How do you reject a girl nicely?

[Buddy]

:s Yesterday my friend got asked out by this lower class girl at my school. We all just laughed, and she ran away crying.
A few minutes later a teacher came up to us and started ****ing at us.
She told us that was really rude what he did.
Can u guys tell me how to reject them and they dont run away crying? :s :s

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[Kaixx]

Say no nicely, and don't laugh. O_o Easy.

[alexxxxx]

I just say... I'll think about it, and then say I don't think this is working out... And then they leave because they think your an idiot/something which I cannot say on this forum.

[FlyingJesus]

Tell them you're involved with someone else, that way they don't have to think there's actually anything wrong with themselves.

[Leuven]

Personally I would say

"I'm Sorry, but No, you're cool and funny but I just don't see us going out with each other"

[Buddy]

But that girl was ugly..

[Leuven]

Say the same thing.

[-Wolverine]

Tell them you're involved with someone else, that way they don't have to think there's actually anything wrong with themselves.
What he said, it makes most sense, but the only bad part about it is that they might ask to see your gf or something and then if you don't have one she'll find out your lieing.

[Ostinato]

Whats the point in saying your with someone else, that way it makes the person think you maybe do like them, if it just wasn't for this other person, and eventually when they find out this person doesn't exist they'll be even more hurt.

I say just tell them the truth. Why not just exlpain to them that you like them a lot and their a great person, but you think you would be best off as friends rather than jeprodise your friendship in the long run...

[ilovejordan]

What you did was mean. You cannot reject a girl in a nice way because it isn't nice to reject them obviously. but if i was rejecting someone i'd just say sorry no or, i dont think it would work. Laughing at that girl was just cruel "/

[Mitchell]

Dude! If she was ugly just tell her" get the hell away".

[ReInfected]

ROFL hahah poor girl. I would've laughed too. Mean, but funny.

[:dallsgreen]

Lol, thats funny, but totally mean.

[Mentor]

3 words "i am gay"


... ok ill lay of the simpsons quotes now

[jordybumz!]

Just be straight with her. It's better than lying that you like her.

[Emicat.]

But that girl was ugly..
Not an excuse.
I got told that this guy that I really like was interested in someone else...

I just kept wondering what was wrong with me (Still am) so all you can say is no. Of course its gonna hurt, but they'll get over it.

I haven't yet...

[nixons-a-noob]

lolololololololol

gg

girl got pwned

[StripedTiger]

ignore nixons.

anyway, yeah i agree with Emicat.

just tell her how you feel? but dont do it infront of people, take her to one side and tell her just you n her to take away the embarrissment.

[Rizla]

You just say no, that's all. Don't laugh in their faces, that's just pathetic :rolleyes:

[HellyBelly]

say you're gay.

[Frodo13.]

Id just say YES because I havnt had a gf for ages and Im gettin desperate

[jordybumz!]

just say no :s

[Ryan+Joe]

I just say no. ;/

[Tank User]

Girl: Will you go out with me?

You: Sorry but im not really looking for a relationship at the minute.

Girl: Oh ok.

Sorted;)

[Callum.]

But that girl was ugly..

She might be nice on the inside.

[i luv rosie]

tell me how to reject them

you can't reject without them hating you back for a few days/hours/minutes/seconds/years/decades/ect.

[paradox]

Just say you like being single but thanks for the offer. And why would it matter now because you've rejected her anyway :s

[Lozzoling]

say you fancy someone else

or you're going out with someone from another school

[Rizla]

Don't give excuses, just say no, but don't laugh at them ;)


She might be nice on the inside.Like that matters in primary school ;)

[iAdam]

Just say no and if they keep asking just walk off then you laugh.