Er okay then, pls help.

[edible]

I know im usually Someone who gives advice, but in this situation idk what to do and my advice wouldnt be the same situation.

You see i like this dude, he's my age and he's really nice, now i wouldnt even judge him on looks cos he's so much like me. We do drama together and we do heaps of shows and talk on msn. We've had such a laugh recently, me and him we get on really well<3 But recently i've started to think i like him. Our personalities are so loud, well thats how I put it anyhow. I dont go red in the face when i talk to him.

He confides in me, and has even said that he enjoys my company, and talking with me. I mean we joke about alot. And i enjoy talkiing with him alot. And i Honestly dont know what to do.

I mean I really like him. He's someone i enjoy being with.

Plus what would you do if there was this friend who was madly in love with an internet friend, cos she keeps pressuring me to tell himm she likes him.

Many thanks,
Vicks
xox

[Barwy]

I will give you the same advice [ i think ] you gave me a while back :

Just tell him?

It could be you've gotten so close that it wont wreck anything in your friendship.

I told a girl [who was alwreay in a relationship] that i liked her and the same evening i find shes finished with the other guy and now we're going out.

Only tell him if you think its the right situation/mood when you're out though and by no means dont do what i say just because i say it.

Do what you like, personally i would tell, after all, you only live life once and you might just regret keeping quiet sometime.

Have fun <3

[Topjak]

Tell him, as a male by the sounds of things, he seems farely int you, especialy if he said he enjoys your company, thats like an invite from male to spend more time with him.

The worst that could happen is he says no (which sounds very slim) and after all you really need to say is 'forget i said anything' (and put on a strong face).

But i would actually take a bet on saying he likes you alot as well.

[FlyingJesus]

Gotta go for it. Just tell him outright if you're comfortable with it, but if not then try something a bit more subtle. Say something like "loads of people have been saying we look like a couple" and see how he reacts, will probably be a good reaction as you say you get on well. Then, keeping your cool and making it look like a casual question, say "what do you reckon it'd be like if we were a couple?" and that'll put him right on the spot, and he'll be forced to let you know how he feels. Looking at him lustfully would help at this point too, as he won't get embarrassed about saying his true thoughts.

As an easy alternative, go down on him and see if he objects.

[FlyingJesus]

Double post, sorry.

[edible]

Yes but what bugs me, is that i dont think he's the kind of dating person.

[Topjak]

Question: Do you guys hang out outside of school? If so how often and for how long?

[edible]

WHY ???

[Topjak]

Because theres a difference between dating and going out. If you spend alot of time together out side of school, ask him if he'd go out with you NO date you, (if you feel hes not into dating). Its all in the wording.

[Lindzi]

Because theres a difference between dating and going out. If you spend alot of time together out side of school, ask him if he'd go out with you NO date you, (if you feel hes not into dating). Its all in the wording.
Lol that sounds a bit sneaky :P

[brandon]

Easy way to get out of rejection.

You: Will you go out with me?

Him: *REJECTION

You: No silly, I meant will you come out with me too Hills Park, all my mates are down there.

[Topjak]

Lol that sounds a bit sneaky :P


Thats because it is!

C'mon i'm male, i know my species and twisting words ALWAYS works!

Just look at Stealth's reply! Its ALL word play.... ITS BEAUTIFUL!

[Lindzi]

Lmao The genius of the english language :P

[Topjak]

Cant live normally with it, Cant live normally without it

[omgabear]

If you want to date him, and think it will work then go for it.

Dont of thinking about the downside of asking him out, only think about the good sides.

Optomisim is the way to go :)

Best of luck!

[foxyfox00]

Hmmm there is a few options.
1] Tell him out right [Might freak him out]
2] Find out if you are friends or 'just friends' by flirting and testing the waters [Good if you two are like this anyway]
3] Get your friends to ask him what he thinks of you
4] Get a boyfriend and make him jelous [Not really a good idea I just wanted to add another. Lol]
5] Have the 'where is the friendship going talk' [Can freak some guys out]
6] Keep being friends and gnore the feelings
7] Ending the friendship because you love him but cant stand to ask him out or be around him.

They are the options but I suggest just being friends for a bit and moving slowly the eventually asking him out. If he doesnt feel the same way hopefully hes a nice enough guy to keep it to himself.

Good luck with what ever you choose.