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Buddy
16-06-2006, 03:33 AM
Can anyone tell me if the mark you get across your wrist ever goes away. About 4 months ago I was going through alot of stress with my parents breaking up. My dad would always get mad and take it out on me. When we got in fights he would say some really mean stuff to me that hurt me so badly. So I ran downstairs and took a razord blade from the medical kit and I sat there and looked at my wrist and forced myself to cut. Thankfully I didnt do it that bad to make me die from it and barely any blood came out. But today if I could go back to that day I wouldnt have done it, I would have just went out with my friends instead for some fresh air but now I have a small dark scare going across my wrist. In the 4 months that have gone by it has faded to be barely noticable, but if I look closely I can still see the scar.

Will it ever go away?

Lucozade
16-06-2006, 06:06 AM
Put some massage cream on it move it around like ure masaging it then put a badage on for about a week, i doubt it will work, scars don't go away.

Nightrose
16-06-2006, 06:52 AM
nope they will stay they might fade a buit more tho

Many
16-06-2006, 09:59 AM
It will stay.

Assid_Rane
16-06-2006, 10:42 AM
Put some massage cream on it move it around like ure masaging it then put a badage on for about a week, i doubt it will work, scars don't go away.

doesnt that only work like a while after the wound? this was like years ago.

anyway, i dont think it will ever go. but some scars do. depends how deep it was. but then again, if its already been there for years, i doubt its ever gunna disapear sorry.

but anyway, ur wrist isnt a very usual place to look, so i doubt anyone will see it. especially since it has faded.

plus, it may be a good thing that its there, like a reminder to never do anything like that again. if you get stressed or ever feel like doing anythin like that, u can just look at ur scar + it can remind you that cutting yourself does help the problem. you have to sort it.

index.html
16-06-2006, 10:59 AM
I Once scarred my g/f's name into my arm when she left me. :D

Assid_Rane
16-06-2006, 11:02 AM
I Once scarred my g/f's name into my arm when she left me. :D

ive done that :P i wrote "i love katie" lmao :Pbut hen again, i was like 10 or sumthin lol

Please reply to the original post... Urges

ilovejordan
16-06-2006, 12:19 PM
It'll never go. It'll fade but never dissapear. However, you can have laser surgery to get rid of it :P

sarey
16-06-2006, 12:38 PM
If it wasnt too deep, the scar will fade over years, but if it was deep/wide, then it will probably take longer, it will fade, but it will take time. Some scars never fade if their too deep/wide. So if it doesnt fade, just say you got an oven burn. Lols, my mum always gets them on her fingers, so yeah, say that if you dont want anyone knowing about that scar. If you dont want that scar yeah do what they said- Laser surgery. Interesting.

Ostinato
16-06-2006, 03:01 PM
No. Scars are obviouslt permanent, unless like suggested you get laser treatment etc. but that's a bit drastic! :p

If it isn't too big like you say, then I wouldn't worry about it, as I doubt anyone will notice it, so it will never be brought up. From experience though, scars do generally fade over the years if they arn't that bad, and become fainter as time goes on. So I sya just ignore it for a wee bit more!

Also, this will be a good reminder for you. Any time anything happens in the future and you thin of doing this again, you can look at your wrist and just remind of yourself of what happened, and hopefully it will stop you from doing it again. :]

Place:P
16-06-2006, 03:06 PM
Can anyone tell me if the mark you get across your wrist ever goes away. About 4 months ago I was going through alot of stress with my parents breaking up. My dad would always get mad and take it out on me. When we got in fights he would say some really mean stuff to me that hurt me so badly. So I ran downstairs and took a razord blade from the medical kit and I sat there and looked at my wrist and forced myself to cut. Thankfully I didnt do it that bad to make me die from it and barely any blood came out. But today if I could go back to that day I wouldnt have done it, I would have just went out with my friends instead for some fresh air but now I have a small dark scare going across my wrist. In the 4 months that have gone by it has faded to be barely noticable, but if I look closely I can still see the scar.

Will it ever go away?

ahaha, next time think twice before slitting yourself.

sarey
16-06-2006, 03:35 PM
Not exactly his fault, Place.
Stress can do alot. Make people do things they have to do to make the stress go away, dont say how. :/ Look it up. Under selfharm/self multilation.
And Ost, scars do fade, over years they do, some cuts ive had have turned into scars, and faded. Depends on the length, width and depth of the cut.

