how do you heel a broken heart?

[NIKKEE]

yeah, how do you heal a broken heart? :'(

[PaintYourTarget]

Gaffa tape :)

[Craig]

Get a hammer and some nails.

No seriously don't give your ex the satisfaction to see you in a state and flirt with other people outrageously infront of him.

[NIKKEE]

but i dont want to! i just want him back because i love him :'(

[Kasabian]

Super glue.

[NIKKEE]

please, can i just get some proper advice for once
how can i show him i love him? show how much he means to me
this is all my own fault!

[PaintYourTarget]

Super glue.
You insensitve barsteward.

[Craig]

please, can i just get some proper advice for once
how can i show him i love him? show how much he means to me
this is all my own fault!
Are you on about Lycan? Anyway it'd be best if you told us the whole story that way we can give better advice:)

[Kasabian]

Get on one knee, Outside his window, and play your guitar.

ROCK OUT WITH YOUR **** OUT.

Lee did.

[NIKKEE]

yeah lycan.. though, dont tell him about this, i dont want to make him mad or anything
so, like about once a week i 'dump him' like say somethhing like, fine we're not going out anymore, and i tell him i hate him alot, and i mean, its a surprise he hasnt dumped me ages ago, and i just keep pushing him and pushing him and pushing him and well no wonder, i mean ffs yesterday he said he wanted to be a bit more social and i went totally psycho and was all 'I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU!'
and i really really don't need anyone to tell me it's my own fault right now, because i don't know why i get so mad, maybe its for attention but i don't know, all i know is that i love him but ive hurt him so much and now im just so heart broken
and before you ask
yes
i've told him how i feel, and i just cant stop crying, its hard to breathe and i need him so so SO MUCH :'(

[Many]

yeah, how do you heal a broken heart? :'(
Been there and wondered myself..
TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT IT - I SWEAR MAKES U FEEL SO MUCH BETTER. Even a hard man like myslef (;)) can get upset too..
you gotta try and move on, and realize ur young and things dont last forever.. talk to someone too! hope this helps.. safe.

[NIKKEE]

i dont want to hear things like that! i know talking about it helps, thats what im doing here, i cant exactly go to my friend seing as ive ignored them most of the time for him
he's the only thing that makes me happy and if i dont have him then im never ever going to be happy again, and i know i must sound really sad but i love him and id do ANYTHING to have him :'(

[NIKKEE]

oh my god, ive just realised hes taken away the - nicole always in my heart and thoughts- thingie he had in his whatever you call it
oh god
he really really really isn't going to take me back is he?!?!
WHAT AM I GOING TO DO?! i had planned my whole life around him
he IS my whole life...

[Many]

talk to ur mum about it..
you gotta talk about it, it help u trust..

[NIKKEE]

all she does is hug me and say oh well!!!
i think im gonna be sick

[Rizla]

Yes, it's for attention, as everything about you so far says "EMO!". Frankly, I feel no sympathy for you, you're one of those clingy girls who ring at about 3 in the morning and go mad when you talk to someone else.

[NIKKEE]

yeah i am clingy, i need him, no i dont call at 3 in the morning and no i am not emo.

[Rizla]

Favourite Music:
panic! at the disco, system of a down, trivium, ramones, placebo, sugarcult, fall out boy, mcfly, the white stripes, siouxie and the banshees, the faces, the kinks, queen, guns n roses, the academy is, test icicles, foo fighters, rage against the machine, a perfect circle, nirvana, my chemical romance, jimmy eat world, korn, the strokes, the killers, led zeppelin, black sabbath, flogging molly, maximo park, arctic monkeys, phantom planet, green day, blink 182, weezer, no doubt, MAXIMO PARK!!!

Dislikes:
People who never give me a chance to explain, and ignore me, or people who make me cry, though most people I know have managed that.

Sure you aren't ;) Some fairly decent bands in that list, but too many bad ones cancel them out for me...

[NIKKEE]

ok no offense, shut the **** up, this was for support, if you just came to call me an emo then oh my god, grow UP!
everyone on this damn forum is like this, so accusitive, acting like they know you, trying to tell you about your life.

just
argh
go away.

[Rizla]

I didn't come on this thread to call you an emo, that was just an aside. I came on this thread to see what it was about, and after I read your story I decided to tell you what I thought. You have no idea how much I can't stand clinginess, especially at this age. Maybe if you were some old spinster it'd be alright, but seriously...

