If you got a girl pregnant...? [Archive]

Dino-Typo

07-05-2006, 03:39 AM

This is mainly towards like under 16 i guess...

What would you do if you got a girl pregant by accident ofcourse? :P

My View: I always joke to my girlfriend i would move to france but i think i would say to her i would be as much envolved as possible. But we have been together for nearly 10 months so i guess im wiling to do that because we have had a long relationship.

FlyingJesus

07-05-2006, 02:27 PM

mynameishelen!

07-05-2006, 02:39 PM

I almost did with my girlfriend, we'd done the dirty unprotected and .. y'know, but it's quite easy to make sure there's not gonna be a baby. You can have the "emergency" pill which can be taken up to 3 days after, and is likely to be available for free from any local family planning clinic, so there's no excuse really.

Ew I think abortion is gross, however it's done.
If someone got me pregnant I would keep the baby, whether the boy was involved or not :]

FlyingJesus

07-05-2006, 03:12 PM

The pill isn't abortion.. The reason that it can only be done up to a certain time after is because before that time is up there's no baby growing, the egg/sperm are just sort .. thinking about it.

ssricky

07-05-2006, 03:14 PM

Ew I think abortion is gross, however it's done.
If someone got me pregnant I would keep the baby, whether the boy was involved or not :]
*cough* baby eater *cough* ye like u did with the popes baby and jojo u naughty minx ;]

Ostinato

07-05-2006, 03:16 PM

Lol excellent thread! :p

Hmmm well, me and my girlfriend have spoke about it, and she said she would definetely keep it no matter what...

Personally... I'd probably not want to keep it considering I have all my life ahead of me and it would basically ruin it, and in the end I could probably end up resenting it, because it stopped me getting a full chance of life (of course it'd be my fault though lol)...

Hmmmm... I dno I wouldn't mind if she keeped it though either, btu I'd make sure I was part of it's life.

It's actually quite scary how easily it could happen...

Axel

07-05-2006, 03:16 PM

I'd run...

ilovejordan

10-05-2006, 09:48 PM

If my guy got me pregnant i'd hope he'd stand by me and support me. I dont know what i'd do probs panic and go to a clinic or somethin

Badgez

10-05-2006, 11:00 PM

I'd be with her at all times, and try to make the babies life joyful. I've always wanted to be a dad :)

Niall!

12-05-2006, 06:52 PM

dunno lol ive neva had it lol, dont laugh i wanna b with my gf 4 at least 6 months before i do we've been goin for 4 but ive done everything else. i would make sure i was protected becasue i dont want a kid when im 15

dannyboymed

12-05-2006, 06:55 PM

I'd stick with it as best as I could, and try and be a good dad.

cocaine

12-05-2006, 06:56 PM

I'd stand by her as long as possible, that would be hard considering you've got all these exams and tests to make your future clear for yourself. But you can't always be there, for things like Uni, and stuff.

Brody

12-05-2006, 06:59 PM

i wuld stand by her and do wateva she wishes keep or abort it wuld be her choice

Chaz

12-05-2006, 07:03 PM

If i got a girl pregnt'

I would be a dad?

Edge

12-05-2006, 07:14 PM

As Seth said.. i'd run to be honest i wouldnt have the guts to face up to her parents if you get what im saying.

Emicat.

12-05-2006, 07:42 PM

It'd be a bit hard for me to get someone pregnant though.

If I got pregnant? I dunno what I'd do.

Craig

12-05-2006, 07:47 PM

I'm just glad I carry protection (H)

Well two incase one splits.

Jordey

13-05-2006, 12:30 AM

ive never used protection lmao just pulkl it out last minuet

Faye

13-05-2006, 06:27 AM

i would **** myself cause im only 11 :rolleyes:
erm .. and a girl...

Chaz

13-05-2006, 06:42 AM

i would **** myself cause im only 11 :rolleyes:
erm .. and a girl...
Bless, only 11 =')

Jordan3

13-05-2006, 08:24 AM

I would be supportive and help her with it.

JellyWorm

13-05-2006, 10:47 AM

All these people saying you would support her and help her with it... How when your under 16 u tards Pfft a baby would reck your life so if u want respect use a condom << Like on the advert :D

Michael.

13-05-2006, 11:44 AM

All these people saying you would support her and help her with it... How when your under 16 u tards Pfft a baby would reck your life so if u want respect use a condom << Like on the advert :D
Condoms aren't always effective. The safest way to avoid getting a girl pregnant is not to have *** with her.

