I have a problem

[Shans]

I am 16, and have a problem ...I like to fight I get a great thrill from it especially once I am egged on, I know it's wrong but i can't seem to stop myself. Every time I go out with my mates it usally ends with me and my friends fighting, I tried to stop but cant anyone got any advise ?

Ostinato (Forum Moderator) Thread closed, due to bumping.

[clarissax]

dnt go out

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Its a sign of you trying to be dominant wich isnt right, I Seen this happen before and it ended very very sad.

[Shans]

Well I am not not going out

[clarissax]

Well I am not not going out
sort it out den m8

[Shans]

not that simple ..I try not too

[the wombats]

not that simple ..I try not too
Try to then, simple.

[Ostinato]

I am 16, and have a problem ...I like to fight I get a great thrill from it especially once I am egged on, I know it's wrong but i can't seem to stop myself. Every time I go out with my mates it usally ends with me and my friends fighting, I tried to stop but cant anyone got any advise ?

Okay it's good that you've realised you have a serious problem here. First of all you could maybe start by simply making an appointment with your doctor. You can explain to him you perhaps think you have anger problems and ask him to refer you to where you can get help.

Aswell as this, you could perhaps maybe join something like a boxing club, where you can take out your anger and fight where it's condoled and let all your emotion and anger out there.

[Menshevik]

I like to fight too, but no one wants to fight me.
Whip your friends into shape and make then not want to fight you by beating the living hell out of them, then you'll have no one to egg you on.

[Nia12]

Maybe before you get into a fight you should walk away calm down and go back.

[Mohwar.]

Its the people your with.. try to make new friends and see how that goes.

[WhatDidIdoNow?]

Tell your mates you've stopped fighting without a reason... It's that simple. They'll try to push you for a while, but eventually they'll stop, I've seen it before with people stopping smoking, you play around for a bit, blow smoke at them, roll up in front of them, pretend to pass it to them etc., but it gets boring eventually.

[Royksopp]

Okay it's good that you've realised you have a serious problem here. First of all you could maybe start by simply making an appointment with your doctor. You can explain to him you perhaps think you have anger problems and ask him to refer you to where you can get help.

Aswell as this, you could perhaps maybe join something like a boxing club, where you can take out your anger and fight where it's condoled and let all your emotion and anger out there.

yeh i would say boxing it gets anger out or hitting things like trees with a baseball bat get me un-stressed if im annoyed

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Aswell as this, you could perhaps maybe join something like a boxing club, where you can take out your anger and fight where it's condoled and let all your emotion and anger out there.

I think thats the best solution.

[Drooped]

Not too sure.

sounds like someone trying to act all hard or someone just lying.

I can imagine you being one of those 'blend in with the wall and carpets' people...

[Azul]

Have a fight with me, when I knock you out you wouldn't dare start a fight with anyone again. simple.

[Royksopp]

Have a fight with me, when I knock you out you wouldn't dare start a fight with anyone again. simple. ooo hard man?

[Azul]

it was supposed to be ironic. but you killed it, cheers!

[Topjak]

it was supposed to be ironic. but you killed it, cheers!

Dont worry it wasnt wasted on all of us. Good ue of irony btw.

[Samishlol]

Its simple don't go out or as someone said back then see your doctor, your like my friend he always gets into fights.

[luke-p]

Its simple don't go out or as someone said back then see your doctor, your like my friend he always gets into fights.

Wth why did you bump this thread?!

[smurf-you]

16, maybe mature a bit. but it's the adults setting the example, like fighting in streets, in pubs and everywhere else.

Trust me, fights are good untill you'll lose...and get a broken nose.

[Mentor]

Take up boxing or somthing and get it out of your system that way "/