[Lycan]

No Offense but...

Shut Up



Favourite Music:
panic! at the disco, system of a down, trivium, ramones, placebo, sugarcult, fall out boy, mcfly, the white stripes, siouxie and the banshees, the faces, the kinks, queen, guns n roses, the academy is, test icicles, foo fighters, rage against the machine, a perfect circle, nirvana, my chemical romance, jimmy eat world, korn, the strokes, the killers, led zeppelin, black sabbath, flogging molly, maximo park, arctic monkeys, phantom planet, green day, blink 182, weezer, no doubt, MAXIMO PARK!!!

Dislikes:
People who never give me a chance to explain, and ignore me, or people who make me cry, though most people I know have managed that.

Sure you aren't ;) Some fairly decent bands in that list, but too many bad ones cancel them out for me...

[NIKKEE]

thanks chris...
im going to bed now, anyone else have any GOOD advice, just write it down or whatever
as in, how do i get him back or what the hell am i supposed to do if he doesnt want me?
night.

[Rizla]

No Offense but...

Shut UpNone taken. This forum is full of emos, though. Under trusted people you have nobody? :rolleyes:

Favourite Colour:
Black Likes:
Watching Lemmings Kill themselfs Dislikes:
Jesus Christ

[NIKKEE]

None taken. This forum is full of emos, though. Under trusted people you have nobody? :rolleyes:

Favourite Colour:
Black Likes:
Watching Lemmings Kill themselfs Dislikes:
Jesus Christ



if you're trying to say chris is an emo, then you're totally wrong...
you dont even know him

[Virgin Mary]

http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/conditions/heartattackrecovery1.shtml

[Lycan]

None taken. This forum is full of emos, though. Under trusted people you have nobody? :rolleyes:

Favourite Colour:
Black Likes:
Watching Lemmings Kill themselfs Dislikes:
Jesus Christ

So i'm not allowed to like a dark colour, and have a sense of humour about lemmings and be athiest without being called emo?

right...


also on this forum.. i'm not going to trust some idiot 12 year old who thinks hes 'l33t'

[Virgin Mary]

Heart break is a teenage cliche. It's just wannabe drama.

[Alterate]

yeah i am clingy, i need him

How very sad.....

I might be totally wrong but it is your 'ex' thats posting in this thread as well and defending you? Cause if he is, it's obvious he still has feelings for you.

And if worst comes to worst revert to Bang Bang's avatar..

[NIKKEE]

How very sad.....

I might be totally wrong but it is your 'ex' thats posting in this thread as well and defending you? Cause if he is, it's obvious he still has feelings for you.

And if worst comes to worst revert to Bang Bang's avatar..


hows he defending me?
hes defending himself because he got called emo, and yeah, i dont really care if its sad, he used to need me too, but now, i guess not

[Rizla]

be athiest without being called emo?

right...


also on this forum.. i'm not going to trust some idiot 12 year old who thinks hes 'l33t'Aetheist? You "hate" Jesus Christ and you're an aetheist? :rolleyes: Also, as for the "trust" part, why even put it then?

Nikkee, take a look, he was defending you, I didn't randomly insult him ;)

[Victimized]

Favourite Music:
panic! at the disco, system of a down, trivium, ramones, placebo, sugarcult, fall out boy, mcfly, the white stripes, siouxie and the banshees, the faces, the kinks, queen, guns n roses, the academy is, test icicles, foo fighters, rage against the machine, a perfect circle, nirvana, my chemical romance, jimmy eat world, korn, the strokes, the killers, led zeppelin, black sabbath, flogging molly, maximo park, arctic monkeys, phantom planet, green day, blink 182, weezer, no doubt, MAXIMO PARK!!!

Dislikes:
People who never give me a chance to explain, and ignore me, or people who make me cry, though most people I know have managed that.

Sure you aren't ;) Some fairly decent bands in that list, but too many bad ones cancel them out for me...


If it's any consellation, pretty much all those bands are on mp3 player and i am far from emo, if only i could post a picture. :)

[edible]

Aetheist? You "hate" Jesus Christ and you're an aetheist? :rolleyes: Also, as for the "trust" part, why even put it then?

