How Old?

[Evasion]

How old do you think you should be before you have sex. I am 13 and go out to partys and stuff and hook up with girls and do stuff after. I just want to know what is a healthy age.

[sarey]

Id say around 18.

1. The law.
2. You dont want to have sex when your 13 or something because your body is still growing.
3. You could actually make the girl pregenent and you will be a father at a very young age if you do it before 18, just at 18, your more mature and older.

But if you want to loose your virginity/have sex at a certain age, go for it, but be sure to use protection, its up to you when you want to have sex, if you want to have sex at a young age, thats your choice, or if you want to wait until the legal age, its also your choice, but for the age id say 18. :)

[Evasion]

Id say around 18.

1. The law.
2. You dont want to have sex when your 13 or something because your body is still growing.
3. You could actually make the girl pregenent and you will be a father at a very young age if you do it before 18, just at 18, your more mature and older.

But if you want to loose your virginity/have sex at a certain age, go for it, but be sure to use protection, its up to you when you want to have sex, if you want to have sex at a young age, thats your choice, or if you want to wait until the legal age, its also your choice, but for the age id say 18. :) K. Thanks.

[sarey]

Ur welcome. =]

[DJLouis]

i would say your age now is helthy.

1. Because you mite be really really deaply in a relationship and you want to take things further.

2.Your young so when your younger if you loose your vaginity you don't have to worry when you get older.

3. You may be sexuarly active and in that case it's not your falt :).

[sarey]

But he is still growing.
He has all that for when hes older.
13 is too young, how is it old enough?
He could get the other girl pregnent. ;/

[Evasion]

But how long do you think I should wait?

[DJLouis]

Not if he uses a condom :)

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Id say around 18.

1. The law.


The law's 16 "/

Anyway, it's when you and the other person feels ready (I'm hoping their IS another person)

[omgabear]

Jesus kid your only 13. You shouldnt be drinking, or even attempting to get into a girls pants.

At your age you gotta start wondering why all this hair is growing down there.

[Wayne]

Jesus kid your only 13. You shouldnt be drinking, or even attempting to get into a girls pants.

At your age you gotta start wondering where all this hair is coming from.

Lmao at that. Yeah, you're right. 13 is way too young in my opinion to start thinking about having sex. I think 16 is the best age for it, because you know everything about it at that age.

[Evasion]

Jesus kid your only 13. You shouldnt be drinking, or even attempting to get into a girls pants.

At your age you gotta start wondering why all this hair is growing down there. They taught us all that stuff in yr 5.

[sarey]

Haha, its just most things i know are 18+ for the law.
Either way, id wait till 18.


Also, whether he uses a condom or not, its still stupid and wrong to do it at such a young age, but if you wanna loose your virginity at 13, feel free.
Im not gonna be thinking about sex until im at least 17.
I got school ect ect to sort out. =]

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Surely it's how they both feel

Don't take advice from us, it's upto you to decide when you're ready and no one else

(Sensible rant over)

[omgabear]

Be moral. I know its good to gloat to mates but when you say you did it at 13... thats kinda off. Wait till your 15 minimum. Till then, do everything but.

[DJLouis]

It don't bother me personally if you feal that way about a girlfriend like ido with mine and you both no you want to have sexual intercorse then go for it i did :) and it bourght us closer :) But don't take advice from a forum end of the day if your not prepeard to take the extra step thats your choice and nobody should beable to change that for you :)

[Evasion]

OK, thanks guys.

[sarey]

Like Extreme said, its up to you basically what you want to happen, if you feel your ready to have sex, and the other person you're going to have sex with is also prepared, then feel free. :)

[NekkLe]

In Enlgand the legal age to have sex is 16 but either way people don't abide to these laws and just stick it in where they want to :|
I beleive 13 is way too young, but this is the thing, lots of youths are having it off when there young and don't realise the consequences after whether its disease or pregnancy.

[Lindzi]

Not if he uses a condom :)
Yeah but I know the chance is like 1 in a million but what if that breaks?

I think the People having sex should be old enough to face the responsibilities so I think 16 is definitley low enough.

[Infrontation]

If you get someone pregnant you can mess up your life and school

[clarissax]

wayy older than 13. like i'll probably wait til im 16 or atleast nearly 16.

[Kukuthebird]

um i'll wait till im 16 lool.

you're wayyy to young to be thinking about seex.

think of all the diseases and pregnancy etc. but fi you get a comdom i guess thats solved. but you're still growing

i wouldnt :]

[NightSlayer]

Id say around 18.