So far, not a single pregnancy! :)

JellyWorm

13-05-2006, 12:25 PM

With a condom these a 2% chance the girl will get up the duff... so thats a 98% chance she wont...

bingoking

13-05-2006, 01:29 PM

well i would try my best to help her out even though i doubt her mom would let me, i have just become an uncle so i guess i would know what do with feeding, changing and burping the baby!

Webhamster

13-05-2006, 01:30 PM

At this moment I would discuss it with her and decide what to do.

Even though my sex life at the moment is poor

Rob

13-05-2006, 04:31 PM

I haven't got a girlfriend, and I've never had ***. I'm only 13. I don't think I'm ready for *** yet, especially if it's unprotected.

Rob

MBond

13-05-2006, 08:05 PM

Everytime me and my girlfriend do it, I always use protection. I always use a condom! And she takes the pill afterwards, just to be careful.
But it's important to only have S** if you are true about each other. Me and my girlfriend have been torgether for 2 Years now so if she does get pregnant, sure it would be a downer, but i would support her.

louder

14-05-2006, 07:44 AM

I would help out as much as possible,
1. Because I dont wanna leave a girl in a position like that
2. I'd LOVE to bring up a kid!

NekkLe

14-05-2006, 12:16 PM

Its a terrible situation to be plonked in tbh. Although the nature of birth is amazing I think at our age its terrible, I sure wouldn't like to be raising a kid from now until i'm about 25-30 years of age.

If I was to tho, i'd support them as much as I could.

RedStratocas

14-05-2006, 01:15 PM

It would never happen to me probably, but I would be supportive. With the 200$ to my name, thatll make a great college fund too. Just kidding.

Metric.

14-05-2006, 01:34 PM

I don't know.

My friend's mom got pregnant when she was 17 and the dad bailed on her, and she dosen't even know her dads name, and she dosen't want to know. She said that she dosen't want to know because he must have been an a** to not stick around, so she dosen't want to have anything to do with him.

issaa.

15-05-2006, 06:12 AM

If I got pregnant i'd panic.

Billabong

15-05-2006, 08:30 PM

Id try and persuade her to get an abortion as Im 14 and personally thats WAY to young to be a Dad, if she said no and had the baby id ****ing **** myself and panic

Colin-Roberts

15-05-2006, 09:00 PM

lol im with depression! i would ask her to do abortion but if no i'd be so ****ing confused and ****ed off but i would still stick around.

ilovejordan

15-05-2006, 09:34 PM

If I got pregnant i'd panic.

dont worry darling your still a virgin.

issaa.

15-05-2006, 09:35 PM

dont worry darling your still a virgin.
rub it in eh?

Ostinato

15-05-2006, 10:41 PM

rub it in eh?

No wonder so many of you kids do get pregnant underage and face this situation... you all make out as if it's such a cool thing to have *** and it's as if your jealous because you havn't yet someone else has, when your only 13? ;l

GreenCrayons.

16-05-2006, 07:16 AM

Well i actually had a lesson in p.s.h.e on this.
eww and this nurse asked for a volunteer and i put my hand up.
ended up having a comdom on the end of my finger wich was demostrating you know what lol.
Well there is the emergancy pill (strong) that you can have within 3 days but the quicker you take it the better!
Theres a little coil thing i think that you get put with by a doctor.
And a little tube0 thing that
can go in your arm i belive.

ALSO YOUR STILL ALL KIDS!
LIVE LIFE TO THE FULL! YOU CAN GET FACED WITH ALL THAT **** WHEN YOUR OLDER!

issaa.

16-05-2006, 09:54 AM

No wonder so many of you kids do get pregnant underage and face this situation... you all make out as if it's such a cool thing to have *** and it's as if your jealous because you havn't yet someone else has, when your only 13? ;lim joking, i don't really want to loose my virginity for a few years tbh.

macostar1

16-05-2006, 10:22 AM

Well you should take your time and decide what to do really but also make sure you are aware of the situation of course and your next step in the relationship

From
Macostar1

superstar911

16-05-2006, 06:11 PM

my gal refused 2 let me waer protection or her ave protection so we just ad it and im w8in 2 know if im gonna be a 13 year old father or not i hope not tho

splatttt

16-05-2006, 07:38 PM

Ew I think abortion is gross, however it's done.
If someone got me pregnant I would keep the baby, whether the boy was involved or not :]Helen i sooo agree with you i mean its not the babys fault is it? How can u just kill an innocent child .
Some of you guys just want to take the easy way out " make her have an abortion" But its not that simple Just think it could wreck there life. Like thikning about what their baby could have been like

jam666

16-05-2006, 07:57 PM

depends if i was in my 20's - 30's id be involved with the babie and the girl as after all it is your child you made it so its your responsibility however if i was under 16 well thats a different issue of corse youd want to support them both but they could be rejection by the girl and you could be embarrassed. thats all i have to say realy.

also 1 more thing the main question is if you want to have kids that will get yous thinking eh?