Nikkee, take a look, he was defending you, I didn't randomly insult him ;)

I've been getting called emo, because of something.. By Bang Bang, i know it's only a joke. Cos im not emo. And RyanP, i like panic! at the disco, i like dark and bright colours, I like quite a few of them bands that you posted about. And she's certainly not emo. McFly are certainly not emo music anyway

Anyway on topic.
I know this is rather mean of me to say and im sorry, but you are quite clingy, try talking to him..

yeah lycan.. though, dont tell him about this, i dont want to make him mad or anything
ages ago, and i just keep pushing him and pushing him and pushing him and well no wonder, i mean ffs yesterday he said he wanted to be a bit more social and i went totally psycho and was all 'I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU!'so, like about once a week i 'dump him' like say somethhing like, fine we're not going out anymore, and i tell him i hate him alot, and i mean, its a surprise he hasnt dumped me
and i really really don't need anyone to tell me it's my own fault right now, because i don't know why i get so mad, maybe its for attention but i don't know, all i know is that i love him but ive hurt him so much and now im just so heart broken
and before you ask
yes
i've told him how i feel, and i just cant stop crying, its hard to breathe and i need him so so SO MUCH :'(
You dumped him each week ? Then sorry but thats such a crud relationship, your probably going through like stress ? Hormones ?
Do you know him in real life ? Otherwise if your crying over a habbo thats seriously pathetic in my own personal opinion. But i suggest, cooling down, apoligizing, and unblocking him on msn. And talking cool to eachother.
See if he likes you. But dont try and look desperate for him back or clingy.
Just be formal and ask him :
Would you ever be with me again ?
Do you hate me guts ?
Do you love me still ?
Do you want me back ?

Any question at all.

Good luck<3

Vicks;)

[edible]

Sorry for double post, mod please delete this post.

[jordybumz!]

It's your own fault. If you tell a guy you hate him it's pretty obvious he's not gonna stick around.

[NIKKEE]

I've been getting called emo, because of something.. By Bang Bang, i know it's only a joke. Cos im not emo. And RyanP, i like panic! at the disco, i like dark and bright colours, I like quite a few of them bands that you posted about. And she's certainly not emo. McFly are certainly not emo music anyway

Anyway on topic.
I know this is rather mean of me to say and im sorry, but you are quite clingy, try talking to him..

You dumped him each week ? Then sorry but thats such a crud relationship, your probably going through like stress ? Hormones ?
Do you know him in real life ? Otherwise if your crying over a habbo thats seriously pathetic in my own personal opinion. But i suggest, cooling down, apoligizing, and unblocking him on msn. And talking cool to eachother.
See if he likes you. But dont try and look desperate for him back or clingy.
Just be formal and ask him :
Would you ever be with me again ?
Do you hate me guts ?
Do you love me still ?
Do you want me back ?

Any question at all.

Good luck<3

Vicks;)

no i dont know him off habbo, i cant help seeming desperate though, its not that im desperate, its because i love him and dont want to lose him!

and try talking to him? i already have... loads...

but thanks, ill try to ask him those

btw, i never blocked him
oh
and he wasn't defending me

[sarey]

no i dont know him off habbo, i cant help seeming desperate though, its not that im desperate, its because i love him and dont want to lose him!

and try talking to him? i already have... loads...

but thanks, ill try to ask him those

Seriously, vicki is a good adviser. :D

Anyway heres my long post:


yeah, how do you heal a broken heart?

Mines been broken alot, but hey im still alive.


but i dont want to! i just want him back because i love him

Of course you love him, otherwise you wouldnt be posting, but if hes split with you, then its obvious he doesnt anymore. I used to push at my ex(s), but im that way anyway, i used too always push, but then came the day that they actually did leave me, and that was the day i realiesed he did love me, and wanted me, but i just pushed him away, and was very paranoid.

yeah lycan.. though, dont tell him about this, i dont want to make him mad or anything
so, like about once a week i 'dump him' like say somethhing like, fine we're not going out anymore, and i tell him i hate him alot, and i mean, its a surprise he hasnt dumped me ages ago, and i just keep pushing him and pushing him and pushing him and well no wonder, i mean ffs yesterday he said he wanted to be a bit more social and i went totally psycho and was all 'I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU!'
and i really really don't need anyone to tell me it's my own fault right now, because i don't know why i get so mad, maybe its for attention but i don't know, all i know is that i love him but ive hurt him so much and now im just so heart broken
and before you ask
yes
i've told him how i feel, and i just cant stop crying, its hard to breathe and i need him so so SO MUCH

Its OK too be clingy, i was clingy with my ex ages ago, but sometimes they need space, too much time together can be .. suffocating should i put it, which is why he wanted to be a bit more social. Maybe your so locked up in love with him, you sometimes dont know what your saying because your feelings for him were/and still are deep.

oh my god, ive just realised hes taken away the - nicole always in my heart and thoughts- thingie he had in his whatever you call it
oh god
he really really really isn't going to take me back is he?!?!
WHAT AM I GOING TO DO?! i had planned my whole life around him
he IS my whole life...