Campina
16-06-2006, 03:39 PM
its abit silly to slit yourself anyway :l

sarey
16-06-2006, 03:43 PM
On the wrist area, yeah.
But selfharm aint silly, its what selfharmers do to cope.

Ostinato
16-06-2006, 03:54 PM
http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=183089

Just created. Hopefully be some help to yourself, or maybe other self harmers reading this thread. :]

Buddy
16-06-2006, 09:51 PM
Before I slit my wrist I always thought to myself that I would never get depressed enought to do that. But all the depression came so fast I wasent even thinking. The only thing that was going through my head was how bad I was feeling at that moment. To this day, I cant believe that I actualy slit my wrist, but I did.

Lyca
16-06-2006, 10:00 PM
As you grow older and your body develops it will not be visible

Tank User
22-06-2006, 04:34 PM
I have an extremely emo friend that cuts alot. They go down over time, but by the time they do my friend has cut again and made new ones:(


(Not me)

edible
22-06-2006, 04:59 PM
i feel all sick from reading this. i cannot touch my self or bend any part of my body. and i cannot feel my feet :(

But yes scars do generally fade. if its too deep/ wide it'll talk a while.
I have a burn scar on my leg and it went about a year and a half after..

ReInfected
22-06-2006, 05:11 PM
Some of you are disgusting. Cutting someones name into your flesh? Wth? "Oh god! I broke up with my g/f!! Now im gonan carve her name into me and keep it forever so i will tell my wife whne im 34" >.> SOME of you are weirdos. Why result to cutting? There are other things rather than opening your self..

sarey
22-06-2006, 05:14 PM
Why thanks.
Nice too know im a weirdo. :)
But why result to cutting?
Research it and ull see why.
Also, not everyone cuts someones name into ftheir flesh..

edible
22-06-2006, 05:28 PM
People result to it because it takes away the pain. But yes it's a tad obsessive if you carve someones name in your skin. It's probz alright if it had been like for 5 years together.

y2kt
22-06-2006, 06:48 PM
It depends how bad it is. When I have slit my wrists in the past, the scars gradually faded and most can't be seen at all now, whereas others can be seen up close.

sarey
22-06-2006, 07:04 PM
I suppose its a bit obsessive if they carve it in their arms.

jordybumz!
22-06-2006, 07:13 PM
Mine have faded but you can still kinda see them.

sarey
22-06-2006, 07:19 PM
From ur sig ud of thought id never knew you cut ur wrists :rolleyes:

DMB-Hosting
22-06-2006, 07:25 PM
Na it will fade slightly but itll stay there.

ReInfected
22-06-2006, 07:39 PM
a tad obsessive? How about too obsessive. And theres other ways to relive stress other than cutting. It isnt the only way.

sarey
22-06-2006, 07:53 PM
Uh huh.
Not when its:
Addictive
Mmhm.
A yes its obsessive to do that.

FlyingJesus
22-06-2006, 08:08 PM
Some of you are disgusting. Cutting someones name into your flesh? Wth? "Oh god! I broke up with my g/f!! Now im gonan carve her name into me and keep it forever so i will tell my wife whne im 34" >.> SOME of you are weirdos. Why result to cutting? There are other things rather than opening your self..

I have the initials of a certain woman on one of my arms, with a heart around it. I didn't do it because of breaking up though, it was because 1} I was (and still am) completely mad about her and 2} it was a couple of years ago when I was an idiot. I did it as a form of scarification (similar to tatooing but without ink) rather than as a sign of depression. That and I was probably bored.

-=rooty987=-
26-06-2006, 05:17 PM
Unfortunatly, it won't go away. I can look at my arm and I can still see all the scars from a year ago - and some deeper ones are still very visible.
If you get a tan you can see them even more. They probably won't go away, but it will remind you never to do it again. Trust Me.

-Soph-
27-06-2006, 04:54 PM
It will fade over time probably, Depending on how deep you did it

Hartleys
27-06-2006, 06:01 PM
Just don't do it again =)

Catzsy
27-06-2006, 06:29 PM
Just don't do it again =)
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Very sensible advice :)

Hartleys
27-06-2006, 06:32 PM
Thanks =P i remember ages ago, the boys in my class used to have a "cool group" and to be in it you had to scratch yourself with a sharpner blade, ofcourse i never did it =)

Pompous-User
30-06-2006, 10:05 PM
It's like, Emoz.