1. The law.
2. You dont want to have sex when your 13 or something because your body is still growing.
3. You could actually make the girl pregenent and you will be a father at a very young age if you do it before 18, just at 18, your more mature and older.

But if you want to loose your virginity/have sex at a certain age, go for it, but be sure to use protection, its up to you when you want to have sex, if you want to have sex at a young age, thats your choice, or if you want to wait until the legal age, its also your choice, but for the age id say 18. :)

yep i totally agree

[Bef]

Id say 16, even if i didn't stick to it myself, i wish i had.

[Kukuthebird]

Id say 16, even if i didn't stick to it myself, i wish i had.

ya just 2 hornie

[Aeon]

ya just 2 hornie

Lol probably a good explantion, anywho, I think that 16 is a good age, yet I find that most people i know did it at 16, its just one of those things, people tend to think,

"If you do it 1 year younger I'm really cool

Its kind of a taboo, but i think 13 is way too young, isn't 13 like the kind of time your still playing dragonball Z and all that rubbish LOL

[Ostinato]

Personally, I don't think you can put an exact age on when it is 'healthy' to have intecourse. You can't say, YOU SHOULD HAVE IT ON THE 16TH YEAR OF THE 12TH DAY AT 2:47PM.

Personally, I believe you should wait until you find someone who you are in love with and you have a connection with, rather than just bonking off with the first girl you come to. I also agree that the law is there for a reason, and it's so you are old enough to be able to deal with any consequences that may arise out of having sex.

However, I didn't wait until I was 16 myself, and I know a lot of other people havn't either. Personally, I waited until I was with a girl who I loved and want to be with for the rest of my life to do it.

I do think 13 is far too young though, as you will be no where near finished puberty yet and you still have a lot of developing, physically and mentally, to do.

[FlyingJesus]

14 at the VERY youngest I'd say, and that's only if you're an early starter. I was just 15 (a week after my birthday) when I first had proper sex, and that was with someone who I'd been with for a while and was (and still am) in love with. You, mister thread-starter, say you just go out and get drunk with girls, that's not how it should happen. I know at that age you really don't care, but you'll probably come to regret it in a few years time if your first bang is with some underage ho who's off her face on cheap booze.

[Lindzi]

You can't say, YOU SHOULD HAVE IT ON THE 16TH YEAR OF THE 12TH DAY AT 2:47PM.


Sure you can! :P

[Ostinato]

Sure you can! :P

Lol well of course you can say it, but it never work's that way. =P

[Nia12]

it's legal to have sex at 16 in england.

[DJ-Extra]

Id say around 18.

1. The law.
2. You dont want to have sex when your 13 or something because your body is still growing.
3. You could actually make the girl pregenent and you will be a father at a very young age if you do it before 18, just at 18, your more mature and older.

But if you want to loose your virginity/have sex at a certain age, go for it, but be sure to use protection, its up to you when you want to have sex, if you want to have sex at a young age, thats your choice, or if you want to wait until the legal age, its also your choice, but for the age id say 18. :)

The legal age for males is 16 its 18 for females, but most people think it is 18

[Lindzi]

The legal age for males is 16 its 18 for females, but most people think it is 18
18 For females?

[clarissax]

The legal age for males is 16 its 18 for females, but most people think it is 18
what are you on about? its 16 for everyone..

[kasi]

i'd say 16-18

the legal age where i live is 14 [said so in my health book]

[Lindzi]

Lol if its 18 for females who are guys meant to sleep with at 16 since for gay sex you have to be 18 lol

[sarey]

The legal age for males is 16 its 18 for females, but most people think it is 18


yes thankyou, someone also pointed that out in the first page, please read the thread before posting and correcting me if someone has already done so.

I have researched the law on the age for each country, and found this for the UK;
United Kingdom England, Scotland & Wales : 16
United Kingdom, Northern Ireland : 17

The URL for that website is as follows;
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm

Hope that helped.

[iluvben]

i'd say 16-18



the legal age where i live is 14 [said so in my health book]

14 :o Thats quite young.

[clarissax]

14 :o Thats quite young.
its 14 in loads of places, italy being one of them.

[FlyingJesus]

It's 13 in Japan.

[Lindzi]

Lets all move to Japan or Italy!! :D

[Mentor]

most places is 14 i belive. plus Japan's mainly 18 since the fediral law is overridden in nearly all circumstances "/
Its 12 in some parts of Canada though apparently...

