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Danny
28-03-2006, 05:48 PM
A few years ago i realised i liked guys and girls and have accepted myself as being Bi, I've told a few friends that i am Bi and they accepted it too..
The thing is i have never been with a guy, i've looked at them and think their hot etc, i've always gone out with girls, I currently have a girlfriend now, who know's about my sexuality. I've thought about this alot recently and now i'm not so sure about my sexuality.. I've been with my gf for about 8 months, but find myself thinking about other guys, which is totally not fair on my gf, but i love her to bits and i wouldn't want to lose her...

I'm totally confused...

Charlie
28-03-2006, 06:01 PM
It could just be your hormones, As they do crazy things. Or it could be that you are gay. I'd give a while and see how things are. Maybe then it'll be a little bit clearer what you are.

asher_
28-03-2006, 06:30 PM
Alot of guys get in your position, but as you say you love your girlfriend and it's been 8 months which is great. I'd advise you to maybe talk to a family member or close friend about what you're feeling, getting it all off your chest always helps!

lukeisok
29-03-2006, 03:05 PM
Try waiting till you've finished puberty as your hormones make you crazy, as I'm confused as well.

xD

I'm not going out with anyone/dating either gender, to play things safe rofl.

Nick.
31-03-2006, 03:40 PM
Same, I'm not going out with anyone, and haven't been for around 10 months, before I started feeling I was gay... I probably won't until I'm older as you just get drawn up with it all and it's pointless.... but I'm only 12 yet know I'm gay... which might change as I get older.. but I dno. I don't care about being gay. :P

Biseinen
31-03-2006, 05:20 PM
Ask your girlfriend for a 'break' to experiment? ^_^;

kasi
01-04-2006, 02:45 AM
how can you know you're bi if you've never been with a guy yet? it's probably just your hormones. give it a few years, you'll probably end up being straight.

Polly-alyssa
01-04-2006, 07:46 AM
does your gf know exactly how you feel? i think if she doesn't you should tell her, then she should make her mind up whether to stay with you. but it is hard as you think of boys lots too

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