hitting girls: right or wrong?

[kasi]

k i messed up on the poll on the other thread lmao..

um question to guys: do you think its okay to hit/abuse girls/your girlfriend? & why?

personally i don't think its right.

[i luv rosie]

i don't think its right for anyone to be hit ;l

[infatuation]

like I said before, if they are coming at me with something, surely I'm not going to stand there letting them slice me in three's

[Drooped]

only in extreme circumstances would i think about hitting a girl, say she's trying to R me or... kill me ;)

but otherwise, you deserve to be badly beaten yourself.

[MsTanya]

its not right at all, knocks me sick

[Notex]

It is NOT ok what kind of question is that and if you do answer yes you need to see a counciler or something..
If you cant beat a guy in a fight dont go off and hit a girl.


only in extreme circumstances would i think about hitting a girl, say she's trying to R me or... kill me
but otherwise, you deserve to be badly beaten yourself.

Dude wth.. You could push her away.. you must be pss weak to think of doing that.

[jordybumz!]

i don't hit girls, but i've never really understood it. human rights people are always saying girls should be treated as fairly as boys, and that they're as physically strong as boys, so if a girl hits you first, i've never understood why a boy can't hit back to defend? i wouldn't ever do it though because i'd get crucified. ;x

[StripedTiger]

okay, if its for jokes and you are just carrying on yeah okay hit a girl, for fun that is. and nott oo had either.

but if its a serious hit then no its v.wrong

[brandon]

Only if she kept constantly attacking me, I'd do it for self-defence, if not no it's wrong.

[Wayne]

Hitting a girl is wrong. Girls should never be hit, abused or anything in a violent manner.

[brandon]

you could say that about boys though, if girls are claimed to be as strong as boys, and equal then then it should work vise versa.

[Drooped]

It is NOT ok what kind of question is that and if you do answer yes you need to see a counciler or something..
If you cant beat a guy in a fight dont go off and hit a girl.



Dude wth.. You could push her away.. you must be pss weak to think of doing that.

i hate being called dude it's so... hippy!

it's in the usertitle or my user if your calling me anything ;)
also, things always are possible. so DUDE i said in extreme circumstances, idiot.

[ProudHelper]

By law, it is not right. Men were brough up learning that hitting girls is wrong. But what if a girl hits you? What if she is abusing you? Then by law you have the right to hit back.

I feel hitting anyone for no reason is wrong. Unless you are defending yourself, then you shouldnt be hitting anyone.

[GommeInc]

Depends if they are constantly hitting me and are hard to distinguish between a girl. If the girl who was hitting me is some bossy, female dog like girl, I would slap/nudge/push her repeatedly to knock some sense into her, but if she was gentle and a 'nice' girl, then I won't. Nice meaning she is normally a friendly person and is only angry at you for some strange, unknown reason.

Self defence wins in my books!

[omgabear]

Its wrong, unless your fighting a ninja demon warrior girl then its ok... other than that... wrong.

[tbh imo no m8]

I fink its completely wrong if she is coming at your with something tbh it won't be that hard tog et out the way (No offence girls)

[Craig]

No matter how bad the scenario is I would never hit a girl

How can you think about harming someone that is or resembles someone you care about? You want to live with a woman yet you choose to hit them? Effing wrong if you ask me "/ Say if we were to get into the position where we'd be getting raped or attacked by a female,get the hell out of there. Don't bother to start hitting her cos not only is it morally wrong but the woman would just say to the police you tried raping her and gave her the bruises/whatever ;/

At the end of the day if you hit a female your not a man.

[tbh imo no m8]

Exactly what i think i just put it in shorter terms :p

[GommeInc]

No matter how bad the scenario is I would never hit a girl

How can you think about harming someone that is or resembles someone you care about? You want to live with a woman yet you choose to hit them? Effing wrong if you ask me "/ Say if we were to get into the position where we'd be getting raped or attacked by a female,get the hell out of there. Don't bother to start hitting her cos not only is it morally wrong but the woman would just say to the police you tried raping her and gave her the bruises/whatever ;/

At the end of the day if you hit a female your not a man.
Although some of that is true, there are a few problems.

Firstly, with the hit something you care about. I would be sort of worried if you do not care for anyone of the same sex, like your friends, so if you hit someone who is the same sex, you are hitting someone that resembles your friends?

Secondly, most women have major differences than a normal woman. So when you look at your mother, you are seeing someone you care sexually about? And wouldn't it be a bit strange if you looked at a girl who was attacking you and thought "she resembles my girlfriend" OR "I might marry this girl one day?"

Yes it is morally wrong and the legal system is a bit crap in places, but why would you hit a girl who was attempting **** or attacking you when you can simply push her gently out the way or put her into a position where she cannot hit you or something e.g. holding her hands in one hand? From what I remember, you cannot get bruises from doing that, and she might be looked upon as insane screaming to the police "He tried torape me, look at my none existent bruises!"

