Happy BUT sad :(

[Rory]

I met this guy, and he's the first ever guy I've ever done anything with; I'm going down tonight actually; but... I think I'm starting to fall for him and he leaves to goto uni in like 6 weeks and I don't know what to do :(
And there's a 4 year age gap (he's 19 and I'm 15) but I really like him :(

[Rizla]

Er... and? Are you asking for advice, comfort, what? I don't get the point of this thread.

Edit: Sorry, I tried to resist...

I'm going down tonight actually LOL :)

[iluvben]

What do you expect him to do ? Give up his future to stay just for your satisfaction , I doubt he would do that , so there is nothing you can do really so try and move on.

[Drooped]

He's a peadophile.

remember, legal age for gay sex is 18. he's 19, your 15.

It's wrong.

[Techika]

are you a boy or a girl?

[Drooped]

tech think of the name of this forum and also

"I met this guy"

[Rizla]

Actually, paedophilia only counts if the person is 5 years older than whoever is under the age limit. If we're going to be technical, it's not called paedophilia with teens anyway.

[Rory]

Legal age for sex is 16.

[Techika]

so hes a gay boy? okay fair enough ure choice go for him son make a move

[Rizla]

Gay sex is 18 ;)

Edit: Techika, do you actually read before you post? o.O

[Rory]

We haven't even had sex so...

[Rizla]

K then, but he wouldn't be a paedo anyway.

[Drooped]

he's still a peadophile. If a guy even slap's your bottom he's a sexual predator? Anything sexually is seen as peadophinalia. (sp?)

[Rizla]

No, it isn't, as I've already said, he has to be 5 years older than him if he's under the age limit for it to be illegal. I think it's 5 anyway, anybody know/can be bothered Googling it?

[Lindzi]

Gay sex is 18 ;)

Edit: Techika, do you actually read before you post? o.O
Omg seriously? Anyone know why it's 18? :s (Sorry to go off topic)

He could still come visit you during school holidays and stuff couldnt he? And you could still talk on the phone and stuff :). Well whatever you do I hope it works out :D

[Rizla]

"Your a noob, god you do give pointless -reps."

I do give pointless what, exactly? o.O If you meant to put advice, I wasn't aware I'd given any advice in this thread, so...

[arouse]

he's still a peadophile. If a guy even slap's your bottom he's a sexual predator? Anything sexually is seen as peadophinalia. (sp?)

If you're going to use words, atleast know how to spell them goddamnit.

Peadophinilia? I think you mean Paedophilia, there's no such word as peadophinilia.

Peadophile? PAEdophile.

[Lubricant]

Just make the most of the time you have together.

[Ostinato]

As a matter of a fact, 21 years old is actually the consent of age for lawful gay sex.

The fact of the matter is here, is nothing to do with the person he is with being a peadophile etc. as the age gap is only 4 years and I know a hell of a lot of people who have been in relationships with bigger gaps, and if you all think that you can only go out with someone who's birthday is in the same year as you or something... then your sadly mistaken and need to really have a good look at the real world.


Now, back to the problem.
The thing with relationships in which there is an age gap, is that ultimately it will end up one person is further on in life and doing different thing's from which the other might be at their age; in this case going to university.

You need to speak to your boyfriend and have a think and see if he still want's to continue your relationship, even if it's long distance, but if you or him even have the slightest doubt about it - then you need to just get away from it all I think, then you have plenty of time to meet someone else.

[Rory]

As a matter of a fact, 21 years old is actually the consent of age for lawful gay sex.

The fact of the matter is here, is nothing to do with the person he is with being a peadophile etc. as the age gap is only 4 years and I know a hell of a lot of people who have been in relationships with bigger gaps, and if you all think that you can only go out with someone who's birthday is in the same year as you or something... then your sadly mistaken and need to really have a good look at the real world.


Now, back to the problem.
The thing with relationships in which there is an age gap, is that ultimately it will end up one person is further on in life and doing different thing's from which the other might be at their age; in this case going to university.

You need to speak to your boyfriend and have a think and see if he still want's to continue your relationship, even if it's long distance, but if you or him even have the slightest doubt about it - then you need to just get away from it all I think, then you have plenty of time to meet someone else.

Thanks, that's really good advice. :)

[Kukuthebird]

Omg seriously? Anyone know why it's 18? :s (Sorry to go off topic)

He could still come visit you during school holidays and stuff couldnt he? And you could still talk on the phone and stuff :). Well whatever you do I hope it works out :D

uh i think its beacuse of diseases and stuff.

actually idk.

[Stab]

OMG im not gay, but i think its unfair the age limit is 21.
Come on, prejudice.
Make it 16 16, gays can't get pregant, so whats the deal!

[Kukuthebird]

OMG im not gay, but i think its unfair the age limit is 21.
Come on, prejudice.
Make it 16 16, gays can't get pregant, so whats the deal!

diseases i think. idk though.

@rory idk about advice. kind of annoying when hes got uni. i feel for you ;[

[Stab]

ooer, thanks for replying, that sucks ***, my best friend sammy, shes 15 and her bf is 18 or 19, he's gone off to uni, they are doing fine.

[xMicHeLlEx]

Hardly an age cap allan :s