View Full Version : I wish I was more popular...
alexxxxx
01-05-2006, 04:33 PM
Dammit, I feel nobody likes me. (At school). Nobody seems to care/invite me to do anything. And I then have to hang around people I don't really like, and I feel arn't like me. :(
BlackStar
01-05-2006, 05:33 PM
I know how you feel, I hang around with people who hate me, I never get invited out and stuff, and when I ask them they all say no and at school they laugh at me and tell each other about it..
Wayne
01-05-2006, 05:35 PM
Maybe try and talk to the people you want to make friends with. :P
dannyboymed
01-05-2006, 05:37 PM
I get partly the same thing.. Except I don't want to make friends with them, because they're all stupid but they're all I have.
holo-jonny
01-05-2006, 05:38 PM
I hang out with (at skool) A friend I like and 2 Guys I hate.
Never invited to much either.
alexxxxx
01-05-2006, 07:15 PM
:) Oh welll... I'll see.
Charlie
01-05-2006, 07:58 PM
Dammit, I feel nobody likes me. (At school). Nobody seems to care/invite me to do anything. And I then have to hang around people I don't really like, and I feel arn't like me. :(
I have that, The only people that do like me are my mates and they still don't invite me anywhere.
Best thing to do is get out there & make new friends :]
Badgez
01-05-2006, 11:05 PM
Sorta like me. I'm not considered a loner or anything, but mainly I've got 1 best friend in school, and most of the people at my school don't mind me.. But I don't get invited out, or if they're trying to be cool to their friends, they'll try to hurt my feelings...
-Paul
01-05-2006, 11:15 PM
Throw your own parteh :)
-Wolverine
01-05-2006, 11:18 PM
Sorta like me. I'm not considered a loner or anything, but mainly I've got 1 best friend in school, and most of the people at my school don't mind me.. But I don't get invited out, or if they're trying to be cool to their friends, they'll try to hurt my feelings...
Yea thats basically like me except I do like the people I hang around with, but there are some idiots I sometime hang around with, who try to make fun of me to be cool.
The Professor
02-05-2006, 05:05 PM
IM the exact opposite to you matey, im a loner. Id much rather be on my own that with other people, be left to my own thing yknow? Means you can do what you want without being pressured to do things your mates want to do. Make friends with your playstation i say ;)
Neversoft
03-05-2006, 06:37 PM
I suppose I know how you feel. I hang around with my friends in a big group, then this person and his friend (I hate them both) come up to us and started hanging around with us. I hate him to much to stay there so I just wondered around the school for 10 minutes waiting for lunch to finish. Yet mostly all my friends know I hate him, but they still don't come with me. That is what makes me hate school the most... Why I hate him I will not say here on the forum. But when I finish school I'm gonna be so bloody happy.
\\Tom
03-05-2006, 06:52 PM
I hang around with my mates... some don't like me and when I'm ill they call me skiver, tell me to move my seat in class because I'm on the edge of the table and be mean a lot... I live with it, glad when its the weekend :)
Colourful™
03-05-2006, 08:43 PM
Dammit, I feel nobody likes me. (At school). Nobody seems to care/invite me to do anything. And I then have to hang around people I don't really like, and I feel arn't like me. :(
Try to make friends with people, ask if you can hang around with them. If they say no then stuff them.
Arisham
03-05-2006, 09:11 PM
Appreciate what you have, rather than what you haven't got.
I'd rather be alone than hang around with people I dislike. Lets just remember that people who are popular mustn't take their popularity for granted.
Jordan3
05-05-2006, 09:40 PM
I have loads of good mates, and I count myself lucky.
James.
05-05-2006, 09:41 PM
Go round beating up people, you'll soon be respected if not liked.
JackHb
06-05-2006, 06:07 PM
Try to make friends outside of school?
I do not like a load of people in my year because they are immature idiots who like to play tag in break (Which is the most lamest thing ever)....so i have made friends with people outside of school :P
A4AOwen
06-05-2006, 06:15 PM
Rofl they play tag.
JackHb
06-05-2006, 06:17 PM
Rofl they play tag.
Yes...the other day they were playing tag with bottles though! Idiots they are.
And then year 10 decided to join together and try forming circles around the year 11s and hitting us which was pathetic...
micky.blue.eyes
06-05-2006, 06:28 PM
Yes...the other day they were playing tag with bottles though! Idiots they are.
And then year 10 decided to join together and try forming circles around the year 11s and hitting us which was pathetic...
lmao!
I get partly the same thing.. Except I don't want to make friends with them, because they're all stupid but they're all I have.
Same here, I don't want to make friends with most people, most of them are stupid anoying people. I got some mates, but I wouldn't trust them with personal secrets (if I had them) or personal items (bank pass and stuff like that).
bubble79
06-05-2006, 07:08 PM
Dammit, I feel nobody likes me. (At school). Nobody seems to care/invite me to do anything. And I then have to hang around people I don't really like, and I feel arn't like me. :(
Have you treid joining a group or sports team or something to do with something yourgood at? I don't feel that I have many friends at school, but when I joined a music group(called rockit. silly name. good group, run by the county thing), because I'm really into playing my flute and keyboard, I found loads of new friends, because musicy people were all into the same things I was, and so we all got along really easily, and now I have a whole group of friends out of shcool.