Besides, self defence isn't necessarily about violence, most situations can be avoided by simply talking. If a woman was to attack you, just dodge them and say "Leave me alone" and if she continues, walk away or repeat "Leave me alone." If she is far to stupid to leave you alone, walk away!

[Craig]

Although some of that is true, there are a few problems.

Firstly, with the hit something you care about. I would be sort of worried if you do not care for anyone of the same sex, like your friends, so if you hit someone who is the same sex, you are hitting someone that resembles your friends?

I meant it in the context as in they look like your girlfriend/lady friend or actually is your girlfriend/wife like there's Wife Beaters out there, damn idiots ;@ [Them not you:P]


Secondly, most women have major differences than a normal woman. So when you look at your mother, you are seeing someone you care sexually about? And wouldn't it be a bit strange if you looked at a girl who was attacking you and thought "she resembles my girlfriend" OR "I might marry this girl one day?"

No it's not always on a sexual context and -hypothetical question- also say if you were going out with a girl and this girl is perfect,but she is utterly hammered one night and starts getting lairy[sp?] and starts just hitting you for some bewildered reason[nothing hard] would you hit her back? I for heck know I wouldn't I'd probably let her cool/calm down and sober up.


Yes it is morally wrong and the legal system is a bit crap in places, but why would you hit a girl who was attempting **** or attacking you when you can simply push her gently out the way or put her into a position where she cannot hit you or something e.g. holding her hands in one hand? From what I remember, you cannot get bruises from doing that, and she might be looked upon as insane screaming to the police "He tried torape me, look at my none existent bruises!"
Legal system is pretty crap in alot of places:P And that's what I was saying when a girl attempting ****/attacking you, there is other solutions than hitting them! But some people resort to hitting them which can give bruises,I didn't say holding her hands with one hand to stop her would give her bruises cos I agree that is a good method to use. But as I said some men hit back usually in the face in which case a female could bruise and say to the police "He tried to **** me" in which case the man would go down for defending himself.


Besides, self defence isn't necessarily about violence, most situations can be avoided by simply talking. If a woman was to attack you, just dodge them and say "Leave me alone" and if she continues, walk away or repeat "Leave me alone." If she is far to stupid to leave you alone, walk away! This topic wasn't really about self defence though,more aobut hitting a female. And yes there are far better methods instead of violence e.g talking which I totally agree with. I agree with this paragraph actually.

[Victimized]

What about a she-male?

[Lubricant]

It's wrong. I would never hit a girl

[Rizla]

It's wrong, but as somebody has already said, don't all these feminists go on about equal rights? That means if a girl hits you, you should be able to hit them back. It's takes a severe beating for a woman to go down for domestic violence, but a man can just give one punch, and he's a wife-beater. Surely everybody on this forum has been with a girl you've wanted to smack at times? But you don't. Yet if it was a lad, you would. Why? Aren't girls equal. Girls can generalise about men, but if a man does it, "CHAUVANISTIC PIG!" According to my feminist sociology teacher, "It's not as bad when people are sexist against men" Why not? Equal rights? Or do you want a maternal rather than paternal society? Society can never be equal when there are different norms for men and women.


Edit: What the f**k am I on about? That wasn't really to do with the topic, more of a rant...
Edit2: Oh, and no, I wouldn't hit a woman ;)

[Alterate]

Nope it is totally wrong, If it was an extreme situation there are always other ways than violence.

[velvet]

Personally, I think it depends on the situation. I don't think it's right for women to be able to freely hit men. What about in the relationships where the women is bigger and stronger than the man and she hits him? Shouldn't he be able to hit back. If a women hits a man and breaks his nose or whatever, people automatically think the man must have done something to deserve it. So the mans always in the bad. Personally, if I ever hit my boyfriend and hurt him, i'd have no objection to him hitting me back. Though i'd never do that. However I don't think it's right for a man to hit his wife for no reason other than something stupid like 'he was drunk'
So yeah, it depends on the situation.

[Virgin Mary]

Violence is not condoned by Heaven. Although hitting a girl is out of bounds for boys, you'll just get hit back and end up in intense pain.

[BeachBoy]

I don't get the meaning of this thread.
Of course its not right to hit girls, or hes for that matter.

[FlyingJesus]

If you'd hit a guy, why not a girl? They say they're equal, so treat them exactly the same as guys. Having been in an all-boys school for 4 years and only recently having had any female contact during that time, I realised I have no idea of how you're meant to act with women, so I do exactly the same as I do with my male friends. Doesn't extend to hitting them, because I never let myself get angry enough to hit anyone at all (only person I've ever punched properly is my brother :P), but the concept is there.