You will find another lad in your life, its just passing through the stages after you split with someone you love deeply. Maybe he needs some time to think, or some space to chill for a bit, if he ever does get back with you, you have to be more calmer and dont push him away, let him socialize, give him space, thats if you ever do get back together, he may still think about you, wishing he never split with you, you never know, he could be hiding his true feelings for you.

Yes, it's for attention, as everything about you so far says "EMO!". Frankly, I feel no sympathy for you, you're one of those clingy girls who ring at about 3 in the morning and go mad when you talk to someone else.

Excuse me, after your heart is broken, yes id consider yourself being depressed for awhile. :/ Shes not emo, your pathetic for labelling her. Shesshh. :/

[NIKKEE]

thanks
although, i did 'dump' him but never meant it!!! i just said it, he went um ok...
and i went um ok we're not going out anymore :)
but i just said it because i was mad! argh...
i just really hate it when he says um ok, like im stupid, ok?
so i dont think that means its obvious he doesnt love me
but i HATE the fact it would be everything wasted, all the things we done, its as if hes not gonna think about the good times, and just remember the fact im a psychotic *****
but if my mum says i dont just do it to him, then surely he can see its a problem and not that im deliberately trying to hurt him...
and absolutely NONE of this is his fault, i dont blame, not one tiny bit, but i just wish he would understand...
i just feels like my insides are being ripped up, i never slept last night, just like i never the night before, well the night before i was crying most of the night, and last night i felt sick and went to the living room and watched baywatch...
i know i shoudl give him space, but, he always WANTS me around...
he never ever said he wanted space, but now he wants to be more social and i got mad at that because ive barely seen my friends because i love him and want to stay with him and now who can i turn to if he doesnt want me, its like... use and abuse really, as soon as he leaves i go back to them, and the fact is, i dont WANT to go see them, im much happier with chris
and the last time i did it, he said that if i did it again he would just leave, and i always thought he would be here you know... just be there to love me and call me gorgeous and be my boyfriend, the guy i love and hep me through things and hes the one i tell my problems to! i just cant imagine him not being here! god damnit...

[sarey]

thanks
although, i did 'dump' him but never meant it!!! i just said it, he went um ok...
and i went um ok we're not going out anymore :)
but i just said it because i was mad! argh...
i just really hate it when he says um ok, like im stupid, ok?
so i dont think that means its obvious he doesnt love me
but i HATE the fact it would be everything wasted, all the things we done, its as if hes not gonna think about the good times, and just remember the fact im a psychotic *****
but if my mum says i dont just do it to him, then surely he can see its a problem and not that im deliberately trying to hurt him...
and absolutely NONE of this is his fault, i dont blame, not one tiny bit, but i just wish he would understand...
i just feels like my insides are being ripped up, i never slept last night, just like i never the night before, well the night before i was crying most of the night, and last night i felt sick and went to the living room and watched baywatch...
i know i shoudl give him space, but, he always WANTS me around...
he never ever said he wanted space, but now he wants to be more social and i got mad at that because ive barely seen my friends because i love him and want to stay with him and now who can i turn to if he doesnt want me, its like... use and abuse really, as soon as he leaves i go back to them, and the fact is, i dont WANT to go see them, im much happier with chris
and the last time i did it, he said that if i did it again he would just leave, and i always thought he would be here you know... just be there to love me and call me gorgeous and be my boyfriend, the guy i love and hep me through things and hes the one i tell my problems to! i just cant imagine him not being here! god damnit...

