Problem with a mate..

[ilovejordan]

okay basically i have this "best mate" called catherine and we were like really close etc up until monday.. this is what happened ; [quite long]

monday breakk ;

we norm go to the canteen right but my mate emily n was upset and i said she could sit with us as we'd just had p.e and was late goin in but anyway we went in and saw our mates had only saved one seat [thanks ;l ] and catherine just ran over n sat down. Normally she'd come back out with me so like none of us are alone i'm glad i had emily with me though. Anyway after break i go to catherine "oh thanks for leavin me n em at break i rly appreciate it" and catherine just went "oh well you'll get over it" and walked off this really peed me off..

Yesterday ;

this day was the worst. In the year room at lunch catherine called me a wh*** [i censored it] for no reason and i was like WTHHH? So we argued over that then she started sayin **** about my dead cousin. This annoyed me so much i nearly smacked her one [mate pulled me away]. I then walked out n on the way home she was walkin with stacy [who doesn't like her] and stacy caught up with me and catherine followed her she then started talkin about this maths thing i got offered to do [you go to this place to do a whole days of maths puzzles etc] and i say "no way am i going how boring" n she goes yea if you did go you'd be a right nerd n called me a nerd for being offered it. So i had a go at her saying she had no rightt.

Today ;

In maths [first lesson] catherine got offered this maths day thing and immediatly accepted i was like :o wth? if i did that i'd be called a nerd. So i said "ha catherine you nerd" n she told me to **** off and ignored me for the rest of the lesson. Then at break emily b who is like her bm8 called me a ditcher saying i'd ditched catherine for "the popular people". I was like WTH? JUST 'COS I DIDN'T HANG WITH HER ON MONDAY N TUES THAT DOESN'T MAKE ME A DITCHER. Emily then called me stuff etc etc which peed me off so i just walked off and now catherines acting like nothings happened? Acting like she didn't say **** about my dead cousin. I can't see how she can do this? She rang me a min ago askin if i wanted to go out n i told her no i dont wanna go out with someone who says **** about my dead cousin n put the phone down..


Anyway i wanna know what you guys think i should do [its really gettin to me]
i need help ;l

[Craig]

Smack her in the face.

[ilovejordan]

Oh wow that helped. I'm already on report and she's a grasser i'll be suspended :l

[velvet]

Pssh, seriously, I had a best friend like that, who used to **** me off, saying 'Oh your dads gunna die soon' ect. :l And then the next day act like everything was fine, and not even appologise.
I wouldn't be friends with someone like that, just ignore her a while so she can reflect on herself and what she'd said, and if she's a true friend, she'll say sorry, if not, then f**k it, she's not worth your time and if she carrys on like that she'll end up with no friends.

[issaa.]

Smack her in the face outside school so they [the school] can't do anything about it..

[bingo!!!!!]

Nah I wouldn't suggest to smack her in the face etc. as she hasn't done that to you, only do that when she REALLY deserves it. You should not give in to her and try to out-wit her, show her you're not a push-over and stand your ground.

- iAlex! :D

[ilovejordan]

Claz she will find a way if not she'll get her mom to ring my mom and that'll lead me being grounded till im 15

[Jordan3]

I'm not one to fight, but saying stuff about dead relatives is out of order. From what I've read she is pure scum, and not worth anyone's time.

[Charlie]

Just ignore her, she seem's a bit er.. i don't know, just making my post longer.

[Charles]

Omg! What-a-phag! Sorry, i'd like to give this girl a piece of my mind.
Don't resort to violence. Tell your friends what has happened, hopefully they'll begin to truly see who she is.
As for Catherine, smile at her. She'll just love that..

[bingo!!!!!]

Nah I wouldn't suggest to smack her in the face etc. as she hasn't done that to you, only do that when she REALLY deserves it. You should not give in to her and try to out-wit her, show her you're not a push-over and stand your ground.
(In case you missed it)

[ilovejordan]

Omg! What-a-phag! Sorry, i'd like to give this girl a piece of my mind.
Don't resort to violence. Tell your friends what has happened, hopefully they'll begin to truly see who she is.
As for Catherine, smile at her. She'll just love that..

Its hard to smile at someone who says **** about your dead cousin.

[NekkLe]

Like Jordan said, she isn't worth it. Why spend all you time feeling grim about some **** who couldn't give a toss about her 'mates'. People like that you shouldn't bother with, its best just to leave them alone and then if they say anything offensive just tell em to f off and blankk them.

Theres no need to worry over it :)

[bingo!!!!!]

Just ignore her and if she does kick off at you and says something bad just let her know you're not a push-over.

