Parents Controlling Life.

[H.bubbly]

Okay i'm 13 , i have a life , but i'm not able to do what i want with it , I wanted to Dye My Hair Back , But my Parents Wont let me , I ask if i could get my lip pierced ... not alloud .. Nose .. not alloud .. eye brow .. Not alloud , i just feel abit annoyed that i'm not alloud to Do those things that i want to do the most .. I mean come on , i'm 13 .. Surely i can atleast dye my hair! But No. ah mean .. ah love me parents n all .. but i think they can be ait to protective at times

[GJay]

wait until you're 18...t

[Krusty]

Dont blame them for not lettin ya have those piercings..
Imagine having your nose and eyebrow pierced when your 80.. Not a good look.

[cocaine]

Highlights as well "/

[.Dev]

I'm 16, and I've had my White NAtionalist views since I was 14, My paretns wouldn't let me shave my hair off until last year. But I accepted that, so should you.

[Edge]

Hmm.. not the only one but think they are your parents they try and do whats best for you.

[H.bubbly]

Yeah , Suppose so .. but it's my Life .. they don't see that though lol

[Crono]

wait until you're 18...t


Exactly. Obviously if you did that stuff without permission now you'd get in a lot of trouble. But if you just wait until you're 18/16/whenever you move out of their house, you can do whatever you want and they can't do anything about it.

[H.bubbly]

Exactly. Obviously if you did that stuff without permission now you'd get in a lot of trouble. But if you just wait until you're 18/16/whenever you move out of their house, you can do whatever you want and they can't do anything about it.

mm Thats True i guess

[Mentor]

Who cairs, you'll probaly end up being a sheep most your life anyway, whats wrong with not blindly conforming to what everyone does now for a bit "/

[H.bubbly]

Who cairs, you'll probaly end up being a sheep most your life anyway, whats wrong with not blindly conforming to what everyone does now for a bit "/

a , Sheep .. Righty Ho then

[Krusty]

*baaaahh*

[Decapitated!]

Dont Do The Wrong Thing That I Did


I Ignored Them And Did It Myself...

[H.bubbly]

*baaaahh*


lol ^^ , i was gonna do it myself but i thought otherwise since it wouldn't make things any bettr

[Krusty]

lol
^__^

[GJay]

If you have it done now, it might be a waste of money - the peircings might be fashionable in your eyes now, but in about 5 years, you might not like them, and when you go to work, employers will not appreciate someone turning up covered in piercings.

Think about the future first before you go ahead with this wim.

[mizz-tier]

If you have it done now, it might be a waste of money - the peircings might be fashionable in your eyes now, but in about 5 years, you might not like them, and when you go to work, employers will not appreciate someone turning up covered in piercings.

Think about the future first before you go ahead with this wim.

Agree with Gemma even though they shouldnt judge you an employer will make up their mind usually with in five minutes of meeting you and piercings are more frowned on than tattoos cus of health and safety at work :)

[Mentor]

a , Sheep .. Righty Ho then
its an exspression, it just means someone who blindly follows without any will of there own.

[FlyingJesus]

He's right.. the fact that you're only 13, wanting to dye your hair and get yourself pierced all over shows that you're pretty much following some sort of rebel fashion. I'd say goth, but these days every other goth/emo kid seems to think they're the most "InDiViDuAl" person on earth, and complain about labelling or something. I think the best term for any of these sorts is just "rebel". Myself, I find rebel kids annoying, because half the time they don't know why they're rebelling or what against. You want all these piercings, why? I have two piercings: one in my ear and one in my tongue. The ear was done just so I knew what piercing was like (and I've grown to like how it looks) and my tongue.. you're too young for that. You should change fashions or whatever to suit yourself, so at least think about why you want something before complaining that at 13 you should have full responsibility over your life.