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DJ-Ali
30-06-2006, 10:29 PM
Sliting your wrists is stupid I'll have to admit, but it's fun! I've carved my name into my arm. Was Fun. :D

Pompous-User
30-06-2006, 10:45 PM
It's like, Emoz.

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aleri
30-06-2006, 10:52 PM
I heard that exposing scars to the sun helps it heal.. i could be wrong tho =']
My friend once carved her bf's name into her arm, it went all bloody and scabby, i think she regreted it a lot, but you can barely see it now. :)

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30-06-2006, 11:35 PM
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sarey
01-07-2006, 12:02 AM
Uhm. Pomp grow up pls. And cutting isnt fun. Its addictive, and some people who want too stop, hate it, and for them, im sure theyd say, its NOT fun. If you think its fun, then you are one stupid person because loads of people cut, and im sure they wouldnt judge it as fun.

JackHb
01-07-2006, 02:17 PM
Can anyone tell me if the mark you get across your wrist ever goes away. About 4 months ago I was going through alot of stress with my parents breaking up. My dad would always get mad and take it out on me. When we got in fights he would say some really mean stuff to me that hurt me so badly. So I ran downstairs and took a razord blade from the medical kit and I sat there and looked at my wrist and forced myself to cut. Thankfully I didnt do it that bad to make me die from it and barely any blood came out. But today if I could go back to that day I wouldnt have done it, I would have just went out with my friends instead for some fresh air but now I have a small dark scare going across my wrist. In the 4 months that have gone by it has faded to be barely noticable, but if I look closely I can still see the scar.

Will it ever go away?

If you wanted to die then you would of done it downwards, cutting down your wrist and cutting the artery downawards would kill you very quickly.
If you didn't cut it to bad and no blood came out then you probably only marked the skin, so it will probably fade within a few months atleast.

sarey
01-07-2006, 03:40 PM
Jacks right... but sometimes if you cut downwards doesnt go too plan.
But, you wouldnt be telling everyone you want too die, if you do, you'd spare urself from telling everyone, and just do it. But anyway, i dont understand why people want too die, life too me is like a test trial, so why fail it? Just make the best off it, you only live once in this crazy world, so make thebest of being here, you never know what the afterlife is, it could be worse, it could be diasterious every second, and painful, but heres fine, because pain fades away here, but it could be eternal pain in the afterlife, *shrugs*, just my opinion. But anyway, lifes worth living, thats the point of life, living. So yeah.. if anyones like all depressed, do something about it, seek help, but dont try killing yourself, its not worth it, and kind of selfish for those who love you, and care for you.
Lovely speech their, its too most people who are depressed/suicidal/whatever.
And dont cut yourself again, especially on the wrist, because i bet the second you do, the second before you actually die, you'll wish you never did it.

FlyingJesus
01-07-2006, 03:49 PM
If you do it in a hot bath it works a treat, an easy, quick and relatively painless way to die.

Velv
01-07-2006, 04:38 PM
i think you can buy creams that help scars to heal. Also i heard that some people scar easier than others so i guess just wait it out and eventually it might go away. :)

sarey
01-07-2006, 05:40 PM
Flying, sometimes that dont work, sometimes you could survive that, cause its a low chance yeah, but sometimes some people have survived slitting their wrists, but anyway, its pathetic and worthless, you could do alot of damage, like tissue damage, and regret it, you can also hit that thin bone or any bone in your wrist connected too your fingers, and loose them. Painful if you survive though. A bit painful while doing it, since your hitting a one of the sensative areas in your body.

Safe Virus
01-07-2006, 07:23 PM
I had 20 scares on a arm, I went on a holiday and got a tan and they faded... Sun helps I think...

Splinky
03-07-2006, 05:47 PM
i scratched myself so hard i cut myself when i was about 10 and there is a red mark there still. That was 3 years ago.

Rou
03-07-2006, 05:50 PM
I Once scarred my g/f's name into my arm when she left me. :D

How foolish "/

Climax
04-07-2006, 01:26 PM
THE SOLUTION IS:

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paradise
04-07-2006, 07:52 PM
I have slit my wrists 5 times, I have 2 scars... They fade but they never go away, trust me...



- Spider.