People saying that you shouldn't because they're weaker: In a few cases the female is likely to be stronger than you. I myself won't claim to be a strong guy, stronger than most (if not all) girls I know yes, but I'm sure there are women around capable of kicking the utter crap out of me. If that's the case, then the question should be "Hitting people weaker than you: right or wrong?".

We're at a stage where women have more rights than men in society, in the home and in the workplace. Women get away with doing stuff to men that a man would get locked up for if it had been the other way around. I don't endorse domestic abuse in any way, but I think that if we're going to claim to be a country of equal rights, we should actually have equal rights.

[DaveTaylor]

i just find it wrong and pathetic, its knowledge that men are more stronger then women, in so,e cases not but lets not go there. if you hit a women its an easy way out of something, punch a wall to get it out thats what i do

[FlyingJesus]

i just find it wrong and pathetic, its knowledge that men are more stronger then women, in so,e cases not but lets not go there. if you hit a women its an easy way out of something, punch a wall to get it out thats what i do

So if you got in a fight with a guy you knew was weaker than you, you wouldn't hit him?

[Mentor]

Meh, the issue spans a few points.

1) Technically Hitting ANYONE is wrong for the most part.

Gender isnt a consideration, the only time i would hit someone is really in self defence (i mean properly, not just in jest or in a way not intended to actaly hurt)
If someone is alot weaker than you, not going to cause a proplem, male of female, i dont see hitting them is realy justifed. Statisticly females do tend to be weaker than males for biological reasons, so hitting them is often wrong in my opinion for this reason, but its idiotic to think this is always the case, and realy depends on the threat to yourself "/


So if you got in a fight with a guy you knew was weaker than you, you wouldn't hit him?
Nope, not if they didnt pose a threat, althogh if they didnt i wouldnt have gotten in to a fight "/

[asher_]

Regardless of gender, violence is wrong.

[Herman]

Its wrong, unless your fighting a ninja demon warrior girl then its ok... other than that... wrong.
lmao@that.

It's wrong, same with boys.

[:dallsgreen]

Hitting a girl is always wrong no matter the circumstances.

[Virgin Mary]

Hitting a girl is against the law.

[Zenzi]

Ok course it's wrong.. Why make a thread about it? :S

[Virgin Mary]

"Boys are stronger than girls."
No, that is just ridiculous.

[Infrontation]

Depends what the situation is but if a girl starts kicking you I don't see why boys should have too stand there and take it lols

[kasi]

Ok course it's wrong.. Why make a thread about it? :S
because i wanted to know peoples opinions on it obviously :rolleyes:

[Mentor]

Hitting a girl is against the law.
hitting a boy is also against the law... so i don't really get what point your trying to make?

[Infrontation]

hitting a boy is also against the law... so i don't really get what point your trying to make?
Probably doesn't have a clue of what the law about hitting other people is.

[Craig]

Ok course it's wrong.. Why make a thread about it? :S
it's called people having opinions idiot and she wanted to know people's opinions "/
Why make a stupid little thread on men ; http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=190582
"/

[kasi]

it's called people having opinions idiot and she wanted to know people's opinions "/
Why make a stupid little thread on men ; http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=190582
"/
lmao
i laughed irl at that :]

[Ryan+Joe]

I think that it should be equal, but better if no one was hit. Violence is stupid.

[Impossible]

Nope, i would NEVER hit a girl, never i don't care what you say but if you want to be a poof then go for it but i never will.

[cocaine]

Well, if she's hitting you, you have every right to defend yourself as you would when a boy is hitting you? I see no problem with doing it unless it is to defend yourself.

[Virgin Mary]

Lol, how does hitting a girl make you a poof? It's funny when boys say that.

[DMB-Hosting]

I feel very strongly about this you should not hit one of the most precious and beautiful things on the earth, under no circumstrances do i agree you should hit a girl. I i ever see a girl being hit i'd certainly stand up for them.

If you hit a girl you are a low life scum who needs to get some respect and manners

[Virgin Mary]

Does it apply to transexuals?

[Mentor]

I feel very strongly about this you should not hit one of the most precious and beautiful things on the earth, under no circumstrances do i agree you should hit a girl. I i ever see a girl being hit i'd certainly stand up for them.

If you hit a girl you are a low life scum who needs to get some respect and manners
What about in jest, or in something like a dead arm game? not all girls are afraid to do anything that might break a nail u know...

[Impossible]

Does it apply to transexuals?

Your just a noob..

[Virgin Mary]

Your just a noob..
Please explain how I am a noob.

[Colin-Roberts]

i think this thread is stupid omg its a girl they want to be equal to boys and play in co-ed sports with boys so why isnt there a thread for girls called hitting boys: right or wrong.

[djcafc]

no no no no no and no its completly rong

[Ashhizzle]

I Reckon if they hit you, you should have the right to hit back.

