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jackass
22-07-2006, 01:12 PM
I have loved this girl ever since I met her. I go rock climbing with her and have her msn. She is called Jenni. Anyway, I 'kind of' asked her out. nd she said she loves me, but only as a friend. I felt terrible. Then the next couple of days she ignored me, then she finnaly talked to me today and she asked me if I had a gf and i sadi no and she said she had a bf called Harry. I can't live without her. It feels like my heart has frozen and will never return. :(

Please help,
From GreyScale :(

-Soph-
22-07-2006, 04:48 PM
Aww, It feels horrible when this happens, You never know, you might get to be with her one day!

Just stay good friends with her for the moment!

jackass
22-07-2006, 06:34 PM
Aww, It feels horrible when this happens, You never know, you might get to be with her one day!

Just stay good friends with her for the moment!

Thanks :(

edible
23-07-2006, 07:25 AM
I know how you feel babes<3
Maybe you should talk with her ? Tell her EXACTLY how you feel, its better face to face, cos on msn it can get rough if you do it there, but then again it may be easier for you as you may be shy when talking to her. Let her be with this Harry boy for a while, Try something romantic? I suspect your like 13-16ish qui ? Do something for her, show her you care. I hope you get Jenni :D

Good Luck Babes<3

jackass
23-07-2006, 02:14 PM
I know how you feel babes<3
Maybe you should talk with her ? Tell her EXACTLY how you feel, its better face to face, cos on msn it can get rough if you do it there, but then again it may be easier for you as you may be shy when talking to her. Let her be with this Harry boy for a while, Try something romantic? I suspect your like 13-16ish qui ? Do something for her, show her you care. I hope you get Jenni :D

Good Luck Babes<3

Aww thanks :( I will try something. But I don't think it will work with Jenni :(

Wig44.
23-07-2006, 05:25 PM
You can do many things, ask her out now, which personally I wouldn't do, wait until the split up and then ask her out, don't do anything at all, or give her little hints.

I would either wait or give little hints, because if you steal her from him think about how bad you feel but worse. That is how he would feel. (I think) Man, remember, it isn't hopeless, they are bound to split up eventually, so when they split, comfort her, make her feel good and make your move then.

Good luck
Will :)

brandon
23-07-2006, 05:28 PM
It's rejection and the sting of it will go and things will be put in the past, I wouldn't make another move if I was you though mate because she has already said that she loves you, as a mate not a boyfriend.

Wig44.
23-07-2006, 05:35 PM
Hmmm... I forgot about that, I think you should move on.

edible
23-07-2006, 05:57 PM
Why dont you think it would work out with Jenni ?
They're saying move on, feelings change. I use to hate someone, now we're best mates. Love's a disease, diseases come and go.

Personally, i think you've got a chance :D
And good luck. But if she splits with Harry ever, give her time to cool down from it. Dont go asking her out the moment after.

jackass
23-07-2006, 07:30 PM
Thanks everyone. I am slightly confused what to do now. But I will just have to wait and see how things go. I can't just let her go though. I REALLY like her! :(

NIKKEE
23-07-2006, 08:29 PM
I have loved this girl ever since I met her. I go rock climbing with her and have her msn. She is called Jenni. Anyway, I 'kind of' asked her out. nd she said she loves me, but only as a friend. I felt terrible. Then the next couple of days she ignored me, then she finnaly talked to me today and she asked me if I had a gf and i sadi no and she said she had a bf called Harry. I can't live without her. It feels like my heart has frozen and will never return. :(

Please help,
From GreyScale :(

oh my god
i totally know how you feel!
its the worst feeling ever, you just cant describe it
except i was dumped
sort of
:'(
complicated

Lycan
23-07-2006, 08:37 PM
You dumped someone, not got dumped


oh my god
i totally know how you feel!
its the worst feeling ever, you just cant describe it
except i was dumped
sort of
:'(
complicated

Then you blocked the person

NIKKEE
23-07-2006, 08:42 PM
You dumped someone, not got dumped



Then you blocked the person


i blocked you?
chris why wont you undertsand... i didnt mean it, please chris :'(

edible
24-07-2006, 07:57 AM
Greycale, if you really like her, tell her, its simple tbh<3 Keep me updated dude

Wig44.
24-07-2006, 03:40 PM
Do what comes to heart. I think you should trust your instincts more

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