[H.bubbly]

i didnt mean i wanted all thoughs done in some cases i meant insted of .. and e' doesn't know me :) so he can't call me stuff :]

[Playgirl]

My mam is like that. If she doesn't let me do something I whine and whine until I get my own way and if that fails, I do it anyway. :P

[FlyingJesus]

That was partly my point.. you'll have anything done for the rebel image. You don't know why you want those piercings - if you did, then you would want all of them because they'd mean something to you. There's no point getting a piercing "just because".

[-:Undertaker:-]

I Despise Piercings.

[Mentor]

You only want to be "unique" so you can be like everyone else.
Sheep are the crowd, if you want to stand out from it try looking normal "/

[foxyfox00]

Dont Take This The Wrong Way, But Your Only 13 Hunni. Theres Lots Of Time To Do "Radical" And "Rebelious" Things. Enjoy Being A Kid While It Lasts.

But I Understand The Hair Dying Thing Just Comprimise, Or Get A Temporary One. Good Luck !

[FlyingJesus]

Hair dyes are extremely damaging anyway ^_^ A conformist lifestyle is a healthy one :D

[Emicat.]

I'm waiting until I'm older to get those things done.

And they're not really controlling you. Eyebrow piercings and that are a huge responcability. You have to kept them clean and that. I'm 13 and my best friend is allowed to do those things but shes ruinning her life. Shes making herself a mess.

....

I want my lip pierced because it looks awesome. And I want my hair green because green rox. But my mum doesn't even let me go out after 8 PM at night.

Try that.

Kaithnxbi

[benjirofl]

Dont blame them for not lettin ya have those piercings..
Imagine having your nose and eyebrow pierced when your 80.. Not a good look.
Lmao. Sounds like there not all bad. Believe me you dont have bad parents, theyre looking out for u..

[Catchetat]

have u ever tried talking to them?

[Emicat.]

Lmao. Sounds like there not all bad. Believe me you dont have bad parents, theyre looking out for u..

YEAH! Believe my husband. Hes the snex x]

[FlyingJesus]

Sexual attraction certainly is a reason to believe someone on what they say ^_^

[JackHb]

Okay i'm 13 , i have a life , but i'm not able to do what i want with it , I wanted to Dye My Hair Back , But my Parents Wont let me , I ask if i could get my lip pierced ... not alloud .. Nose .. not alloud .. eye brow .. Not alloud , i just feel abit annoyed that i'm not alloud to Do those things that i want to do the most .. I mean come on , i'm 13 .. Surely i can atleast dye my hair! But No. ah mean .. ah love me parents n all .. but i think they can be ait to protective at times

13 is still quite young, so technically they can tell you to do what they want.
You should try talking to them and explaining how you feel about them treating you like it. otherwise you will end up exploding at them.
I go mad when my mum tells me what to do, it winds me up big time! I want a tattoo but i had to make an agreement with my dad that i wont get one till i am 18 otherwise they were not going to give me a new computer and wuld of cancelled my phone haha.
But i may get a peircing when im 17 duno where though :P

[FlyingJesus]

At 13 you don't know what you want anyway. My dad's 53 this year and still doesn't know what he wants.

[Always]

Sounds like they're just a bit overprotective of you

[FlyingJesus]

It's hardly overprotective, they're stopping her from making holes in herself and killing her hair roots.

[Polly-alyssa]

Your parents only don't allow you to do something as they think it will be for the best, or they like you as you are. You could either just agree to everything they say or come out to them and say that you want more control over your life as you're getting older.

[Catchetat]

parents should have LIMITED control over their children. disregardless of how old the child(ren) are/is

[Lozzoling]

come on,they're being very reasonable

black dye can make your hair stodgy and thin

and lip piercings? do you know how many of those GO WRONG,with all the puss mankness

your parents are quite good parents i think

[JackHb]

come on,they're being very reasonable

black dye can make your hair stodgy and thin

and lip piercings? do you know how many of those GO WRONG,with all the puss mankness

your parents are quite good parents i think

Yeah but if parents try controlling you to much then you will just do it behind there back.
I have lost count how many times my parents try controlling me to do ceartin things and i end up doing it behind there back.