[Virgin Mary]

You do, it's called self defense.

[iluvben]

Hitting anyone is wrong , not just women.

[Virgin Mary]

If someone was attempting to kill you or cause you serious harm would you not attempt to fend them off?

[-Soph-]

In self defence yes, But your girlfriend? If they're needing to be hit [As if they're trying to hurt you etc..] You shouldn't even be with them..

[FlyingJesus]

I feel very strongly about this you should not hit one of the most precious and beautiful things on the earth, under no circumstrances do i agree you should hit a girl.

As I said earlier in the thread, what about ugly girls?


I i ever see a girl being hit i'd certainly stand up for them.

If you hit a girl you are a low life scum who needs to get some respect and manners

You'd stand up for them regardless of what they may have done wrong? You're a fool is that's the case. Also, it has nothing to do with respect, manners yes because good manners indicate that you wouldn't hit anyone at all, but respect? No. There is no reason why we should be forced to respect women more than men regardless of circumstance, just as any crazy feminist will tell you that they should not be forced to respect all men.

[Corq]

Personally I wouldn't do it but...

If they are good enough to give it, then they should be good enough to take it.

[edible]

Kassie, you've made a good thread<3
Okay technically everyones had a different opinion on this.
But most of you have said it's either ;
wrong
or depending on the situation.

It's wrong to hit anyone not just women, its kinda like saying, is it wrong for a baby to hit a baby or a adult or child to hit a baby! I know i've gone a wee bit off topic and confuzzled myself, but it does depend on the situation SOMETIMES! Im talking about men and women btw, but if a women was trying to like murder you ? Anyone has the right to hit her back, your defending yourself for your life and your body. So i personally think its wrong to hit anyone, but if your a man, and you hit your wife/gf/partner, thats it, your relationship is over in a way, and if you have children, well technically thats it, your not gonna see them maybe.

I'll just stop yabbering on now, and say this.

It's wrong to hit ANYONE!

[alexxxxx]

If they hit me, I hit em back, don't get away with it if they're a girl or not. Thats sexist.

[edible]

Er, s'pose it depends on the situation dont you think?

[alexxxxx]

Er, s'pose it depends on the situation dont you think?

Yeah. If some group of girls started trying to beat me up on the street of course I'd have to fight, I can't exactly 'walk away,' maybe run. xD

[Rockstar]

Its wrong

[JonJon]

Well why is it only wrong to hit girls and not guys? There's no difference whatsoever, except the gender difference. Girls hit guys, so they have the right to hit them back.

[Rou]

If a girl hits a boy with intention to hert him , then it should be ok.

[Impossible]

Like i said no way is it right to hit a girl, girls is the only decent thing on earth don't waste em ;P

[Rou]

Like i said no way is it right to hit a girl, girls is the only decent thing on earth don't waste em ;P

Go basicly a girl could hit you all she wanted hard trying to hert you you wouldnt hit her back... I think that you should hit them back if they are hitting you "/

[ilovejordan]

No. Even in self defence is wrong. Girls may say we're just as strong but in these situations you have to face the facts. If a man hits a women he could easily knock her out, however if a women hits a man i doubt she would knock her out. In physical strength men are always stronger.

[gosling]

its definitely wrong. even if the girl's twice as big...i just think its disrespectful or something :S

[Day.]

Why would anyone think that was right..
If it's like in a jokey situation then yeh but not as in total violence.. :S

[sarey]

Violence againts any female is wrong.
Considering males are more violent than females in some cases, it is truly wrong, if a male hit me, id probably be scared of him, its more scary for a female because females are a bit more fragile than males. But anyway, any violence is wrong to a female.

[FlyingJesus]

Females are not always weaker/more fragile than males, and certainly aren't any less violent. I'm pretty weak myself in all honesty, I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who are stronger than me. Guys don't hit girls because they've been brought up to think that they shouldn't, and the girls have been brought up thinking that it's wrong too. If we were brought up not told that it's any different hitting a girl or boy, I doubt we'd care so much. It's all about what's sociably acceptable.

[sarey]

In some cases they are weaker... but not all.
I said that in the beginning anyway. lol.

[FlyingJesus]

I really don't see what difference it makes how strong someone is anyway, people of different strengths fight all the time.

[Mentor]

No. Even in self defence is wrong. Girls may say we're just as strong but in these situations you have to face the facts. If a man hits a women he could easily knock her out, however if a women hits a man i doubt she would knock her out. In physical strength men are always stronger.
Your quite right, if a woman hits a man im pretty sure it wouldn't knock her out.
Unlucky with the rest of it your gona have to face that reality and your ideology there are not the same thing and men are by no means Always stronger.
People are differnt, some are stronger some are weaker, generalisations can not be applied to individual cases. Unless you believe there actually are family's with 2.4 children. The result you get in the averaging out usually doesn't exist at all in reality "/

[Virgin Mary]

If a guy hits you you just give it back in the balls. With steel capped boots.

