Help My Life

[DJ-Precocious]

I am and have been a Goth for some time now since my uncle comitted suicide and my best freind fell onto the motorway and died, now my life is going downhill and i need help...

I am not stupid so im not slitting my wrists and i dont have suicidal tendancies but i do have a bad life from love to freinds so please can some people have a heart and give me help.:eusa_wall

[clarizza]

you havn't really made it clear what you want help with?

[ASHFELT]

I am and have been a Goth for some time now since my uncle comitted suicide and my best freind fell onto the motorway and died, now my life is going downhill and i need help...

I am not stupid so im not slitting my wrists and i dont have suicidal tendancies but i do have a bad life from love to freinds so please can some people have a heart and give me help.:eusa_wall


I dont really know what you could do but you could see a councellor about all your grief, loosing loved ones is always sad and hard to get over but you have to go on with your life remembering all of the good memories of them and knowing they led a happy life.

When it comes to love there will always be times things get hard but you should always hold on and hope for the right person to come along who likes you for who you are, as for friends it is always best to talk to new people and tr and get to know them better. If there are issues involved with current friends or other people it is best to try and discuss it with them or your parents.

All the advice I can think of mate, hope it is useful and please cheer up, it is not always going to be bad in your life, just focus on your future and happy memories :)

[DJ-Precocious]

I thought i had made it clear but i just need to know what to do and how i can make friends and get along without thinking about all the bad things that have happend to me

And ashfelt thanks for the advice i will take it into account

[FlyingJesus]

I am and have been a Goth for some time now

There's your problem. I got nothing against people dressing in a certain way or being part of a certain subculture (humanity needs subcultures due to the metropolitan lifestyle we now lead) but goths are generally up everyone's noses, so you'll be hard pushed to make strong connections with anyone else unless they're also goths. Most people will tell you not to change how you are just to fit in, but if you're comfortable doing it then go ahead, there's no harm in changing your dress sense. Ditch the bondage trousers and dodgy makeup, acting "goth" will only serve to remind you of the bad things, as you'll link the fashion to your past tragedies.

Like ASHFELT said, a counsellor could be what you need, someone to talk to properly about your problems, someone who knows what they're on about and can suggest the best ways to overcome grief with professional knowledge.