Help?

[Emicat.]

Yes, this topic is about LOVE!

Well, once I suddenly got feelings for one of my friends (he is male).
And I told my other friend who is also male.
Then I wrote "I LOVE ***" On my hand in a code. One of my other friends came over, asked what it said (I said guess) and he went off and came back and said who it was. I was like how'd you guess. Then this guy behind me says "OMG you fancy ******?" and I was like O_O. And then on the following Monday, *** knew. I didn't talk to him for 3 days. Then, we were just friends again. But he started working me about it. Like, on the Monday he kept folowing me to embarass me. And then that guy who was right behind me asked *** if he would actually go out with me. Then *** shouted "NO!" then that guy asked him quietly "Would you though?" and *** goes "No.".

But, the way he said no. It sounded like he was covering something up.

Agh, I dunno what to do. Should I ask him? But I am in fear of my friendship with him. I dont wanna wreck it. Help?

[emo...]

um..... well thats a toughie. I was in this situation once and it went wrong, but it doesnt mean it will with you. How close are you as friends? If you're really close, then maybe you need to get him on his own and ask him then, he might have been embarresed to say it coz u were there and he was infront of his mates. If you are just friends, then maybe you could ask a friend to ask him, like
Mate- hey, ive heard a rumor that you fancy Emicat (soz i dont know ur name) Is it true?
Boy u fnc- Well...
i dunno. im not a love goddess, but i dont want to get you into trouble if it goes wrong.

[Emicat.]

We are quite close, I don't know really.

But, like Tesco, Every little Helps.

[FlyingJesus]

He already knows, you might as well talk to him about it. If you stop now he'll think that it doesn't really matter to you, but as I said, talking is probably better than just a plain "will you go out with me" or whatever. The fact that he was following you to embarrass you, as you said, could well mean that he actually likes you - us guys are a bit stupid in that respect, we tend to make fun of the people we like most.

[Emicat.]

I see.
Well, thanks.


we tend to make fun of the people we like most.
I never knew that ;O

[FlyingJesus]

It's just because of how awkward we get I think.. I mean, you get guys who are quite forward, but they just say stuff like "Hi, fancy a go?". When guys actually want to be with someone in a relationship it's hard knowing how to go about it, so we try to get any reaction we can out of you, and that's what we're best at. Good ol' hormones.

[Emicat.]

Awww thats sweet.

Girls are just like "OMG YOU LIKE WHO OMG OMG OMG" and run around in circles.

Well, thats what I do but...

*ahem*

Hows the weather?


EDIT: Oh and the other day I said something to *** (Small talk, something about laxitives) and he was like "I don't care!" And I was like "So I'm just saying...¬_¬"

[FlyingJesus]

Laxatives aren't much of an aphrodisiac I'm afraid.

[Emicat.]

Lol I know but he was talking about them.

[foxyfox00]

Hmmmm Far From An Expert, But You Might As Well Clear Things Up Or There Will Being Those Awkward Silences When People Talk About Love.

And As For The People Meh. Mindless Gossip, I Too Love Running Around Laughing At Who People Like.

Good Luck Anyway, What Ever Happens Im Sure You Will Remain Friends. If All Else Fails Say It Was A Joke.:eusa_whis

[Emicat.]

Danke joo.

I will keep you guys updated on this situtaion.

Today he pulled me down a hill :/
I got all muddy :(

[FlyingJesus]

Time for mud wrestling.

[Emicat.]

Time for mud wrestling.

Lawl. No he was just being a bum hole ¬_¬