Ostinato
06-05-2006, 07:22 PM
oooh... to be honest I seem to be different from you lot haha!
I get on with just about everyone in my year! lol I know everyone and I have like hundreds of really close mates, boys and girls! Of course, there is a couple of people who I hate though! lol
To be honest, I used to be a lot like you guys and never got invited out much or whatever, but I just decided to come out my shell, and instead of being all like 'OMG I'M WORRIED WHAT THEY WILL FINK OF ME IF I ACT LIKE DIS....' I was just myself! And I'm quite a loud person haha, but like I get on with just everyone and can talk to everyone easily.
I think you should honestly just start talking to people! It's really the easiest way, and it could maybe be difficult to make freinds out of school or that... so just be yourself and get talking to folk! ;p
RedStratocas
07-05-2006, 04:10 PM
Im not invited to much outside school, but I have a lot of friends at school. You dont want to be more popular, then you'll be with more people you hate.
Herman
07-05-2006, 04:50 PM
Haha, yup, I'm just like you people.
One thing is to always be grateful for what you have. I've realised that. I used to feel the same way you do. But I realised it was better to have a few good friends then hanging out with a group of people you don't like. Trust me, the people here are childish and immature. :rolleyes:
alexxxxx
12-05-2006, 09:55 PM
Thanks people for the advice.
louder
14-05-2006, 07:33 AM
Dammit, I feel nobody likes me. (At school). Nobody seems to care/invite me to do anything. And I then have to hang around people I don't really like, and I feel arn't like me. :(
Just be you, besides, you have freinds on HxF :D
I used to be like that cuz of my image.. but people eventually realised I was a nice person and started hanging around with me more.. Althought it did take about 2 years..
bubble79
14-05-2006, 08:15 PM
I seem to be like that. I'm getitng more popular now that people are getting less obcessed with whether you are "cool" or nopt, and more on whether you are a nice person, which I; hoping I am
8Freak8
15-05-2006, 04:30 PM
Those of us that go to public school do much more grown up things, like piggy back races. Bet you're jealous now, eh?! Sometimes when we're really excited we even do wheelbarrow races. Ooooh yeah.
I don't really have a problem in the friend department. I really think confidence is the key to making friends. If you're confident you will make friends.
omgabear
17-05-2006, 08:19 AM
I honestly know how you feel, but not personally. See im in a group of about 30 people who sit in this place, were not the top guns or the nerds but were the people everyone likes basically :) we got nerds, cool people and basically everyone comes round.
We do get nerds around from time to time, I like them, there cool, but lots of people dont. Its really depressing watching it happen.
But anyway, be yourself and when you do find someone to be your friend, they'll be your friend because of that and nothing else :)
Habtoxic
18-05-2006, 12:26 AM
:( Thats sad... I've never felt like that before.
Dont wanna brag but I have plenty of friends...
Just try and be nice and funny to everyone and stuff :)
But dont overdo it, then they'll think your a hippy! (no offense to anyone)
Oh and if your gothic dont be... No offense to anyone again but gothics are often loners/groupies.
:( Thats sad... I've never felt like that before.
Dont wanna brag but I have plenty of friends...
Just try and be nice and funny to everyone and stuff :)
But dont overdo it, then they'll think your a hippy! (no offense to anyone)
Oh and if your gothic dont be... No offense to anyone again but gothics are often loners/groupies.
It's not as easy as that.
;l
:Alpha
18-05-2006, 01:19 AM
Id say im a semi-loner.
I hang with LOT! of people at my school but not necessairy the same ones.
W/e I dont stay alone at home. Every friday night im out. Same for saturday.. I also hang with a ''Group'' of skaters and we skate and smoke.. we have fun :P
I have a Girl Friend..
SO.. HABBO WILL BRING YOU NO WHERE!
Id suggest you guys to get a hobbie such as a sport.
I play hockey and I have lot of friends there.
Everyday at school i see regrets and lone dudes.. at my school. and cause I have a ''Good'' influence on people I talk to them and have fun with them. Lot are good friends of mine now and have lot of friends.
Its not fair :( Everyone should have friends!
Yazamiinx
20-05-2006, 06:44 PM
Same here, but when they don't invite me to things, I invite them and then make them feel guilty.
Callum.
20-05-2006, 06:46 PM
Dammit, I feel nobody likes me. (At school). Nobody seems to care/invite me to do anything. And I then have to hang around people I don't really like, and I feel arn't like me. :(
Find friends who accept you for who you are. + Never give up trying to find the right group.
Cool-kitten007
20-05-2006, 10:05 PM
aww
i feel sorry for people that are in your situation
But i think u shud just like go out on friday nights
get ****ed, because you have more confidence drunk
and bang a fit lass
u will cheer up
Smits
20-05-2006, 10:18 PM
Throw your own party and invite everybody, if nobody comes then maybe you should get some friends outside school.
Maybe go to clubs and stuff and yeh like she said get *********** and bang up a lass
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