[Steven.]

I don't think it's right at all. what would be the point in it, unless you like to be put in a cell and then have to go to court. :/

[sarey]

I really don't see what difference it makes how strong someone is anyway, people of different strengths fight all the time.

:eusa_thin I agree.. i think o.O
But still.. the question is hitting girls *right or wrong*, i say wrong.

[Virgin Mary]

A lot of girls just act weak and pitiful in front of men anyway so they seem like damsels in distress and stuff. It's all down to the need to make men seem dominant.

[?WhyNot?]

i don't hit girls, but i've never really understood it. human rights people are always saying girls should be treated as fairly as boys, and that they're as physically strong as boys, so if a girl hits you first, i've never understood why a boy can't hit back to defend? i wouldn't ever do it though because i'd get crucified. ;x

Very true. +rep

[FlyingJesus]

unless you like to be put in a cell

Sounds fun, with all the buff men.


I agree.. i think o.O

Yeah, you know better than the disagree :8

[sarey]

Sounds fun, with all the buff men.



Yeah, you know better than the disagree :8


AHAAHAA no.
lol.
Yeah but i do agree, because its right :rolleyes: Realli XD

[manga21]

This Chav Girl used to sit next to me In class and She used to hit me really hard and stuff .. But nothing happened if i did it I would be the most ahted person in the school. Anyone Been abused isnt right...
I Watched On Tv this woman beat up her Bf And Bite his Ear Off... He didnt Do nothing ... and Cassie you said it would be even wrong in self Defence ?

I think tis wrong to Hit them For no reason But If they were Really going for you, I dunno ...

[Not-Girly-Girl7]

Uhm its wrong, :/ It isn't necessary.. I'm really against that topic being brought up anyways. On the other hand I'm a girl and I'm harmless... but it is very unneccesary in any situation.. Enough said..

[Virgin Mary]

You could hit Naomi Campbell, but she'd still kick your ***.

[kasi]

You could hit Naomi Campbell, but she'd still kick your ***.
i lol'd

[Evasion]

No why the hell would you want to hurt your gf especially if you just want to have sex.

[sarey]

This world can be full of cruel people, thats why.

[MsTanya]

its not right, but i understand how the boys might think its ok as if we hit them thats not frowned upon

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Wrong all the way

[Nia12]

No way hitting girls is so wrong :D which is lucky for us XXX

[Bef]

It depends, if i hit a guy, id expect him to react somehow (obv not full on punch me) but do something to control me...
Guys who hit there girlfriends first are complete and utter jerks, but iv hit my ex boyfs in the past, and thats wrong too...

[Kukuthebird]

i think it's wrong. but i don't see how if they hit you first you can't hit back (i would never hit a girl im just saying) as some women as be as strong and lethal as men.

[Sly]

Girls hit boys and nothing happens, Boys hit girls and boys get the mick taken out of them.

I think girls shouldn't hit boys either.

Still, Hitting a girl is wrong.

[FlyingJesus]

No why the hell would you want to hurt your gf especially if you just want to have sex.

Some girls like it.

[cunning]

LMAO, Some just want attention so it's the only thing you can do.

(I don't hit females)

[NightSlayer]

No, it's nasty. :(

[Alkaz]

In some situations it is wrong, but i think if a girl has just lashed out at you tis ok, if they can give it they can take it, they shouldnt be abused, but its not just women that get abused, men get abused by women aswell

[simon!]

I've seen one of my friends getting kicked around by her older boyfriend, and I didn't like it then and I don't like it now. Thre's absolutely no point in it whatsoever. If its just a loving tap, then I suppose thats ok but if it's an angry attack then I'm totally against it.

[hellogoodbye]

i think it's wrong. but i guess in a serious event you may have to.

[WHANGFACE]

Girls on girls are ok, because its the same wave length if you get me.. Sam as a boy hitting a boy. But I totally disagree with a boy hitting a girl.

[Clarissaa]

hitting anyone unprovoked is wrong..

[samsaBEAR]

Play fighting fair enough, but unless it's self-defense I wouldn't even contemplate it

[RedStratocas]

Its wrong, but it should be an unwritten rule. I saw a billboard that said "All violence against women is wrong". Oh, so all violence against men isnt? Im sure whoever wrote that was a feminist nazi.

[Azul]

if they like it rough, sure.

[Victimized]

Girls on girls are ok

Yeah girl on girl action is absolutely fine

:love3:

[MsTanya]

:rolleyes:

[simon!]

Girls on girls fight is hot! But if it gets out of hand like if they've broken each others jaws, then I suppose the guy should step in. I've been lucky to see a few ladies fights lol.