Sometimes you just gotta cut the rope and let it drop.
It looks like hes moving on, but then again, he could be covering it up, the feelings for you. When he said he wanted to be more social, he probably then wanted more space, he didnt mean to offend you by the looks of it, or anything like that, and i know you havent been talking to your mates because you've been with him, which is selfish that now he wants to socialize more, when you have been avoiding your friends for him.
Maybe when things have settled down, ask him firmly, not shouting or yelling, but ask him;
Are we over, for real?
If he says yes, accept it, dont get angry, just say Ok, because if he says yes, it means it really is over, hard to believe, but sometimes the truth hurts.
If he says he doesnt know, give him some more time, and ask him later on, if he says no, then ask if he will get back with you, if not, thats ok, like i said, the truth hurts.
Try letting things settle down for a while, start speaking to your friends again, explain whats happened, and why you've been avoiding them, if they know, tell them your sorry, ect ect.
Im really sorry for whats happened Nikki, i hope things get easier for you.

P.S. I swear you were on my msn list :o

[FlyingJesus]

yeah lycan.. though, dont tell him about this, i dont want to make him mad or anything

You say that, knowing that he's on the forum..


so, like about once a week i 'dump him' like say somethhing like, fine we're not going out anymore, and i tell him i hate him alot, and i mean, its a surprise he hasnt dumped me ages ago, and i just keep pushing him and pushing him and pushing him and well no wonder, i mean ffs yesterday he said he wanted to be a bit more social and i went totally psycho and was all 'I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU!'

I think a big part of the problem is that you're an idiot. If you keep dumping someone and telling them you hate them, that's not really incentive for them to want a relationship with you. Also, from the social thing it seems like you keep him from doing stuff, that's not good either.


and i really really don't need anyone to tell me it's my own fault right now, because i don't know why i get so mad, maybe its for attention but i don't know, all i know is that i love him but ive hurt him so much and now im just so heart broken

Sorry love but the truth's the truth, it's all your fault.


i've told him how i feel, and i just cant stop crying, its hard to breathe and i need him so so SO MUCH :'(

No, you don't need him, you just think you do because you're used to having him around, and also because your teenage hormones are probably a bit dodgy (a lot dodgy actually, what with all the shouting and hate). Try some of the following:

Not shouting abuse at him.
Not breaking up with him just because you don't get your way.
Not playing him on a guilt trip by making threads on a forum that he goes on and will probably read.
Letting the poor guy off his leash once in a while.
Get counselling.Or, if all else fails:

Letting it go.

[sarey]

You say that, knowing that he's on the forum..



I think a big part of the problem is that you're an idiot. If you keep dumping someone and telling them you hate them, that's not really incentive for them to want a relationship with you. Also, from the social thing it seems like you keep him from doing stuff, that's not good either.



Sorry love but the truth's the truth, it's all your fault.



No, you don't need him, you just think you do because you're used to having him around, and also because your teenage hormones are probably a bit dodgy (a lot dodgy actually, what with all the shouting and hate). Try some of the following:

Not shouting abuse at him.
Not breaking up with him just because you don't get your way.
Not playing him on a guilt trip by making threads on a forum that he goes on and will probably read.
Letting the poor guy off his leash once in a while.
Get counselling.Or, if all else fails:

Letting it go.

YES LISTEN TO HIM!
I agree on it all!

[NIKKEE]

Sometimes you just gotta cut the rope and let it drop.
It looks like hes moving on, but then again, he could be covering it up, the feelings for you. When he said he wanted to be more social, he probably then wanted more space, he didnt mean to offend you by the looks of it, or anything like that, and i know you havent been talking to your mates because you've been with him, which is selfish that now he wants to socialize more, when you have been avoiding your friends for him.
Maybe when things have settled down, ask him firmly, not shouting or yelling, but ask him;
Are we over, for real?
If he says yes, accept it, dont get angry, just say Ok, because if he says yes, it means it really is over, hard to believe, but sometimes the truth hurts.
If he says he doesnt know, give him some more time, and ask him later on, if he says no, then ask if he will get back with you, if not, thats ok, like i said, the truth hurts.
Try letting things settle down for a while, start speaking to your friends again, explain whats happened, and why you've been avoiding them, if they know, tell them your sorry, ect ect.
Im really sorry for whats happened Nikki, i hope things get easier for you.