[ilovejordan]

I can't ignore her i sit by her in loads of lessons and she'll just keep bugging me until i say something she's really annoying ;l

[Jordan3]

I can't ignore her i sit by her in loads of lessons and she'll just keep bugging me until i say something she's really annoying ;l

If she does that then there is no other option to stop her than to just hit her. Sorry :(

[NekkLe]

Some people like that need a smack, DO IT. Seriously tho, violence I guess shouldn't be used to solve most things in life but matters like this and people like this need a slap to know where they stand.

[ilovejordan]

i can't though read page one and my posts why i'm ****ed aren't i? i smacked her once n she got me suspended for a week ;l

[bingo!!!!!]

If she bugs you Cassay just tell her quietly and if she takes no notice then tell the teacher.

- Alex.

[Charles]

Its hard to smile at someone who says **** about your dead cousin.
Yeah, I know. But it shows her that you don't care what **** she says about your personal life (Even though you do). As soon as she knows that words can't get to you ,she'll know she can't overpower you with remarks.

[NekkLe]

i can't though read page one and my posts why i'm ****ed aren't i? i smacked her once n she got me suspended for a week ;l
Ohh, what a plank. Explain to your freinds and maybe they'll talk to her.

[Chaz]

Smack her in the face
Break her nose

I garentee she will not come whithing 5meters of you.

[Charles]

Smack her in the face
Break her nose

I garentee she will not come whithing 5meters of you.
Have you read she'll get suspended, yet again?

[ilovejordan]

Yeah, I know. But it shows her that you don't care what **** she says about your personal life (Even though you do). As soon as she knows that words can't get to you ,she'll know she can't overpower you with remarks.

She knows they bother me and alex i'm not a grasser i dont like teachers getting involved.

[bingo!!!!!]

Cassay there's nothing else you can legally do though...

[Chaz]

theres not really much you can do.

Dodgey situation really =\

[Wootzeh]

It's all very childish tbh.

[ilovejordan]

Thats why i need help :( i threatened her she grassed n i'm on report cos of it. I'm quite close to her bf i might tell him all this **** he'll split up with her

[NekkLe]

Argh, if I was in a situation like this, t'would be the time of violence..

[Jordan3]

Argh, if I was in a situation like this, t'would be the time of violence..

Agreed.

[bingo!!!!!]

You may aswell tell him.

At the end of the day friends don't say and do stuff like that. I'd just stuff her, i've had to do it to one lad who was my best mate for years.

[ilovejordan]

Agreed.

Your not the one in this situation. If i hit her at school i'll be suspended [im doin sats etc right now] if i do it out of school i'll be grounded till im like 15 ;l

[Chaz]

Your not the one in this situation. If i hit her at school i'll be suspended [im doin sats etc right now] if i do it out of school i'll be grounded till im like 15 ;l
Can i do it?

[ilovejordan]

Can i do it?

feel free

[MikeThePony]

Oh, good god, not a seat!! Anything but a seat!!
She's right, you'll get over it.

[Chaz]

feel free
MMmMmmmm

Where did i leave my bat?

[ilovejordan]

Oh, good god, not a seat!! Anything but a seat!!
She's right, you'll get over it.

Thats not the point the point is she's being ignorant sayin **** about my dead cousin and gettin other people to turn against me ? :l

[SHEEPY]

Bust a cap in her ass.

[Chaz]

LIGHT A FRENCH BANGER IN HER PENCIAL CASE!

[MikeThePony]

Thats not the point the point is she's being ignorant sayin **** about my dead cousin and gettin other people to turn against me ? :l

Oh sorry, I forgot that people dont lie and exadurate on the internet.
Silly ol' me.

[ilovejordan]

Oh sorry, I forgot that people dont lie and exadurate on the internet.
Silly ol' me.

I'm not lying :l

[Chaz]

Oh sorry, I forgot that people dont lie and exadurate on the internet.
Silly ol' me.
Shes not, go play with traffic.

[SHEEPY]

Yeah, but you spelt exaggerate wrong.

soz m8

[MikeThePony]

Shes not, go play with traffic.
I do.


Yeah but you spelt exaggerate wrong.

soz m8

Wrong, I Googled it. Btw you spelt mate wrong.

[Chaz]

Wrong, I Googled it. Btw you spelt mate wrong.
You took the time to sit there and check a word?

Your a sad little git.

[ilovejordan]

Ugh please stop argueing ive had enough of that

[SHEEPY]

Haha, you couldn't be more wrong. I have spelt it correctly.

[MikeThePony]

You took the time to sit there and check a word?

Your a sad little git.

Although I don't lie on the internet for sympathy.
And i googled it after he said I was wrong.

[ilovejordan]

Although I don't lie on the internet for sympathy.
And i googled it after he said I was wrong.

I'm not lieing on the net i'm asking for advice?

[SHEEPY]

put define: infront of the way you spelt it, then the way I did.

[Chaz]

Although I don't lie on the internet for sympathy.
And i googled it after he said I was wrong.
Hes right tho?

[ilovejordan]

Ugh closed cos mikes being a total re;****