:baris:

16-05-2006, 08:43 PM

Helen i sooo agree with you i mean its not the babys fault is it? How can u just kill an innocent child .
Some of you guys just want to take the easy way out " make her have an abortion" But its not that simple Just think it could wreck there life. Like thikning about what their baby could have been like
Well you are right but think of the argument this way;
if someone got pregnent from a r.a.p.e, would you still
be against it? Just out of interest...:s

poll

16-05-2006, 09:03 PM

i would stick by the mother and child as im only 15 i have a g/f and she is willing to go there and to be honest so am i but i would use protection also if she was to become pregnant i would be there no matter what i would do all i can go out get like 5 different jobs if thats what it takes to raise the child id leave school id do anything for my g/f she means the world to me and if i had a kid it would be exactly the same

Polly-alyssa

17-05-2006, 06:41 PM

I haven't got a girlfriend, and I've never had ***. I'm only 13. I don't think I'm ready for *** yet, especially if it's unprotected.

Rob

me too. if i had s*x i would do it when i'm 16 to be legal. but i dnt hav a boyfriend nd i aint had s*x.

on the radio the other day tho i heard bout this 11 yr old girl who 'went out on a night out wiv her mates' then lost her virginity to a 15 yr old nd got pregnant. i mean dnt she hav any sense lol. to not even check if he woz using contraception either.

Nightrose

17-05-2006, 08:14 PM

I f i got pregnant i hope by boyfriend would stand by me otherwise i dont know what i would do, i think i would keep the baby as long as i wasnt 16

Dino-Typo

17-05-2006, 08:51 PM

a few poeple have made posts that look as if they think im saying i got a girl pregenent but i havent as of yet anyway and hope i dont as im only 14 lol :)

Scouse

18-05-2006, 12:09 AM

I'd tell her to get rid of it. :)

$.$

21-05-2006, 08:48 PM

The Professor

23-05-2006, 06:07 PM

my gal refused 2 let me waer protection or her ave protection so we just ad it and im w8in 2 know if im gonna be a 13 year old father or not i hope not tho

You must either be a devoted chav or extremely irrisponsible (although the latter goes well with the former). I suggest you go to your girlfriend and say "OMGZZZZZ! I IZ LYK CHAV!" Or something.

And i would be well and truly bolloxed.

lolwut

28-05-2006, 05:01 PM

Bit bizzare really, i don't really know what would happen if we did...

I think i would be happy, and attemp to still enjoy my life and raise the baby.

'tis hard to telll :l

Ryan+Joe

29-05-2006, 10:40 AM

i dont know. but tbh i'm not that stupid to have the big s before 16.

:dallsgreen

05-06-2006, 09:16 PM

Seeing as im turning 16 next week and i dont think im gonna be doing it before then, I dont really know. But either way Id stick with the girl, you both made it so you should both stick by it.

Assid_Rane

06-06-2006, 02:59 AM

wen i was 16... i lost my virginity + she got pregnant first time! :o

at first i was really worried etc. not because i didnt want the baby, but because i had to tell my parents, but turns out they were ok with it, a lil disapointed, but ok.

so me + debbi (the mother) came to terms with it + decided we were gunna keep it.

so yeh, if i was to get a girl pregnant, id wonna keep it + be the best father i could.

ps. im not a dad. if you are really interrested then pm me, but i dont wonna talk about that on the forum.

Syntax.

06-06-2006, 08:04 AM

Personally, i wouldn't be as stuiped to Get a girl pregnant before 18, maybe not even then, because i wouldn't be able to be a good father untill i'm mature and a reasonable age to settle down, and i think that applys to everyone.

Fiddle-Sticks

06-06-2006, 08:38 PM

i would **** myself cause im only 11 :rolleyes:
erm .. and a girl...

LMAO! Reasions you cant get a girl pregnant:
1. Your too young
2. Your a girl
3. Arent you too young to do it?

If I did I'd be happy! I love babies! But, it nearly happened twice and I was really scared!