Stab
05-07-2006, 05:19 PM
umm umm, you know the guys who make waspeezee?
basically they do this thing called burneezee, its meant for burns *duh
but it works on scars, i had a small scar, and i sprayed it with the burneeze and it healed, something to do with the air tight skin it makes...
you could try that, but im not saying it would work, its a nice idea all the same.

lbFX
05-07-2006, 10:02 PM
Burn yourself, the scars aren't noticible after a year.

DJ Rareness
07-07-2006, 03:05 PM
Thats pretty stupid, just why? :S

asher_
07-07-2006, 03:27 PM
Burn yourself, the scars aren't noticible after a year.

ERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

sarey
07-07-2006, 03:37 PM
Burn yourself, the scars aren't noticible after a year.

Pathetic thing to say since if you burn yourself, the scars are sometimes perm.

Rareoid
07-07-2006, 03:41 PM
Burn yourself, the scars aren't noticible after a year.

Or just don't slit your wrists in the first place?

kreechin
07-07-2006, 04:07 PM
to be honest i think cutting yourself is silly, and coming from me that saying something, not innocent myself but the scar left on my arm aint to pretty at all even though its is my enitials its not something im proud of..so yeah its a stupid thing to do.
It's becoming more of a trend nower days with the whole trend of the 'emo' kid. with one trend comes another.

DJ Rareness
07-07-2006, 04:11 PM
Kree - your sig offends me, pls change it

Vixen43
07-07-2006, 04:24 PM
you were unsuccessful in your attempts to murder yourself poor sheissen

DJ Rareness
07-07-2006, 04:25 PM
LOOOOOOOOOL

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lilpuppygamzova
09-07-2006, 03:19 AM
I Once scarred my g/f's name into my arm when she left me. :D
N0W WE KNOW YOUR LYING!1:$

sarey
09-07-2006, 03:32 AM
N0W WE KNOW YOUR LYING!1:$

Hes my BF tyvm. >.>

Pompous-User
10-07-2006, 06:33 PM
Oh, I am getting aroused by all this slitting wrist talk.

sarey
10-07-2006, 07:22 PM
Oh, I am getting aroused by all this slitting wrist talk.

Oh your so sick. Go die. Ktybi.

Pompous-User
11-07-2006, 08:19 PM
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Andie
16-07-2006, 09:39 AM
I Once scarred my g/f's name into my arm when she left me. :D

Ditto. In march, i was in hospital for ages cos i also lost a lot of blood doing it. she still doesnt care.

yamiyugi111
16-07-2006, 01:44 PM
lol

Remember-u-will-go-to-hell

dont-try-anythin-suicidal-now:eusa_danc

ClaretVillan
16-07-2006, 02:13 PM
They Will Defo Stay

Ryan+Joe
16-07-2006, 04:38 PM
scarred 4 lyf

lbFX
16-07-2006, 11:13 PM
My hands are quite burned, not self inflicted though.

(Me and my mates made a fire, someone chucked a deodorant canister on, blew up, some plastic smoldered on my hand as a result of the explosion.) It wasn't painful at first, but when it's healing, that's when the pain kicks in.

They skin tone is just slightly different.

(If you want to harm yourself, do this.) Atleast you won't die. (ON A SERIOUS NOTE I WOULDNT RECOMMEND SELF HARM ANYWAY. TALKING TO SOMEONE IS THE WAY TO GO.)

SuperBunny
19-07-2006, 10:37 PM
omg i hate f-ing emo's, they cut for attention, any one else that cuts does it for other reasons, cuttin is not silly or stupid, if u have never cut then you wouldnt understand, ppl myself included go trough **** in there lifes it affects them, cuttin helps them feel alive, do any of u no what it is like to never really feel, cry, be happy, have to pretend u have all these emotions when reli you are dead inside, cuttin is sme ppls lifelines, its not sad or pathetic and lots of ppl that do it dont do it for attention,if they did want attention y would they go to such lengths to hide their cuts and scars. reli sme of u should think before u speak, to sme1 that cuts for good reasons, what some of u have posted is truly affensive and not in the least bit helpful, dont think these ppl no that cuttin is not the best thing to do and dont u think they want to stop, but its soo hard and what if its all u have? just think before u speak ok

