Help please

[JT-Fan]

Okay here goes,
Basically I wear glasses and have got a new frame which I realllly like. But loads of people keep making fun of them, my mates dont but just "popular" boys in our year.
And it's like when I wear them there can't be a lesson without them all picking on me and teasing me.
"EW THEYRE TOO BIG"
"EW THEY MAKE U LOOK UGLIER THAN U R"
"HAHA AT THE SQAURES"
"THEY ARE UGLY"

I just ignore them at first. but now it's really getting to me because they literally point and laugh. And then I come across all happy/bubbly because I dont want them to see its really hurting me.
What do I do..it's really upsetting me now. And its making me sad because they keep doing it. Even people just say stuff like "EWWW UR GLASSES EWWWWW UGLY" it still upsets me because they do it all the time.
Thank you,
Rups

[Nixt]

They are the ones with no life. If you like the frames, that is what is important; don't let anyone else get in the way of who you are. Don't change for any person!

[JT-Fan]

But they just go on so much it upsets me.

[HellyBelly]

Try telling them it upsets you?
They might just think it's teasing, and that it doesn't bother you, they might stop if you ask them to ^_^

[Nixt]

:@ If you have to get rid of them, then that is what you have to do. If it is upsetting you to that point anyway.
My advice however is to show them that you don't care what they think, you look good and that is all you need to worry about. In a few years time, it'll be you laughing at them because they are led on the street to smashed on drugs to get a job because they spent all their time in school being idiots.

[JT-Fan]

Helly Iv asked them already and they wont stop.
Yeah they do take drugs..

[DanielTownsend]

wear boring glasses at school, what the ****s may think look cool, but when outside of school wear the glasses you like, or you can get contacts.

[JT-Fan]

I do not want to change my glasses fgs.
Why should I hcnage for them.

[DanielTownsend]

Because then they wont pick on you and your problem will be solved

[JT-Fan]

But I dont want to change just so they stop picking on me "/
They are my glasses, I want to wear them.

[DanielTownsend]

Then find something about them what you can laugh at them for.

[Nixt]

I do not want to change my glasses fgs.
Why should I change for them.

Precisely. Don't change them, show them that you don't care. They'll soon forget.

[JT-Fan]

But I have had them for a week and they aint forgotten they just get worse and wrose

[Nixt]

This is a damn hard one. The thing with bullies is they never give up. Keep them and they carry on, get rid of them they win. The best thing to do really is to have a word with a teacher or a parent, stop them that way. Alot of people are reluctant to do it; which is why I am reluctant from usually proposing it, but in this case... you really should.

[DanielTownsend]

I am really really tall, about six foot,when I was at school I was tallest in my year, people called me Lanky **** all the time, I couldnt do nothing, one time I tried saying something back and I got hit in the face, so just ignore them, I'm sure you got mates right, then just hang round with them, thats wot I did and the hole of my year got divided into a hole lotta groups, so just ignore them and hang with your friends.

[DanielTownsend]

This is a damn hard one. The thing with bullies is they never give up. Keep them and they carry on, get rid of them they win. The best thing to do really is to have a word with a teacher or a parent, stop them that way. Alot of people are reluctant to do it; which is why I am reluctant from usually proposing it, but in this case... you really should.
If they get told by a teacher to stop, they will become rebels and do it anyway.

Sorry for the double post.

[Azul]

stick up for yourself, you wuss.

[Nixt]

If they get told by a teacher to stop, they will become rebels and do it anyway.

That is one of the reasons I am reluctant to recommend it. But what other choices are there. And of course it varies in the school you are in; my school takes the zero tolerance approach. Anyone who bullies someone risks expulsion. Other schools are far too lenient.

[JT-Fan]

Yeah about the rebel thing.
Yeha all my mates love them and when they tease me they just tell me to ignore them/

[DanielTownsend]

dont be a ****, he might not want to be violent, this thread is to help him anyway.

[JT-Fan]

her**

And no I am not going to hit these people lol.

[Nixt]

he might not want to be violent, this thread is to help him anyway.

It's a her ^^

[DanielTownsend]

sorry I didnt know it was a her.

[HellyBelly]

if you have a friend who's friends with the boys doing it, ask them to ask the boys to stop it?
she/he could tell them it was upsetting you & all that.

[Nixt]

if you have a friend who's friends with the boys doing it, ask them to ask the boys to stop it?
she/he could tell them it was upsetting you & all that.

Got a point ^^ Try talking to them yourself as well maybe?

[DanielTownsend]

Now I know shes a girl it changed the hole thing, because when girls bully thats bad, they dont know when to stop.

[Azul]

slap the bitch up.

[DanielTownsend]

she doesnt want to hit no one azul

[HellyBelly]

she doesnt want to hit no one azul

lmao, i think he might have been joking ;]

[Azul]

then she continues to be bullied. Her choice.

[DanielTownsend]

Yeah maybe, but she should laugh with them about it and maybe they will stop.

[JT-Fan]

no no the people who are teasing me are boys lol