My best-mate recently, her mum said she couldnt have a house party, her mum went away for the night and she had one. But got caught and is grounded for a month haha :P

[FlyingJesus]

Fair enough, you shouldn't smother your kids in bubblewrap, but saying no to damaging things isn't too much control. It's just that these days everything happens fast, and so people expect to grow up fast (hence why we have 13 year olds wanting to have full control over their life).

[deltateamaplha]

Okay i'm 13 , i have a life , but i'm not able to do what i want with it , I wanted to Dye My Hair Back , But my Parents Wont let me , I ask if i could get my lip pierced ... not alloud .. Nose .. not alloud .. eye brow .. Not alloud , i just feel abit annoyed that i'm not alloud to Do those things that i want to do the most .. I mean come on , i'm 13 .. Surely i can atleast dye my hair! But No. ah mean .. ah love me parents n all .. but i think they can be ait to protective at times
13 big deal your just off 12...

[H.bubbly]

yeah , your point is ? ....ughh I'm just making a point ...

[FlyingJesus]

Your point's just as valid as his. That is to say, it isn't.

[Pulchritudinous]

I think it's wise of them not to allow you to get peircings and hair dyed.
Kids don't completely understand the risks of facial peircings or tattoo's, all they know is they reckon it will look pretty cool.
It's best to wait until your completely mature to decide what changes you want to make to your body, a good example is my dad, he got 2 large tattoo's on his arm at 15, and he now totally regrets doing so.

Respect your parents choice, as hard as it may be to believe, they are not just doing this to annoy you.

[FlyingJesus]

Tattoos are the worst thing to do young. Piercings can be taken out and dye fades, but tattoos.. permanent. Anyone thinking of getting a tattoo, design it and wait 2 or 3 years. If you still like it then, THEN get it. Chances are you'll have changed your mind though.

[Grimmauld]

Okay i'm 13 , i have a life , but i'm not able to do what i want with it , I wanted to Dye My Hair Back , But my Parents Wont let me , I ask if i could get my lip pierced ... not alloud .. Nose .. not alloud .. eye brow .. Not alloud , i just feel abit annoyed that i'm not alloud to Do those things that i want to do the most .. I mean come on , i'm 13 .. Surely i can atleast dye my hair! But No. ah mean .. ah love me parents n all .. but i think they can be ait to protective at times
You're way to young to be controlling your life, your parents are there to aid you until you're stable enough to live on your own, live with it, I know, life's a *****.

[sock]

My friends can dye there hair, There only 11.

[H.bubbly]

lol , my Parents Prefered i stay Blonde =/

[FlyingJesus]

You'd probably be better off staying blonde.

[H.bubbly]

Why do you say that ?

[Krusty]

think about it,
black hair
blonde roots.
not a good look

[H.bubbly]

Well ah can Dye the Roots Regularly , it's not hard =/

[FlyingJesus]

i) Blonde is a nice colour anyway
ii) Blondes who dye their hair black often look a bit strange
iii) You'll damage your hair

[H.bubbly]

i) Blonde is a nice colour anyway
ii) Blondes who dye their hair black often look a bit strange
iii) You'll damage your hair


mm , but i'm Fed up of being called a Bimbo and Dumb all the time , and i want black anyway ,and it'll Eventually die out.

[Krusty]

Your parents wont let you, so just get over it.
why post?
whats this gona do?

[H.bubbly]

why Make a big Deal about me posting it ?

[Krusty]

Well why post it in the 1st place?

[H.bubbly]

Why Not ?

[FlyingJesus]

If you don't want to be called a bimbo, don't be one..

[H.bubbly]

I'm not ;] , I'm Not one Of Those.

[Puma!]

Lads like blondes.

[JackHb]

Lads like blondes.

Steriotyping :P

[Chaz]

Steriotyping :P
LMAO at your sig pls.

Its that pic i saw eairlier today.

[Catchy]

Dont blame them for not lettin ya have those piercings..
Imagine having your nose and eyebrow pierced when your 80.. Not a good look.

Exactly, i don't blame them i don't think hardly any parents would approve.