Complicated.

[louder]

Well, I have to think about my lovelife now aswell as revising for tests, doing homework and having a decent social life..

Okay. So. I have a friend, probably my best friend who is a girl and she's been a great friend of mine ever since she moved from Birmingham to Plymouth which is over a year now and the other day she admitted she liked me, and I mean she is absolutely crazy for me. The only thing is, I really like Cassie (Growl) and we're planning to meet in the summer etc. and now I think another girl i've liked for a while is kinda liking me a bit (cuz she's been flirting with me alot recently) and then, the other day, I was walking home from school with my best friend and when we're about to go our seperate ways she goes "Wait, I have somthing really important." then she turns around and snogs me.. That confused things alot as I don't even know if I like her.. It's so hard..
Help please?

[HellyBelly]

You and Cassie isn't going to happen lolololol.
Stick to the girl you know in rl.

[louder]

Who? My best friend or the other one?

The other girl: I don't know if she likes me, she's really popular and stuff and i'm the person in school who everyone hates..

[HellyBelly]

The one who snogged you is probably the best bet :P

[louder]

But I dunno if I like her.. I've always seen her as my friend.. nothing more..

[Craig]

As Helen said you won't get with Cassie(Growl) so pick one of the other 2. Whichever one you prefer personality wise.

[louder]

As I said, I like the "other girl" her name is Chelsea. But she hangs around with all the popular people and dates people in higher years and stuff. I dont stand a chance tbh.

[FlyingJesus]

Well now that something's happened between you and your chum, why don't you see how it goes? If you're that good friends with her you could probably have quite a good relationship.

[Nightrose]

Umm cant say much just follow ur heart and go withthe one that feels right but dont take advice from me, see how thinsg go with ur best friend for a few days and see how cassie goes in the summer etc

[louder]

Well now that something's happened between you and your chum, why don't you see how it goes? If you're that good friends with her you could probably have quite a good relationship.

But it would feel mega weird.. I mean.. I always saw her as my mate then just going out with her? It would feel so weird.

[ShoutCast]

lunk it does sound weird but it is easier cause you act like friends so your not shie as much to eachother and if it doesnt work you can laugh about it later as friends (been there done that)

[omgabear]

First of all... ANIME FTW

Secondly. Find out if you love her, relationships wont last if you go into them with your doubts.

[Ostinato]

Well, I have to think about my lovelife now aswell as revising for tests, doing homework and having a decent social life..

Okay. So. I have a friend, probably my best friend who is a girl and she's been a great friend of mine ever since she moved from Birmingham to Plymouth which is over a year now and the other day she admitted she liked me, and I mean she is absolutely crazy for me. The only thing is, I really like Cassie (Growl) and we're planning to meet in the summer etc. and now I think another girl i've liked for a while is kinda liking me a bit (cuz she's been flirting with me alot recently) and then, the other day, I was walking home from school with my best friend and when we're about to go our seperate ways she goes "Wait, I have somthing really important." then she turns around and snogs me.. That confused things alot as I don't even know if I like her.. It's so hard..
Help please?

Okay, first of all I'm going to reply to the post then read everyone elses, so as of yet I havn't read what anyone else has said!

Anyway... You say this friend of yours likes you. You need to decide if you like her more than a friend or whether or not you just like her as a friend and you know that, that's all you ever want it to be. It isn't fair for her to kiss you, and you not to make it clear that you don't like her, because when she told you she liked you, if you didn't make it clear you wern't interested she would perhaps think she had a chance so went for the kiss. You need to sit her down and explain that you simply love her as a friend, and think you two would be better staying that way.

You also say you like someone online and plan meeting with them... Obviously you know this is extremely unsafe, and I definetly don't advise you to go ahead with it unless you have at least seen this person on webcamera and have spoken to them on the phone, and when you meet them ensure you have a friend or adult with you, just for safety. Also, I personally don't believe internet relationships can fully work, as you can only learn so much from a person via the internet, and that's only the personality they can show you, it's not trully what their like as they can portray themselves as something their completely not. However, this obviously isn't always the case and is only my opinion.

Basically, for now, I think you shouldn't see either of them. Concentrate on your studies and your social life, and once your exams and what not are over with, allow yourself to fret over relationships etc. Like you said, you have the stress of your exams and that at the moment, so this stress could reflect on the decision you make with these girls, and you may later regret it in the future. Take some time just to think it over I say!

[Ryan+Joe]

RL or net? Kinda easy decision.

[MattUH]

I PICK NET. WAS I RIGHT?

No go with the essay man.

[Tank User]

Well did you like the kiss?

[Nightrose]

way to bump lol

[foxyfox00]

Wow thats really uh *****ed up!

Long distance relationships dont really last, the net thing can get weird. That leaves the best friend and the hot girl.
Hmmm the hot chick might like you.

But you may as well go for the best friend. She probarbly feels weird coz she kissed randomly and you were shocked and she has made the friendship complicated so you might as well go out with her because the friendship is already comprimised.

And tips on getting randomly kissed PMSL....