[Mentor]

Play fighting fair enough, but unless it's self-defense I wouldn't even contemplate it

I compleatey agree, But i apply that reguadless of gender, hitting a male is just as bad as hitting a female.

[123fisher123]

No girl should be hit any time any place ,, n e 1 that oes hit/aabuse a grl needs some mental help ,,

[4chanminion]

They should always be hit, otherwise they might get the dillusional idea that they have some form of purpose outside of the kitchen.

[MsTanya]

if she done nout wrong then no

[kasi]

They should always be hit, otherwise they might get the dillusional idea that they have some form of purpose outside of the kitchen.
...
what the hell?
do you have problems or something?
you deserve to be shot. thanks.

[Muse]

Wrong in my eyes.

But I get so annoyed when people say "Haha! you got beat up by a girl"

and if you had hit that girl back, you would get called a women beater ;|

[4chanminion]

...
what the hell?
do you have problems or something?
you deserve to be shot. thanks.
This is exactly what I am talking about, you think you have a valid opinion.

Get back to the kitchen plx, kthx.

[MsTanya]

This is exactly what I am talking about, you think you have a valid opinion.

Get back to the kitchen plx, kthx.
please leave and take your idiotic comments with you [:

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[KHK]

To put it bluntly, No.

[4chanminion]

please leave and take your idiotic comments with you [:
You ask for my opinion, and then decide its not valid.

You know what you remind me of? A nazi.

Nixt (Forum Moderator) Please stick to the thread topic, thanks :)

[MsTanya]

i didnt ask for your opinion

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[4chanminion]

i didnt ask for your opinion
ohplx

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[Muse]

This is exactly what I am talking about, you think you have a valid opinion.

Get back to the kitchen plx, kthx.

There's no need for Sexist comments.

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[FlyingJesus]

There's always need for sexist comments.

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[MsTanya]

thats abit unfair, we were discussing his opinion

on topic; na i dont

[DMB-Hosting]

If your a male and hit a girl you should be tortured.
HOWEVER You can not say if you would hit a girl or not in some situations i.e. protecting your family.

[FlyingJesus]

Does anyone have an actual reason as to why we shouldn't hit girls? The only one I've seen through this thread is "you shouldn't hit anyone", but that doesn't specify really. If women want to be equal, they can (as the expression goes) "take it like a man".

[WhatDidIdoNow?]

God, most people on this forum can't take a joke, he obviously wasn't being serious.

Nixt (Forum Moderator) Please stick to the thread topic! Thanks :)

[Nixt]

thats abit unfair, we were discussing his opinion

on topic; na i dont

That's why there was only a warning and no infraction. By doing that I just wanted to make sure it didn't become an argument, as things [annoyingly] often do.

And no, I don't think that you should hit girls.. Not unless they are trying to murder you or something :$

[Jamie!]

Nah i wouldnt hit a girl. But like other people have said, i would only do it if she was trying to murder me or something

[Michael.]

hitting people in general is wrong. duh.
i don't see how you could justify having fights against each other, whether its boy vs boy, girl vs girl or boy vs girl.

if you really love them, surely you can sort your problems by talking to them instead of using fists. the only time i could justify hitting someone is in self defence.

[Scorpio]

Well, my friend used to kick me and punch me quite hard and I used to get bruises from it, and she was a girl. She thought it was funyn although I told her not to all the time, until I punched her as hard as I could on her shoulder, and she hasn't hit me since.

So yes in self-defence.

[:Hazel]

What a daft thread, of course it is wrong. No one should hit anyone and you should treat others how you would want to be treated. Anyone who thinks its right to hit your girlfriend/boyfriend or whoever must have a ***** loose.

[Acidulantes]

Id say yea if she was like huge and your tiny and she caught you kissing her boyfriend or something weird...

[Ree...]

tbh i think if ther ur girlfriend or mate or w/e , no
but
if a guy rly doesnt like a girl

or gets in an agrument
he can hit her?
because most girls would punch a guy
so why cant they punch a girl??
soz just my opinion

but DEFFO not if ther like in a relationship if u get me

[FlyingJesus]

Blimey, a woman who makes a good point :P

[Demynx]

if some random girl would try to punch me or kick me i need to use a defence, eitherwosse im gonna be hit.

[Blinger1]

Violence against women, australia says no!

[Scorpio]

Violence against women, australia says no!

So violence from women to men is fine-and-dandy, then?

[Tanya]

its wrong, but if i was about to kill a lad, id expect him to react

[FlyingJesus]

If women have the right to hit a man then men should have the right to hit women. Jeremy Kyle is a great man, but his major flaw is that he says anyone who hits a woman is a coward. If women want to be equal they can take punches just like we do.

