How do u tell someone you dont love them?

[Nightrose]

Um well my mate told my bf it was over but he still talsk to me like we are together but i think we would be better off just as friends like what my mate said but he hasnt listenend, and i not keen on hurting people that much.

Ostinato (Forum Moderator) Thread closed at creators request. :]

[Nightrose]

Sorry for double post but anyone?

[Zenzi]

Preferably somewhere private. Not in a public place, they'll never forgive embarrasment.

Somewhere out in the open. If theyre violent, you need someone to call an ambulence and keep you alive.

Somewhere they can't throw you out of. If you go back to theirs, don't make yourself look like an idiot by being thrown out or have things thrown at you from a window.

NOWHERE WHERE THEIRS SIBLINGS! Don't dump someone near to someones older brother or sister. It may be the last thing you do. :P

If you're a guy, i'd just tell her that you're gay, you'll end up best friends. It worked for my old girlfriend, but the only differance was, i wasn't just lying to get out of the situation. :P

[Nightrose]

Thanks for that +Rep for it Lol im a girl :)

[Zenzi]

Thanks for that +Rep for it Lol im a girl :)

Oooh. Sorry! :D

[Ostinato]

Sit him down and just explain the situation being honest. Tell him you think he's a great guy and you do love him, but just not in the same way he does you. Explain to him how you feel you would be better as friends and your not looking for a relationship at the moment.

As long as your honest, and at least try to respect his feelings then he should be fine... The sooner you leave it though, the more it will hurt him...

[James!]

Erm, " I dont love you "

[Zenzi]

Erm, " I dont love you "

You're such a sarcastic ****er. Why don't you log off, or stop taking the mess out of people.

[Nightrose]

Sit him down and just explain the situation being honest. Tell him you think he's a great guy and you do love him, but just not in the same way he does you. Explain to him how you feel you would be better as friends and your not looking for a relationship at the moment.

As long as your honest, and at least try to respect his feelings then he should be fine... The sooner you leave it though, the more it will hurt him...


Thanks so much.... :) +Rep

[Emicat.]

Its the worst thing to ask your mate to tell them. They will think they are just joking. You have to tell them. Just say "I don't think this is working" and explain about your feelings.

[Nightrose]

Thanks for the advice everyone

[Chris.]

Soz I Dnt Love You
Block Them Or Run Off
;)

the greatist way eva is the burnsey way
;)

[louder]

"I don't love you kthxbye." Still having Matt troubles..? He's such a sad act.

[Nightrose]

UMM yeah but im sorting it out

[edible]

Uhm, just explain your feelings..
BUT BRING HIM AN APPLE :D - Oh he might throw it at you..
Er yeh k, sit him down and sing :
I JUST DONT LOVE YOU NO MOREEEEEEEEE (8)

Songs are fun, but really just ask to be friends..

[HellyBelly]

Preferably somewhere private. Not in a public place, they'll never forgive embarrasment.

Somewhere out in the open. If theyre violent, you need someone to call an ambulence and keep you alive.

Somewhere they can't throw you out of. If you go back to theirs, don't make yourself look like an idiot by being thrown out or have things thrown at you from a window.

NOWHERE WHERE THEIRS SIBLINGS! Don't dump someone near to someones older brother or sister. It may be the last thing you do. :P

If you're a guy, i'd just tell her that you're gay, you'll end up best friends. It worked for my old girlfriend, but the only differance was, i wasn't just lying to get out of the situation. :P

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
So somewhere private, but out in the open? oh that makes sense.
And most people her age [which i'm guessing is 13-15] aren't likely to get violent, or throw her out of something :rolleyes:
Life isn't like Eastenders you know.

[Frurb]

Say im sorry but im dont have the type of feelings for you as you do me
Then give him a big hug
Then ask him if hes ok
Then walk away

The hug will make him feel loved even though you may not love him

[Ostinato]

I'm glad everythings sorted for you! :]