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Hitman
02-07-2006, 08:24 PM
I hate my life, my mum never talks to my dad and is horrid to him, but is nice to others and my dad has had enough and has gone. :( I was so angry I snapped my glasses and I can't see very well now and have an awfull headache.

I was in a fight with some moron at a park, I was going to strangle him but thought better of it.

I have missed a lot of school because I have been ill a lot. My life sucks, I wish I could give it to somebody in Africa who is poor and helpless. I can't stand it anymore, my friends don't like me much, my mum is mean to me.

I don't know what to do. Look for my glasses is the first thing...

:(

brandon
02-07-2006, 08:30 PM
I'm sure you don't mean it. Can you imagine that there are lots of others in deep poverty that have it worse then all of us. I think you're just going through a bad phrase, we all think that at times but I hope there is light and the end of the tunnel for you :).

Hitman
02-07-2006, 08:34 PM
I hope so Brandon. I hope it gets better. :(

brandon
02-07-2006, 08:37 PM
It will mate, just believe it and hope. I've gone through a similar phrase and came through a stronger person :)

Impossible
02-07-2006, 09:07 PM
Aw dude, i feel sorry for you. I went through something similar a few months back in january, i hated my mum, my dad walked out and was going to move abroad, though i liked my dad more.. I threatened to kill my mum, and smashed up her phone and MP3 player, cut the computer wires up and went to live with my dad, started getting bullied at school, and feeling like i was worth less than dog crap. I now just recently moved school and now i live with my dad and i get along with my mum better. If you want to talk to me PM Me.

Hitman
02-07-2006, 09:28 PM
Thanks Ryan, thats how I feel, like dog crap. I just can't go on like this, I'm 13 and wanting to exit life. :( I just wish everything was better...

Thank you for the offer Ryan, I just feel really weird... Maybe it's because of my glasses, I found them all crumpled and smashed :(

clarr
02-07-2006, 09:38 PM
Always look on the bright side of life(8)

Impossible
02-07-2006, 10:04 PM
NP Kapt. Like i said, pm me if you get into any trouble.

Ostinato
02-07-2006, 11:26 PM
I hate my life, my mum never talks to my dad and is horrid to him, but is nice to others and my dad has had enough and has gone. :( I was so angry I snapped my glasses and I can't see very well now and have an awfull headache.

I was in a fight with some moron at a park, I was going to strangle him but thought better of it.

I have missed a lot of school because I have been ill a lot. My life sucks, I wish I could give it to somebody in Africa who is poor and helpless. I can't stand it anymore, my friends don't like me much, my mum is mean to me.

I don't know what to do. Look for my glasses is the first thing...

:(

Okay, first of all don't worry. A lot of teenagers go through a phase like this, but as some people have already said they come out from it a better person and learn from it.

You say your mother and father have split up, due to her not being nice to him etc. But you need to realise this is only the side you seen of it from your persepective, there could have been a lot more going on behind closed doors than what you actually knew. At the end of the day though, they've now split up and you just need to accept that and deal with it. Of course, it's hard dealing with your parents splitting up, but it can work.

Most likely your dad will enjoy life more now himself without the stress from your mother etc. and your mother will also be able to loosen up, and like you say you are getting on better with your mum already, so that's gotta be a good thing!

Now, about this fight in the park. I'm glad you were mature and big enough just to walk away from it, and that's a really good sign. It shows your not just a silly boy who's going to run to violence everytime something gets bad, and there's other ways to resolve a situation than fighting. Be the bigger man and walk away.

Since your glasses are broke and your under 16, you will be able to make a free appointment with your opticians and arrange an eye check, and you'll als be able to get free glasses, so don't worry - that's not that big a deal, but your eyesight is obviously important and you need to wear your glasses, which will also help with your headaches etc.

Missing school because your ill can't be helped, and your school will just need to understand that and take it into consideration, which they most likely will.

If you feel your friend's dont really like you, then make new ones. Whats stopping you going out and getting talking to a new bunch of people and just getting in with a new crowd, you could maybe join a club like tennis, football etc. or whatever interest you have, which will allow you to do something you enjoy, get some time out the house and also make some new friends at the same time.

Finally, I would just like to say although you are on a bit of a downer at the moment, you really need to think about what you said about giving your life to a poor african. Would you honestly rather you would be able to switch places with someone there? At least in the life you have, you're always going to be kept safe, have a roof over your head and the government etc. will take any measures they need to, to ensure your welfare. Although your going through some troubles at the moment, trust me, you would definetley hate it even more if you were one of the poor africans you spoke of.

Look at the good things in life, and concentrate on them!

foxyfox00
03-07-2006, 03:43 AM
Well only you cant get your life back on track which you have already started so :eusa_clap congrats. Egtting some new glasses would be a starting point.
Next just try to sort out how you feel in relation to your parents. Personally I know how hard dealing with a break-up is and YOU have the right to fell how ever you want.
As for school just go everyday, and catch up on work because thats all you can do. Do something you enjoy everyday and take life as it comes. If you ever want to talk or what ever free free to PM me anytime and i'll reply:D
Good Luck

StripedTiger
03-07-2006, 03:33 PM
yeah like can hurt and can be hard, its impossible to get by without any problems. if your friends dont like you much, find out why. see if you can change for the better for them and others, or find new friends.

try talking to your mum and bonding with her? im sure deep down inside shes afraid, hurt and upset like everybody else. she just reacts to it differently from others as no one is the same

omgabear
05-07-2006, 03:25 AM
Take more of an optomists aproach to life. Your young, you got a hell of alot to look forward to :)

Stab
05-07-2006, 05:15 PM
If you are in a constant feeling downyness, but always think positive, change things, make things better, thats what i do
by having the right attitude, you can make things just that little bit better
also, just think for one second now, what good can come from getting upset?

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