[Blinger1]

So violence from women to men is fine-and-dandy, then?
apparently so :-)

[Pyroka]

Never EVER have i hit a girl, some people just dont realise they have real feelings and theyre actual human beings just like men. Not to sound stereotypical, but most people who do hit girls have a bad background in a family perspective anyway. Women can hit men as much as they want really, but there is a time when you have to just grab their hand, not to squeeze it but y'know what i mean, and just say "Stop". Men have the right too. ;)

[Cadaver]

If a girl hit me I'd hit her back. Her gender shouldn't be an excuse to get away with stuff like that.

[Dante.Sparda]

i would say it depends on the situation ive been slapped/kicked/punched by girls but i havent done anything back to them the most ive done is pushed away a girl who went crazy on me when i turned her down i would say its alright to defend youself if they have a knife or sumthin and are goin to attack you

[RbarisR]

what happend to men and women being equal

[united-champ]

no.
never hit girls

If they hit you self deence.

Dont hit em on purpose..
just self-defence purposes only.

[PenguinFluid]

never apart from in self defence eg. a mad girl is waving a gun at your head u have the right to say disarm her and pin her down

[Heinous]

Depends how much force is used. (Obviously males are generally stronger than females)

I wouldn't hit a girl with full power, I'd just use reasonable self defence if she started hitting me. I wouldn't start on a girl either.

Funny how women want equal rights and ****, yet things like this they expect to be treated differently cause they're females. Gj on the contradiction.

[entor M]

Depends how much force is used. (Obviously males are generally stronger than females)

I wouldn't hit a girl with full power, I'd just use reasonable self defence if she started hitting me. I wouldn't start on a girl either.

Funny how women want equal rights and ****, yet things like this they expect to be treated differently cause they're females. Gj on the contradiction.
I can pretty much agree with this, although on the full power bit, id say how much forse you use should realy be proportinate to how strong who your fighting is, since holding back wouldnt do you much good if your faceing off agaisnt the femail incarnation of arnald swartneger "/

[FlyingJesus]

If you're against Arnie, male or female, nothing can save you but the Hoff.

[Eretain]

Depends On The Situation.

-Getting Punched Repeatedly: Trip Her Up
- She Comes Again: Punch Her With Bad Hand
SHOULDN'T USE FULL FORCE, GOOD HANDED PUNCH ON UNARMED GIRL

-If They Had A Dangerous Weapon And You Believed They Are Going To Hit You With It, Get Them To The Ground And Then Take The Weapon.
DON'T USE A WEAPON ON A GIRL

If You Are Hit By A Weapon (Bat, Bottle) Then Hit Them A Good Punch, Take Weapon And Walk Away.

I Dont Think You Should Ever Repeatedly Hit A Girl. Even A Women For That Matter.

[FlyingJesus]

I really don't see why not. If they want equality they can have it, they shouldn't be claiming equal rights if they won't give up some old defences.

[Caution]

:oUssualy it's :- A male can't hit a female.but a female can hit a man.
Personally i don't understand how that works out?

[@K]

It is completely wrong to hit a girl, no explanation why is needed.

[Heinous]

It is completely wrong to hit a girl, no explanation why is needed.
Actually, an explanation why is needed.

So please, go on..

[@K]

Ok well, no matter how annoyed I maybe I just cannot hit a girl, hell I've felt like it, but in my opnion it's wrong, I've been slapped by girls before but I've just been brought up that hitting people, especially girls is wrong.

[FlyingJesus]

They like it really though.

[@K]

They like it really though.

LOL, haha, depends 'where' though :D

[Mit]

I agree it is weird how women want equal rights but when it comes to r and assault they always get treated differently then men.

But i dont think you should punch a women unless in extreme circumstances.

[James!]

If they hit me I will just push them or something.. but never full force smack them.

[Ry]

I think it's rediculous how women slapping a guy in the face is ok, but if it's the other way around, its like, the worst thing ever.

It's silly, personally, if a women punched me, i would be forced to use some force against her by pushing her ATLEAST, or maybe worse, i just hope im never in that situation.

Equality pls! :o

[Tiuhdur]

if a girl comes hits you first then its ok to hit them back just treat them the same as guys ye you dont do it as hard as u hit a guy but just makin a point

[sim]

Why should women be higher in society than men so that they cant get hit? Get over it, if your hit perhaps you should talk about it or hit back, same situation if it was a guy GOD!

[dark-as-death]

What sort of question is this? No its NOT alright to hit a girl. simple

[jake4568]

its not alright if ur a man have more respect for urself be a gentalmen and walk out never hit a woman and if shes chasing after u with a knife ect. run like bloody hell!!

[/Rossco\]

it would have to be a really serious situation in which there was no other way of controlling them or tht, say shes waving a gun/knife, i wouldnt hold back in protecting ymself friends/family.