Although.. i dont realy cair since im over the age of consent here anyway o.0

[Bef]

ya just 2 hornie
I know ;[ It can't be helped.

[MsTanya]

15 +

[Jord]

You must be desperate..

Don't think about this till your around 15-19 I'll say, Or just about when ure leaving school.

Don't wanna put other things on your mind when ure studying for your GCSE's and A levels.

[Diablo10]

i woodent even think of doing that! well i think of it but id never do it cause im 13 to

[Evasion]

Ok you don't have to keep talking about it.

[i luv rosie]

I did when I was 14, and wish I didn't.
wait till your 16 - 17.

[Evasion]

I will but I mite not be able to wait. And ***** in Zimbabwe it's 12 for male-female illegal female-female illegal male-male.

[omgabear]

It's 13 in Japan.

*Buys ticket to japan*

[sarey]

*stays here in the uk*
Id rather have sex at 17 than 13 :)
Anyway, *stops talking about this*.

[omgabear]

*Buys ticket to japan*

I dont even get why I said that, im already legal.

[sarey]

Lmao.... neither do i :D

[Many]

Its healthy whenever its just the concequences.
And dont quote on my spelling.

[alteration]

15-16 do it harder do it lol no serious 16+

. Law:)

[Topjak]

I dont even get why I said that, im already legal.


Peado... :rolleyes:
Just kidding.

Oh and 15 MINIMUM, after 15 theres no legal problems as long as she too is 16 +

[brandon]

I'm 13 and that's the thing at the back of my mind atm ;) I'll wait till I finish school, get a decent job and then I'll start thinking about it.

[Topjak]

I'm 13 and that's the thing at the back of my mind atm ;) I'll wait till I finish school, get a decent job and then I'll start thinking about it.


AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! OH GOD!!! You wish! Believe me there will be a point when its ALL ou can think about, curse of being male im afraid.

[brandon]

AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! OH GOD!!! You wish! Believe me there will be a point when its ALL ou can think about, curse of being male im afraid.
lol probably when I reach about 15 :p

[Topjak]

lol probably when I reach about 15 :p


More than likely, but believe me it WILL happen and nothing on gods earth can stop it. But its not as bad as some might think :rolleyes:

[Royksopp]

id probbably say 15 im 14 and i havent lost my v yet i dont intend to well atleast not without a condom use a condom!!!

[Kotu]

Obviously the laws are there for a reason - they are there as a guidelines to protect young children from the risks of having sex, and what not - but this doesn't rule out the fact that some people mature quicker than other people, and feel they are ready earlier than 16.

I'd say generally 16-18, because you are classed as a young adult then, and it's what the law reccomends.

But, ultimately, it's up to the individuals to decide whether they're ready.

[MsTanya]

its all about when youre ready, its different for different people

[Evasion]

Yup. Guess your wright.

[Day.]

I would Say between 15-18ish More on the line of 16 though lol, as it is the Legal Age. But I do know alot of people who have at 15. Also 13 is far to young. Imagine the impact of having a Baby at the age of 13. Personally I would have died.

[Jamie!]

I'd say just whenever you and your partner are ready to be honest and just make sure you know the risks involved.

[Azza]

wud say 13 is too young

i would say at about 16, 15 at a push ^^ really up to you what u wanna do even though makes sense to w8 till your older for it ^^ well older being around 16.

[JonJon]

Be moral. I know its good to gloat to mates but when you say you did it at 13... thats kinda off. Wait till your 15 minimum. Till then, do everything but.

I bet you're only saying that because it's the age you waited until... :rolleyes:

[Infrontation]

At least 16 "/
Anyways Safe sex for agess for me it will be. I'm not going too waste my clubbing days by getting my girlfriend pregnant and having too look after a kid for the rest of my life.

[Metric.]

I think you shouldn't stick it in somebody you don't know at that age, especially without a condom. I think if your serious with your lover and you've been going out for a long time and you both want to do it, then go get some condoms or get on the pill and have a good time, just don't go crying to whoever when you don't use safe methods and you get your girlfriend pregnant and you have a kid to deal with for the next 18 years.

[dale939]

Haha, its just most things i know are 18+ for the law.
Either way, id wait till 18.


Also, whether he uses a condom or not, its still stupid and wrong to do it at such a young age, but if you wanna loose your virginity at 13, feel free.
Im not gonna be thinking about sex until im at least 17.
I got school ect ect to sort out. =]


i'd love to lose my viginity at 13 im 16 and still havent :@ :@ :@ :@ :eusa_wall