P.S. I swear you were on my msn list :o


you are on my list, but you're never on, although, neither am i
the socialising thing, god i dont know, i just thought he was happy with me
but if he wants to socialise then its fine, its up to him
seriously some of you guys are making me out to feel like such a ******* (flyingjesus... ill just ignore your 'advice')
id do anything just to have him, but now hes probably reading what everyones said and realised just how much i suck
i honestly dont think he would ever want to go back out with me, like you know, after hes decided he doesnt want to, though i do have the teensiest TEENSIEST bit of hope
i feel like hes treating me like he doesnt even know me and i hate it
and seriously i wish people would stop telling me its just 'hormones' i mean ffs, i do actually love him, not THINK i do

[FlyingJesus]

the socialising thing, god i dont know, i just thought he was happy with me

He can be happy with you and want to socialise, I'm sure you see more people than just him. If not, get a friend.


but if he wants to socialise then its fine, its up to him

Apparently it's not, if you shout and scream at him about it he'll feel like he actually can't do anything, and you'll just make him miserable.


seriously some of you guys are making me out to feel like such a ******* (flyingjesus... ill just ignore your 'advice')

Way to avoid the real issue. You're more stupid than I thought if you won't even take criticism and advice, and somehow you manage to score a few more stupid points for being sarcy about what I said. If you read it, you'll realise that all the points I mentioned are true and/or useful.


id do anything just to have him, but now hes probably reading what everyones said and realised just how much i suck
i honestly dont think he would ever want to go back out with me, like you know, after hes decided he doesnt want to, though i do have the teensiest TEENSIEST bit of hope

There is no hope for you. You seem to fail to realise that although you say you love him, you do everything to make him unhappy. You shout at him, you stop him from seeing his friends or meeting new people, you dump him every few days (rejection is one of the worst feelings ever), and you refuse to admit that you need to change. Yes, it's how you are, but that doesn't make it right, and he obviously doesn't want to be with "who you are", because it would make any man feel like utter crap. You have to change, or you're going to be lonely for the rest of your life.


i feel like hes treating me like he doesnt even know me and i hate it

I wouldn't want to know you if I was him either.


and seriously i wish people would stop telling me its just 'hormones' i mean ffs, i do actually love him, not THINK i do

Whatever you say, it's hormones. All emotions are to do with hormones, you can't argue with science (unless you're a facist). Also learn to read, I never said you didn't love him, I said you didn't need him, and he clearly can do a lot better without you, because I'm sure he feels terrible every time you shout at him, every time you break up with him, and every time you show how much you don't trust him by not letting him see other people. He's finally got free, all you ever did was try to cage him.

[NIKKEE]

argh when did i say i didnt want to change???
i just dont appreciate being called an idiot, flyingjesus
its not like i act like this with other guys, and i DONT stop him from seing his friends, he gets bloody mad at me if i say i want to do something with mine
and yeah i know he can be happy with me and want to socialise, it was just a well a 'spur of the moment thing' when he said it i jusy got mad
OK?!
and um trying to cage him? hes free now? ***... you dont even KNOW whats fully happening, III don't even know, and when did i say that you said i dont love him?
i could be talking about anyone who posted on the thread, fool
and ive got to change or ill be lonely for the rest of my life?
thanks... but yeah, he probably would be alot happier without me

[Rizla]

Ok, I said there were good bands in that list, but there are some dodgy ones, and some, without a doubt, emo ones (panic! at the disco, fall out boy, my chemical romance)


Excuse me, after your heart is broken, yes id consider yourself being depressed for awhile. :/ Shes not emo, your pathetic for labelling her. Shesshh. :/I never said she was emo for being depressed about breaking up with her boyfriend, I just said she was emo ;)

Also, the fact you ignored the best advice posted in this thread so far proves that this thread is just attention seeking, or you really are just an idiot.

Edit:

hen did i say that you said i dont love him?

i do actually love him, not THINK i do

[NIKKEE]

Ok, I said there were good bands in that list, but there are some dodgy ones, and some, without a doubt, emo ones (panic! at the disco, fall out boy, my chemical romance)

I never said she was emo for being depressed about breaking up with her boyfriend, I just said she was emo ;)

Also, the fact you ignored the best advice posted in this thread so far proves that this thread is just attention seeking, or you really are just an idiot.

what was the best advice posted on the thread so far?
flyingjesus
no im not attention seeking, i want help, but it seems that girls are just nicer about it...

and seriously,
are you still going on about the emo thing?



Quote:
hen did i say that you said i dont love him?

