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Ellis.
03-05-2006, 01:32 AM
Okay anyways, I'm in a cranky mood today. Don't you hate it when your GOOD friends plan something together and don't bother inviting you to it? What's worse is when they talk about it right in front of you or when you find out by accident and they invite you out of pity..
So anyways, my friends and I are outside and one of my friends asks me if i'm going out tomorrow with so and so. Then, another one of my friends nudges him and tells him to be quiet. Right there, I was so hurt x.x
But what ticksme off even more is that a few minutes later, the friend who told my other friend to be quiet came up to me and asked me if I wanted to go out with them tomorrow. I told him "Don't invite me out of pity, if you didn't want me to come, then don't bother." and I was in a bad mood all day.
And to think, these people were like my best friends. We go out to see movies whenever there's anything good like everytime we plan something. I don't remember doing anything to make them angry so I'm just like.. whatever, to hell with them.
BUT STILL =[ I feel depressed now x.x
.Lynn
03-05-2006, 01:37 AM
Where were they going anyways?
Ellis.
03-05-2006, 01:41 AM
My favourite chinese eatery xD Damn it they had good spring rolls there >;[
i hate when that happens
we were in our little circle and my friends like
"yo greg, you coming to Scary Movie 4 Tonight"
then another like
"david what you talking about, no one is going to a movie"
then they walk away laughing :@
Grimmauld
04-05-2006, 12:20 AM
I've never experienced anything like this because I'm nearly a total outcast. I don't plan on making friends with these people in my class, they're either weird or stuck-ups just trying to me cool. Oh and hi Ellis! You were my friend on Habbo until you moved to HABBO USA. :o
splatttt
10-05-2006, 07:05 PM
Okay anyways, I'm in a cranky mood today. Don't you hate it when your GOOD friends plan something together and don't bother inviting you to it? What's worse is when they talk about it right in front of you or when you find out by accident and they invite you out of pity..
So anyways, my friends and I are outside and one of my friends asks me if i'm going out tomorrow with so and so. Then, another one of my friends nudges him and tells him to be quiet. Right there, I was so hurt x.x
But what ticksme off even more is that a few minutes later, the friend who told my other friend to be quiet came up to me and asked me if I wanted to go out with them tomorrow. I told him "Don't invite me out of pity, if you didn't want me to come, then don't bother." and I was in a bad mood all day.
And to think, these people were like my best friends. We go out to see movies whenever there's anything good like everytime we plan something. I don't remember doing anything to make them angry so I'm just like.. whatever, to hell with them.
BUT STILL =[ I feel depressed now x.xOMG thats happened to me so many times ! It really hurts ;l they all went to see a film with out me i was gutted
foxyfox00
11-05-2006, 11:42 AM
Yeah I Got That In The Hols, Obviously Everyone Had Left Me Out Of The Plan. It Hurts Especially When People Paired Up In Our Group, Damn Odd Numbers. Thank God For The New Girl!
letsdance6
16-05-2006, 08:51 PM
I get that, It's like once I was in P.E And we had to get into groups of 4, there was five of us and they decided to kick me out like they always do ;[
oh jeez, you cheated yourself out of fun on this one.
so what they invited you out of pity? you got invited didn't you? stop don't moan you can't go if you rejected the final offer. end of.
omgabear
17-05-2006, 07:52 AM
It could just be 1 friend, the other one wanted you to go.
Honestly that has never happened to me, its like a party. You cant tell someone about it and tell them its gonna be the best unless you actually invite them, thats mean :), you should talk to them.
Niall!
18-05-2006, 06:40 PM
something like that happened to me recently apart from i found out the hard way, my 2 best m8s where out together and didnt invite me and the fools walked past my house but ducked under my front garden wall, i ran afta them and caught them and asked why where they doing this, they said "because we use you for ur money, and yesterday you sed u where skint" and i brok there noses, but they where like my best friends and totally tricked me:(
ReInfected
18-05-2006, 06:53 PM
HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHH
Jasmin
21-05-2006, 01:51 PM
oh jeez, you cheated yourself out of fun on this one.
so what they invited you out of pity? you got invited didn't you? stop don't moan you can't go if you rejected the final offer. end of.
Yes but you dont see the point, they invited her/him only because they felt guilty or soemthing. The fact was that they never intended to invite her/him in the first place, and that does hurt.
YouFail
21-05-2006, 03:55 PM
I know just how you feel sadly...
My "friends" just started rubbering me and taking the mick. Then to rub it in even more one of my (ex) best friends went. Im going to Alton Towers!Then he goes here (other friends name) you wanna come? I'm allowed to take a person with me. I didn't want to go but it just feel like you get rejected and you feel depressed and rubbish
Mentor
21-05-2006, 04:12 PM
If you can only take one person to something or a limited amount, i would usealy go with the people who would enjoy what ever it was more, insted of whome was actaly my best friend, if im going to somewhere like alton towers, my best friend hates roller coasters etc, so i usealy invite a diffent friend who does like them. I have no problems if they choose to do the same with something else. Althogh, i would go out of my way not to talk about it in front of them, i wouldnt hide it from them, and they probaly know if i were going "/
Althogh if theres no reason not to take someone, and your left out on purpos i can see where you can take offence, but i dont think its logical to conclude that reason would simply be becuse they dont like you "/
YouFail
21-05-2006, 04:17 PM
Mentor,
I think he said that mainly to try and hurt me
Ryan+Joe
28-05-2006, 11:05 AM
lols. i don't get invited everywhere but when i am i just go. you cant always follow them like a lost sheep you know.
Okay anyways, I'm in a cranky mood today. Don't you hate it when your GOOD friends plan something together and don't bother inviting you to it? What's worse is when they talk about it right in front of you or when you find out by accident and they invite you out of pity..
So anyways, my friends and I are outside and one of my friends asks me if i'm going out tomorrow with so and so. Then, another one of my friends nudges him and tells him to be quiet. Right there, I was so hurt x.x
But what ticksme off even more is that a few minutes later, the friend who told my other friend to be quiet came up to me and asked me if I wanted to go out with them tomorrow. I told him "Don't invite me out of pity, if you didn't want me to come, then don't bother." and I was in a bad mood all day.
And to think, these people were like my best friends. We go out to see movies whenever there's anything good like everytime we plan something. I don't remember doing anything to make them angry so I'm just like.. whatever, to hell with them.
BUT STILL =[ I feel depressed now x.x
Never happens to me. get better friends
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