Ryan+Joe
24-07-2006, 09:40 AM
omg i hate f-ing emo's, they cut for attention, any one else that cuts does it for other reasons, cuttin is not silly or stupid, if u have never cut then you wouldnt understand, ppl myself included go trough **** in there lifes it affects them, cuttin helps them feel alive, do any of u no what it is like to never really feel, cry, be happy, have to pretend u have all these emotions when reli you are dead inside, cuttin is sme ppls lifelines, its not sad or pathetic and lots of ppl that do it dont do it for attention,if they did want attention y would they go to such lengths to hide their cuts and scars. reli sme of u should think before u speak, to sme1 that cuts for good reasons, what some of u have posted is truly affensive and not in the least bit helpful, dont think these ppl no that cuttin is not the best thing to do and dont u think they want to stop, but its soo hard and what if its all u have? just think before u speak ok
U TELL HIM GF.

sarey
24-07-2006, 09:42 AM
omg i hate f-ing emo's, they cut for attention, any one else that cuts does it for other reasons, cuttin is not silly or stupid, if u have never cut then you wouldnt understand, ppl myself included go trough **** in there lifes it affects them, cuttin helps them feel alive, do any of u no what it is like to never really feel, cry, be happy, have to pretend u have all these emotions when reli you are dead inside, cuttin is sme ppls lifelines, its not sad or pathetic and lots of ppl that do it dont do it for attention,if they did want attention y would they go to such lengths to hide their cuts and scars. reli sme of u should think before u speak, to sme1 that cuts for good reasons, what some of u have posted is truly affensive and not in the least bit helpful, dont think these ppl no that cuttin is not the best thing to do and dont u think they want to stop, but its soo hard and what if its all u have? just think before u speak ok

Yeah, you tell 'em! :eusa_clap

Nixt
24-07-2006, 09:42 AM
omg i hate f-ing emo's, they cut for attention, any one else that cuts does it for other reasons, cuttin is not silly or stupid, if u have never cut then you wouldnt understand, ppl myself included go trough **** in there lifes it affects them, cuttin helps them feel alive, do any of u no what it is like to never really feel, cry, be happy, have to pretend u have all these emotions when reli you are dead inside, cuttin is sme ppls lifelines, its not sad or pathetic and lots of ppl that do it dont do it for attention,if they did want attention y would they go to such lengths to hide their cuts and scars. reli sme of u should think before u speak, to sme1 that cuts for good reasons, what some of u have posted is truly affensive and not in the least bit helpful, dont think these ppl no that cuttin is not the best thing to do and dont u think they want to stop, but its soo hard and what if its all u have? just think before u speak ok

Who asked for that? No one, so if you want to make a complaint about emos go make a thread about it? Kthnx...

The scar most likely won't go, it will fade and may one day disappear, over time you will barely be able to see it. It depends really on how hard you cut. But scars are for life, not just for christmas.

Ryan+Joe
24-07-2006, 09:43 AM
Who asked for that? No one, so if you want to make a complaint about emos go make a thread about it? Kthnx...

The scar most likely won't go, it will fade and may one day disappear, over time you will barely be able to see it. It depends really on how hard you cut. But scars are for life, not just for christmas.

She can have her opinion. ;/

sarey
24-07-2006, 10:06 AM
She can have her opinion. ;/

I agree and omg.... u changed ur name lmaoooooo nice name.
:P

Nixt
24-07-2006, 10:11 AM
She can, but is it really anything to do with what the thread starter asked for... I am sorry if I sounded rude, but it annoys me when people ask for advice and people just criticise em.

louder
25-07-2006, 10:19 PM
Can anyone tell me if the mark you get across your wrist ever goes away. About 4 months ago I was going through alot of stress with my parents breaking up. My dad would always get mad and take it out on me. When we got in fights he would say some really mean stuff to me that hurt me so badly. So I ran downstairs and took a razord blade from the medical kit and I sat there and looked at my wrist and forced myself to cut. Thankfully I didnt do it that bad to make me die from it and barely any blood came out. But today if I could go back to that day I wouldnt have done it, I would have just went out with my friends instead for some fresh air but now I have a small dark scare going across my wrist. In the 4 months that have gone by it has faded to be barely noticable, but if I look closely I can still see the scar.

Will it ever go away?

no it wont, i have 2, one of my ex-girlfriends name and one from depression, i did the one cuz of depression first, you can barely see it unless you look closely but the other one is still there and it's gone white! god damn scars, wish i never did either.

Nia12
01-08-2006, 05:51 PM
I can't say for sure but it will probably scar, but if you just leave it for a few months and forget about it, it might fade so much you can't see it unless you really look closely

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