A date?

[Blinger1]

Would you call going out for lunch with someone a date?

[Capri-Sun]

yes :eusa_danc :eusa_danc

[Blinger1]

yay : o)!! I went out to a cafe had lunch there it was awesome! we didnt kiss because we are just friends but we hugged when i said bye! (going to the movies with her too:D)!!!

[Capri-Sun]

do u like (like) her ???

Cause if u do i would make a move in the next couple of date ;)

[Blinger1]

i like her :-) but, i think she likes someone else because at school she hangs on him like a cat on a piece of wool

[Capri-Sun]

:rolleyes: lol just ask her she will tell u

[Blinger1]

i know she will tell me... but should i wait a bit more because we mainly talk at the local footy, bit on the school bus and by sms (shes gonna wax my legs... lol)

[Capri-Sun]

lol just say do u LIKE me and then if she says yes kiss her and see wat she does lol :eusa_danc

[Blinger1]

lol just say do u LIKE me and then if she says yes kiss her and see wat she does lol :eusa_danc

i like your thinking:eusa_clap and if she tells everyone

[Capri-Sun]

well if she tells everyone that she liked it then ur ok but if she says he just kissed me for no reason :o dont be worried or that lol it will die down and then just ask her again or something lol

[Blinger1]

i could just say 'do you like me' and if she says 'yes' what could i say apart from just kissing her

[Capri-Sun]

i like u to would be a start lol

[Blinger1]

so im ment to say "i like you too" if she says "yes"

[FlyingJesus]

Ask her when you next go out with her, during a boring bit of a film so she isn't too distracted or something. And yes, if she replies positively, tell her that you're into her.

[Blinger1]

there is no boring bits in The fast and the furious tokyo drift :(

[Capri-Sun]

lol ur *****ed now lol

[Blinger1]

thanks for the help : o) i repped you two for the help!

[StripedTiger]

Hmmmmmm maybe?

if its jsut you and them then yeah xD

[Rizla]

Shane's gonna get laid!

Anyway... better late than never, but I would call it a date yeah, and especially the movies. Great date spot - No talking :)

[Blinger1]

IM GETTING LAID *that guy on msn dancing* :P
we are going to the movies on friday and we are gonna get some lunch. would she think im a cheap ******* if i use a free token thing i got from the footy? (buy one thing get another free)

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[RLY-CRAIG?]

Nope I wouldn't

[Rizla]

I wouldn't use a free token, unless you can turn it into a joke, like say "I'm a cheapskate, I don't give a ****" :p Although since I don't know the girl, I'm not sure if she'd go for that :p

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[Ostinato]

Hmmm.

Whats with all the '"I'm going to get laid"' rubbish if you don't even plan on kissing her if she admits she likes you... ;l.

I would class going out for lunch as a date, yes, and a following date to the movies also. During them movie just whisper to her quietly about stuff, and ask her if shed like to come out on another date, then you could tell her you like her.

Personally, I don't think you should ask her if she likes you - if she does she might get a bit scared or won't like being put on the spot, and may just say no anyway incase you don't like her.

Good luck, and enjoy your date.

[Rizla]

Whats with all the '"I'm going to get laid"' rubbish A joke ;)

[MrCraig]

Ask some of her friends who they think she likes then SWEAR THEM TO SECRECY! if its you, you can admit your feelings for her, but if it isn't just wait it out, relashionships change like the weather, whats johnny depp today could be you tomorrow :)

[Catzsy]

Ask some of her friends who they think she likes then SWEAR THEM TO SECRECY! if its you, you can admit your feelings for her, but if it isn't just wait it out, relashionships change like the weather, whats johnny depp today could be you tomorrow :)

Very sensible advice +Rep

[omgabear]

If its with your mum or family member... no...
A best friend.... no
A girl you like.... yea

[Blinger1]

well, we went to the shopping centre ready for the movie but she looked at the wrong time so the movie wasnt on:(!!! It was arkward today when i went to see her at the football and when i was leaving she asked if i liked her more then a friend i said no because it was an arkward time. How can i say 'i like you more than a friend' now but i dont know how!

[Rizla]

When you next go out with her, get the conversation flowing, maybe a bit of flirting, then make her laugh, and when the conversation has that little pause, say "You know what you were saying the other day..." ;)

[Bravo.12]

if it comes to your worst " she will say, i like you as a mate " Just see what happens in the cinemas, Ask when the time is right, when you feel comfertable [Soz bout spelling] Dont ask her out, if you are afraid she will say no.. Be confident. Good Luck mate. P.S She might only want to be friends.;)

[Blinger1]

next time would be ages away cause school starts again. i'll ask her what she means by 'you said something yesterday to hit it' though i dont remember saying anything!! and she wont reply to my text message :s

[Rizla]

Play it cool for a bit, don't want to seem like a stalker ;)

[Blinger1]

true true, though my dad bugged me to go say hello. I'm gonna say hi on the bus as she sits next to me %90 of the time:) (the bus is full and i save her a seat!)

[Rizla]

If she's sitting next to you don't just say "hi", talk to her :p

[Blinger1]

yeah we talk normally! We ask each other if we go to the local footy on the weekend, i normally go all the time and she doesnt!

also go on msn ryan *beep*!

[Rizla]

Can't, it's saying I have to install the new WLM, and I can't be bothered right now :p I'll leave it downloading since I'm going out later, but you know, 56k....

[Blinger1]

oh, www.e-messenger.net !

[Rizla]

Bah, I'm off out now anyway. What time is it there? I'll be back later, but you'll probably be in bed :( Later Shane.

[Blinger1]

8:14pm, what time u gonna be back:(

[JackHb]

Would you call going out for lunch with someone a date?

No, you should know if its a date or not anyway :s ...........

[FlyingJesus]

If its with your mum or family member... no...
A best friend.... no
A girl you like.... yea

Darn, and I thought I had a chance after taking my mum to lunch..

[Blinger1]

No, you should know if its a date or not anyway :s ...........

i dont go out with friends/chicks much! and why isn't it called a date then:rolleyes:?

[H.bubbly]

erm , no not really.

in my opinion

a proper Date is when you like , go to a Fancy restraunt with someone ?

[Rizla]

^ You're 13, not 20;)

[Blinger1]

a fancy restaurant costs seriously ATLEAST $50 :|!!!

[FlyingJesus]

Not sure of exactly what the exchange rate is of Australian dollars to Sterling, but that looks about right at $50 yeah, when I took my ex out to a decent (not top range but not KFC either) restaurant it cost about £30. Fair enough to spend that on someone you've been going out with for a while, but it's rather costly when it's someone you're not even officially "with".

[Stab]

Lunch SCORE jk
:) lmao, yer it is, whatever meal, place, time it is, its still a date