Quote:
i do actually love him, not THINK i do


thats still not saying that HE said it

[Rizla]

Somebody said something, so I provided evidence. I'm happy to let it go now. If you aren't attention seeking, why didn't you post the story and ask for advice in the first post? "How do you heel a broken heart?" isn't asking for advice, it sounds like a Pink song or something.

[NIKKEE]

Somebody said something, so I provided evidence. I'm happy to let it go now. If you aren't attention seeking, why didn't you post the story and ask for advice in the first post? "How do you heel a broken heart?" isn't asking for advice, it sounds like a Pink song or something.

lol, you made me snort, pink song...
well SORRY, i wasn't thinking

[FlyingJesus]

argh when did i say i didnt want to change???

Well you said that you wished he'd just accept how you are, which doesn't indicate a want for change.


and yeah i know he can be happy with me and want to socialise, it was just a well a 'spur of the moment thing' when he said it i jusy got mad
OK?!

You need anger management. I'm not saying that as an insult, I'm totally serious. You need some sort of professional counselling.


could be talking about anyone who posted on the thread, fool

Err just had a quick look through the thread, no-one thus far has claimed that you don't love the guy.


and ive got to change or ill be lonely for the rest of my life?

Well I don't know anyone who'd want to be with someone who screams "I HATE YOU" at them..


what was the best advice posted on the thread so far?
flyingjesus

Yup.


no im not attention seeking, i want help, but it seems that girls are just nicer about it...

Girls may well be "nicer", but they're not quite so right. I, on the other hand, am always right, but because of that I tend to border on the harsh side of things, especially when people can't accept the truth.

[Rizla]

See? Best advice so far ;) Definately better than "sellotape" ;)

[NIKKEE]

no i meant, i wish he would understand that i HAVE a problem, i never once said i wish he would accept me for how i am

and yeah, my stepdad, and my mum have both said i need anger management lol, thats actually strange you said that...

and ive told him id change, i promised i would, maybe we just need some sort of break... but then not being with him is just awful...

but i know i should give him space, i will give him space, i just feel like my summers been ruined you know... because at christmas holidays i was dumped aswell, but i never loved the guy you know, but it did make the holiday crap, and now the summer holidays, i feel, are just completely ruined and i just cant help thinking that...

i mean, how long would a break be for? a week, a month?! i mean how long for gods sake, because i just know i wouldnt be able to bear it

[Rizla]

Why don't you go out and get a real person, rather than someone you're never going to meet? :rolleyes:

[NIKKEE]

Why don't you go out and get a real person, rather than someone you're never going to meet? :rolleyes:

ok so thats cruel for gods sake.
he was sposed to be coming a week tomorrow...
but not anymore :(

[Rizla]

That's not cruel, ok, so you were going to meet, but now you aren't.

[lolerskates]

The best cure of course is Chocolate, Trashy TV, Your Best Friend and lots of sleep.

[NIKKEE]

yeah... because of me, you dont know how horrible it was to be told that, you really have no idea...
since the minute he told me i had been looking forward to it, arranging to do things and now its just all... whatever

[NIKKEE]

The best cure of course is Chocolate, Trashy TV, Your Best Friend and lots of sleep.

he was my best friend
i just want to watch friends, but then friends reminds me of him... everything reminds me of him
god i really do look desperate dont i...

[Alterate]

hows he defending me?
hes defending himself because he got called emo, and yeah, i dont really care if its sad, he used to need me too, but now, i guess not


No Offense but...

Shut Up

This was defending you. :rolleyes:


Its OK too be clingy

What are you on?

LOL. I just relised you think you have a broken heart over somebody you have never even meet? You're heart is not broken stop being over dramatic, go find a boyfriend in real life.

EDIT;


he was my best friend

i just want to watch friends, but then friends reminds me of him... everything reminds me of him

god i really do look desperate dont i...


LOL. Your best friend? You havent even met him. Go try make friends insted of chasing something which wont happen.

[NIKKEE]

This was defending you. :rolleyes:



What are you on?

LOL. I just relised you think you have a broken heart over somebody you have never even meet? You're heart is not broken stop being over dramatic, go find a boyfriend in real life.

just shut up...

[Alterate]

just shut up...

I'll shut up, when you grow up.

[NIKKEE]

grow up?
im 14... oh, and when did i act immature?

[Rizla]

This thread ;)

[NIKKEE]

i think i can pretty much act how i want, its my thread im upset, hurt, tired and sick

[Rizla]

Oh, so can I make a thread and act like whiny 10 year old?