[paul♥]

It's not right for boys to hit girls but girls are prats and take advantage of it, girls shouldnt be allowed to hit boy either as when they hit us we can't do f all.

I once got a shiner from this ginger cow on the school bus when i was in year 7 (she was year 9) i was well gutted i couldnt do anything back.

[Catzsy]

Well i don't think its acceptable for anybody to be violent towards anybody else. Girls seem to be a lot more agressive these days too. Schools should recognise this a lot more I think.

[Starburst..x]

Hitting a girl or a woman is wrong.
Although, Im not saying its alright for a woman to hit a man.

[-Justin]

Quite Honestly I would rather be hit by the girl then hit them my self. Now if she had a knife, That would be a different thing.

[Andy?]

It is NOT ok what kind of question is that and if you do answer yes you need to see a counciler or something..
If you cant beat a guy in a fight dont go off and hit a girl.



Dude wth.. You could push her away.. you must be pss weak to think of doing that.

So lets see.. a girls coming after you with a gun but you should sit calmly and hope she doesn't shoot you in the head?

No, I do not belive in hitting girls. It makes me sick. I hate seeing boys hit girls at school even its as a joke. But come on, some psyco is coming at you with a knife or a gun, I dont care what s'ex they are, I'm going to take them down.

[boyslikegirls]

i don't think its right for anyone to be hit ;lwow i sed that a long tym ago.

[FlyingJesus]

wow i sed that a long tym ago.

*hitz*

soz il kiss it beta kisskisskiss

[louder]

Yeah, I think it's dead wrong to abuse a girl, hitting them is fine if it's play fighting but I would never hit a girl in anger etc.

[hit-by-a-car]

depends, if a girl is annoying you. you beat the crap out of her.

[lukeisok]

This whole thread is so sexist.

Do you think A Guy deserves to hit by a woman for no reason?
NO!

Whats the difference with girls, we were all created on this earth as Female, in the womans womb, then we get our male traits, so what do you tihnk my answer is.

Yes girls should be hit, self defence is only one of the reasons.

I hope you all aren't forgetting that men are abused by thier wives.

[vibrant]

I don't think it's right - however if the woman is doing something really horrible and nasty, you could just give her a small thump. :)

[DJ-Vimto]

to be totally honest, i would NEVER hit a girl with a closed fist.

or even with an open one for that matter.

if a girl was to start hitting me, i would just use whatever force i could to restrain her, whether it be to pin her down on the floor, or twist their arm up their back, or both.

but no matter how many times they hit me, i would never strike back.

however, the only exception would be what you might call 'play fighting' even then i wouldnt hit them hard, just very soft jabs, probably as soft as a small shove, i wouldnt hit them with intent to cause serious harm or injury

[Demi]

Personally if I get hit HARD by a girl first I'll react back, not like hard or anything, but if it gets really serious then I don't know.

Depends on the situation.

[WarRock]

you should never hit girls/women no matter what the situation as it is wrong.

[Mentor]

This back again?

All depends on the person and situation, and gender isnt really an issue. Just depends on who it is, and how strong or good at fighting they are compativly.

[Krusty]

no way.

only girls can hit girls
girls hit guys. but not like a proper punch

[Mentor]

no way.

only girls can hit girls
girls hit guys. but not like a proper punch
Well thats a load of bull. it kinda depends on the girl, whether they throw a proper punch.

[DiscoPat]

depends tbh, ..

[Krusty]

how many girls do you no that punch a guy? on t.v they always slap. unless they are tracey barlow and thats a diff story..

everywhere else. tehy seem to slap. no punches

[darkchicken101]

how many girls do you no that punch a guy? on t.v they always slap. unless they are tracey barlow and thats a diff story..

everywhere else. tehy seem to slap. no punches

Not all girls are girly girls, and not everyone lives in a soap opera.

[dirrty]

well its sexist if girls can hit guys but guys cant hit girls.

[Krusty]

i cant imagine a girl punchin a guy tho...

it just seems wrong for a bloke to hit a woman

[Mentor]

i cant imagine a girl punchin a guy tho...

it just seems wrong for a bloke to hit a woman
im starting to wonder? have you ever seen a girl? as in, in real life, not on tv? :s

[Krusty]

obviously
have you?
you always seem to be on this forum

[dirrty]

i cant imagine a girl punchin a guy tho...

it just seems wrong for a bloke to hit a woman
o my
there r violent women around you know. god didnt u know that its not just men who hit people.

its common sense. women can do things which men do.

[Krusty]

yeah but then why do people say men are the stronger sex?

[Mentor]

yeah but then why do people say men are the stronger sex?

because men have more testosterone, hence usealy have more inatate muscular growth. but i dont get you point? Are you saying people weaker than you are unable to throw a punch? o.0