Advice please ;)

[Campina]

ok at skool i hang around with about 6 girls and i always get called names
but the problem is i dont want to hang around boys and the boys always call me a girl because i hang round with some i really would like advice
on how i can stop them?

[Ostinato]

Personally, I hang around with about... 8 girls and 2 boys mainly, and then I'm really friendly with all the other girls in my year also, but less boys.

Of course, over the years people have commented on how I seem to have more female friends than males, and some people have made rude remarks. The way I basically deal with it, is just ignoring it and moving on.

Honestly, you have your friends and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter what gender they are, aslong as you find the aspects of a true friend in them then who cares what these people think. As you grow up more you'll realise you will become close friends with more girls and more boys, by working with them etc.

Honestly, you shouldn't care what they think, and if they have anything to say just tell them to grow up, think about it - at least you've got friends! :]

[omgabear]

Personally, I hang around with about... 8 girls and 2 boys mainly, and then I'm really friendly with all the other girls in my year also, but less boys.

Of course, over the years people have commented on how I seem to have more female friends than males, and some people have made rude remarks. The way I basically deal with it, is just ignoring it and moving on.

Honestly, you have your friends and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter what gender they are, aslong as you find the aspects of a true friend in them then who cares what these people think. As you grow up more you'll realise you will become close friends with more girls and more boys, by working with them etc.

Honestly, you shouldn't care what they think, and if they have anything to say just tell them to grow up, think about it - at least you've got friends! :]

How the hell can I top that?

[omgabear]

Personally, I hang around with about... 8 girls and 2 boys mainly, and then I'm really friendly with all the other girls in my year also, but less boys.

Of course, over the years people have commented on how I seem to have more female friends than males, and some people have made rude remarks. The way I basically deal with it, is just ignoring it and moving on.

Honestly, you have your friends and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter what gender they are, aslong as you find the aspects of a true friend in them then who cares what these people think. As you grow up more you'll realise you will become close friends with more girls and more boys, by working with them etc.

Honestly, you shouldn't care what they think, and if they have anything to say just tell them to grow up, think about it - at least you've got friends! :]

How the hell can I top that?

[Uwe]

ok at skool i hang around with about 6 girls and i always get called names
but the problem is i dont want to hang around boys and the boys always call me a girl because i hang round with some i really would like advice
on how i can stop them?


Ignore them. all I can say.
I hang around with 2 other boys and about 10 girls... so yeah ;)<3

[Rizla]

Well, the fact that you only hang around with girls and chose to have "Camp" in your name suggests you're one of the camp kids in school ;) Why do you care what somebody you don't know thinks about you? ;)

[Craig]

Well tbh in our school the kids that mainly hang around with girls all the time get called gay and stuff like that - basically our whole year says it apart from the girls, and yes I do say it aswell. But boys are just stereotyped as having male friends so they can talk about boy things with,where as girls you just cant.

[Campina]

Campina has nothing to do with sexuality
its the make that makes yazoo ;) my fave drink

[Rizla]

Ah right, still, it had to be said :p

[Craig]

But you admitted your gay in another thread? Try and come out so these names stop.

[-complex-]

its not such a problem at my school because nearly everyone gets on
i no many boys who hang around with a group of girls and dnt get picked on and visa-a-versa with the girls.

There jst acting imature ignore them.:)

[Rizla]

Some kid in my school who only hangs around with girls came out as bi, and nobody really says anything bad to him..

[Ostinato]

Whats any of this got to do with sexuality? Just because a boy hangs around with a group of girls doesn't make him gay or bisexual.

Is it honestly such a big deal to have a mixed group of friends these days? People really need to grow up and move on, and simply learn that the whole stereotypical idea of 'OMG YOU HANG BOUT WIF GURLS U R SO GAYYY', means you obviously fancy boys, just isn't true.

Also, I noticed someone touched on people being camp. The same idea again, just cause some boys are perhaps, more in touch with their feminine side, and could be classed as 'camp', that doesn't mean their gay. I know some camp people who have steady girlfriends, and have physical relationships with them, which simply proves that doesn't mean their gay!

[Rizla]

Stereotyping allows for jokes ;)

To be honest, I've never spoken to anybody camp that's not turned out gay/bi. Metros seem to have a bit of campness around them, but not full blown "bent-wristedness". Also, he said it's "I only hang around with girls pretty much", or something along those lines, so it's not mixed friends.

[Ostinato]

Stereotyping allows for jokes ;)

To be honest, I've never spoken to anybody camp that's not turned out gay/bi. Metros seem to have a bit of campness around them, but not full blown "bent-wristedness". Also, he said it's "I only hang around with girls pretty much", or something along those lines, so it's not mixed friends.

Lol well you obviously havn't been around long enough to meet an extremely different range of people. Not all camp people turn out gay you know. Some people I know who could be classed as camp are in marriage... camp is different from being gay sexually.

[Craig]

He admitted he was gay though Ostinato.

[Rizla]

I know camp and gay are different, I'm just saying I've never met a camp-straight guy. And you're right, I'm 15 in liverpool, there's a wide range of camp people here, honest! :p

[Ostinato]

He admitted he was gay though Ostinato.

Lol I know. I'm not arguing for the fact of his sexuality, that's nothing to do with it. :p

The only reason I said what I did, was because it was being portrayed that all people who are classed as 'camp' must be gay then, which isn't the case.

[y2kt]

I'd just ignore them if I was you. Having girl mates is good anyway. I wish I had more female friends to be honest, as most of mine are male, and I feel girls are better to talk to than boys and can be more understanding about stuff.

[DMB-Hosting]

Just ignore, them if they havnt got anything better to do then thats their problem

[Herman]

There's nothing wrong with hanging out with the opposite gender. Personally I have more friends who are girls than those who are boys. Simply ignore them. I kind of had the same problem last time, but with ignorance, soon they got bored and stopped. :P

[SnowTwist]

If You Hang Around With Girls So What!
Least You Have Friends At The End Of The Day.....

[Rizla]

With ignorance they stop? It's ignorance that makes it start ;)

[Emicat.]

Four words, sthu.

[Rizla]

Sure, why don't you go back to sucking upto shenk? ;)

[AdamCookie!]

Ignore them, girls are usually easier to get on with than lads anyway. ;)

[8Freak8]

I seem to have more girl mates than boy mates, but people leave me alone because they can blatantly see that I fancy one of the girls.

[micky.blue.eyes]

The reason they pick on you:
They are probably jealous, I know, it's something used a lot to make somebody feel better and stuff, but I think they are jealous that you are in better contact with girls than them. ;)

Girls become mature sooner than boys, so it just means you're mature (or maturer than those boys) and want to hang out with other mature people, and those people just happen to be female.