[NIKKEE]

if you want :)
and i wouldnt say i acted like a whiny ten year old

[Alterate]

grow up?
im 14... oh, and when did i act immature?

Yes, so your young, and your acting even younger in this thread. You don't know what love is.

[Rizla]

and i wouldnt say i acted like a whiny ten year oldYeah, and alot of racists deny being racist, it doesn't change the fact.

[NIKKEE]

you're comparing me to a racist?
and how do you think i dont know what love is?
this is really getting ****ing annoying now.
im going out at half one anyway, so chris if you ever plan on speaking to me on msn then just do, ive been waiting for you to tell me whats happening, and i know you're there...

[Lycan]

i no you no,

you checked my habbox profile as well , plus me being online on msn is big clue that i'm there.

[NIKKEE]

no need to be sarcastic about it.
and you set yourself to away, so you could have been gone...

[Rizla]

God, no I wasn't comparing you with a racist, I was using that as an example of denial. I could have picked gay-acting-straight people, I could have picked mental people refusing to admit they have a problem, alcoholics, drug users or anything. It was just to explain denial to you :rolleyes:

(Just so we're clear, I'm not comparing you to a homosexual, something who's mentally ill, an alcoholic or a drug user, got that? ;))

[NIKKEE]

yeah ok right
fine
i was acting like a whiny 10 year old
so now what do i do... because so far you've still not given me any advice

[FlyingJesus]

no i meant, i wish he would understand that i HAVE a problem
....
and yeah, my stepdad, and my mum have both said i need anger management lol, thats actually strange you said that...
....
and ive told him id change, i promised i would

Well you obviously haven't acted on anyone's advice, so you don't look willing to change. If you want him to accept that you have a problem and still be with you, you have to show him that you really do want to do something about it.


grow up?
im 14... oh, and when did i act immature?

Well let's see..


just shut up...

shut the **** up

just
argh
go away
and my favourite

(flyingjesus... ill just ignore your 'advice')

Answer your question?


so now what do i do... because so far you've still not given me any advice


Try some of the following:

Not shouting abuse at him.
Not breaking up with him just because you don't get your way.
Not playing him on a guilt trip by making threads on a forum that he goes on and will probably read.
Letting the poor guy off his leash once in a while.
Get counselling.Or, if all else fails:

Letting it go.That's what's known as advice. Damn good advice too, as other members have said.

[NIKKEE]

doesn't matter, we don't go out, we're over
but thanks anyway.
oh and my mum, she says it in an offensive way, lile god sake you need anger management, i dont exactly KNOW how to get it...
anyway, thanks
bye

[Rizla]

If you want anger management you need to talk to a school counsellor/mentor ;)

[NIKKEE]

right, ok. thanks.

[NIKKEE]

sorry for double post, lol
i'm leaving the forum now
bye
and thanks to everyone who posted trying to help

[FlyingJesus]

You're welcome.

[Nightrose]

You're welcome.

Flying jesus is amazing at giving advice he may but it the hrash way but its the only way your gonan understand the turth about problems
i always saw you a bit mean flyingjesus but after all that i actually think ur great at giving advice and maybe a good listiner.

[Rauhl]

uhhhh dunno

[Rizla]

God, that was pointless >.<

[Diablo10]

if you wnat to heal a broken heart you need to get another one

[Kotu]

Lots of food, and go on the rebound.

[ReInfected]

please, can i just get some proper advice for once
how can i show him i love him? show how much he means to me
this is all my own fault!
Nail him.

[FlyingJesus]

Flying jesus is amazing at giving advice he may but it the hrash way but its the only way your gonan understand the turth about problems
i always saw you a bit mean flyingjesus but after all that i actually think ur great at giving advice and maybe a good listiner.

Cheers ^_^ Mean as I am, I do like to think I can help people, to understand things if nothing else.

[Nia12]

Alot fo ice-cream :D XXX

[Bef]

Ring your mates, tell them to get there bums down yours, pamper yourselves a bit then go out to a club/pub/park (depending on how old you are and where your "peeps" hang)
Just say, "I am teh sex" in your head, watch the guys/girls/both flock in and enjoy it.

[Lycan]

oh, just so you no, she joined a gym and is having lots of fun with her friends, not that i care of course ;)