54 PM

Just say to him (Don't mention the Convo at all), just say to him "Hey, maybe we should hang out more or go somewhere fun together!" Or whatever... If he says no, ask him why and say "It's not like you hate me or something..." And if he goes silent, just ask him without sticking your nose too far down his throat...

I mean, maybe he has a reason, maybe it's something about you that bugs him, just approach the situation carefully.

-Take-Me-Emo-

31-01-2006, 07:56 PM

Just say to him (Don't mention the Convo at all), just say to him "Hey, maybe we should hang out more or go somewhere fun together!" Or whatever... If he says no, ask him why and say "It's not like you hate me or something..." And if he goes silent, just ask him without sticking your nose too far down his throat...

I mean, maybe he has a reason, maybe it's something about you that bugs him, just approach the situation carefully.

thanks nice advice. the thing is he lives near london and i live in yorkshire lol so we cant really go somewhere but i can ask him on msn :)

Biseinen

31-01-2006, 07:59 PM

Ah, well I wouldn't on MSN to be honest with you. Things like this got better by face to face or at least voice to voice. O.o

-Take-Me-Emo-

31-01-2006, 08:01 PM

Ok thanks :)

Adam$

31-01-2006, 08:31 PM

Erm. Talk it over with your friend, try and get him/her to allow you to discuss it.

Revis

31-01-2006, 08:38 PM

Ah, well I wouldn't on MSN to be honest with you. Things like this got better by face to face or at least voice to voice. O.o
Nooo, never face to face. That can bring around bad consequences, like slaps...

Biseinen

31-01-2006, 08:44 PM

Lol... Well, using the right words can avoid that. =P

Revis

31-01-2006, 08:54 PM

Using my combination of wit, charm and sardonic thinking, my head will always hurt after conversations =D

-Take-Me-Emo-

31-01-2006, 08:57 PM

lol hes a boy and im a boy so i dont think he would slap me :P

BLuweesH

31-01-2006, 09:51 PM

At the end of the day, you're both family. Maybe it's just a love-hate family relationship. :)

GoldenMerc

31-01-2006, 10:54 PM

My cousin hates me i think. One of my habbo friends sent me there msn convo. but i promised i wouldnt tell my cousin she had sent me it. i dont know what to do as i cant confront him about it seeing as i promised.

does that realy matter love your cousin if he likes you or not