huge problem with my girlfriend

[Andie]

Right well, two weeks ago, me and girlfriend fell out over something stupid I said. We then talked things out and said that maybe we shouldn't go out. We were close friends for 3 more days. Then her friend started hitting on me, and my girlfriend (i'll use that term for easyness) blamed it all on me. She won't talk to me at school. Won't pick up the phone. Won't reply to my emails. Won't answer my texts. I've been crying my eyes out over it for the past week and a half or so. Loads of people have been trying to help me out, as we were couple of the season a while ago. But now, its just over.
She said she loved me. But it was my fault that we broke up 'cos of what I said. She said to my friend, who's her friend, that she still has feelings for me. But I don't know.

Any advice? I really miss her and want her back.

Please?

[Royksopp]

dude that is a shame an all but if you love her and she loves you then in the end it will all work out it always does but sometimes people lose the love in eachother

[8Freak8]

Yeah I agree with Cillit.

Maybe try something romantic? Make sure she has no doubt who you prefer. Does she know you're crying about it? Crying might make her realise how strongly you feel for her, or she might think you're pathetic. Normally I think girls either hate guys crying and think it's sad, or feel loved if a guy cries over losing them.

[Ostinato]

It seems like your in bit of an unfair and tricky situation.

You need to decide whether or not this girl really is worth it all. You said something you didn't mean to and you've apologised and tried to work it out, and hey - everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance, but your girlfriend seems to have treated you quite badly.

However, in the same way you seem to love her and if she has feelings for you, then nothing should be stopping you.

You need to make sure she knows you have feelings for her, and that the whole thing with the other girl hitting on you was nothing to do with you on your part and that you wern't interested.

If she's still not for having it, maybe lay off for a bit and just give her the space she wants to clear her head, and eventually in time she should want to speak to you again.

Good luck mate.

[foxyfox00]

Well it does sound like your in a tough situation.
Give her time, she probarbly needs it. Apoligising
will smooth the situation over. Maybe write a letter
with a poem, hand made things mean alot more to
us girls.

She has to want to make the relationship work
otherwise it will be one sided and she wont put
in the effort.

Sounds like you love her, good luck with getting
her back.

[Many]

You gotta do something that she'll think is nice of you, somthing nice, ask a girl..

[Andie]

Well it does sound like your in a tough situation.


Give her time, she probarbly needs it. Apoligising
will smooth the situation over. Maybe write a letter
with a poem, hand made things mean alot more to
us girls.


She has to want to make the relationship work
otherwise it will be one sided and she wont put
in the effort.


Sounds like you love her, good luck with getting

her back.

Tried the handmade thing. I painted a picture for her (i am rubbish at art), she stuck a ruler through it. As for the letter/poem, she burnt it on a bunsen burner.

I've apologized about 2148967134786 times. I'll give her some space and time.

[Ostinato]

Tried the handmade thing. I painted a picture for her (i am rubbish at art), she stuck a ruler through it. As for the letter/poem, she burnt it on a bunsen burner.

I've apologized about 2148967134786 times. I'll give her some space and time.

I think that'd be best. She'll start to get even more annoyed if you continue pestering her a lot so just give her a couple of weeks space and let her chill and calm down then try and approach her again and tell her you only want her to listen.

[edible]

Do this
Get this mate you say your friends with who's friends wit her, and get them to pretend to meet, but you two meet..
Make it romantic. But also do give her some space.. Try just talking to her..
Without pestering her.
But good luck babes :D