What should i do ?

[EverSteve]

Every Wednedsday i go to a youth club after school (Its closed till September now)....

But i really like this Guy, hes reall cute and fit. I kinda stare at him everytime and look down places where i shouldn't if were playing Table Tennis together, sometimes im sure he sees me doing this and just smiles.

Also were always very nervous when we speak to each other.....i always go very red and just go completely mute, and so dose he but dosn't go red....

I had the confidence to tell a youth club member of staff when they asked me if anything was okay, then i admited i was bi and told them about the person.....

Im not sure what to do cause im to nervous to go up and atchually ask for his addi incase he realises im gay...

ALSO, i fancy one of my mates, about 2 months back during football he started touching up my ***....Im not sure if hes gay or just trying to get me angry....Someone told him i was bi like 2 weeks ago.

What should i do because my life is messed !

[brodeo]

1. Don't come onto straight guys.
2. Your mate is probably messing, k.

[Nixt]

1. Don't come onto straight guys.
2. Your mate is probably messing, k.

Sorry to say it :( But he's right...

[edible]

Talk to this mate, (the dude from the youth club ;S) And tell him how you feel, But if you feel shy talking to him face to face in your situation, just TRY and act calmly around him, and play it COOL<3 Just try and not look like u fancy him, get his addy and type it all out and tell him.

Good Luck my fellow bluenose.

[brodeo]

As much as its nice to hear other peoples opinions in this forum i do not agree. Would you rather blatantly tell him you like him and have the potential risk of destroying a frienship? Or playing it safe, discreetly finding out, then deciding on what to do?

[Drooped]

Urmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Well... i'd actually say, if your EXTREMELY SURE that the youth club guy DOES act ditto as you... like he likes knowing your staring at his groin etc then... get his addy and speak with him!

as for your mate, he's probably only joking.

[Lindzi]

Do you know the guy at the Youth Clubs Bi/Homosexual? If you dont I suggest you find out then if he is I think you should tell him, But thats just my Opinion.

[Fireshadowz]

You shoudlnt worry about ur life if ur friends were friends they would be mates even if u were bi

[Tesco]

Do they understand that?

[brandon]

If you come onto him and hes straight it wouldn't be the best move as it could easily cause an end to your friendship.

[Ostinato]

Every Wednedsday i go to a youth club after school (Its closed till September now)....

But i really like this Guy, hes reall cute and fit. I kinda stare at him everytime and look down places where i shouldn't if were playing Table Tennis together, sometimes im sure he sees me doing this and just smiles.

Also were always very nervous when we speak to each other.....i always go very red and just go completely mute, and so dose he but dosn't go red....

I had the confidence to tell a youth club member of staff when they asked me if anything was okay, then i admited i was bi and told them about the person.....

Im not sure what to do cause im to nervous to go up and atchually ask for his addi incase he realises im gay...

ALSO, i fancy one of my mates, about 2 months back during football he started touching up my ***....Im not sure if hes gay or just trying to get me angry....Someone told him i was bi like 2 weeks ago.

What should i do because my life is messed !

Dude, I say you just go up and ask for this guy at the youth club's addy. Just because you ask a mate for the email, doesn't make you gay... I do it all the time and I'm sure everyone else does. =S

Then, if he does, you can start talking to him on this better and get to know him more and find out about what he's into etc.

As for this mate of yours, well you need to be certain whether or not he likes you or if he was just fooling around, so don't go rushing into anything. Just take notice of the way he is around you and see if he tries it again or anything, then if he does perhaps he's maybe interested and you can take it from there...

[Kukuthebird]

1. Don't come onto straight guys.
2. Your mate is probably messing, k.

uh i'd have too agree.

but if you really like this guy, ask him out.

[EverSteve]

Thank's Everyone for your advice

Im not sure about the youth dude just yet cause theres another 40 more days till i see him (Due to the summer holidays), but i keep thinking about him so you know....

With the outta school dude i made sure he knew i was bi (Advice given on the other forum) and he thought the other person was only joking, Hes still mates with me but he hasn't felt me up so thats good and bad...

BUT....someone in my school on msn guessed that i fancied someone inside the school, i think he might tell them and a fight might start out, as i dont know him from out of school what do i do.

[StripedTiger]

awwrr bless

well its worth a shot really. there wud be point in life if you didnt have to take chances?

and for the boy that was toucing you up, go talk to him and find out if he was winding you up or he done it for another reason?

[hellogoodbye]

your mates proberly messing :P