Grr....

[FatJoe]

Well,

My girlfriend is going out this weekend to some trip with her friend and family... She promised me not to do anything stupid with other guys or anything.. I trust her but its really hard since she cheated on me.. She might come back and just tell me she did nothing but in reality she did :S... Please help!

[StripedTiger]

yeah theres always gunna be the little.. distrust there.

what you might have to do is jsut take her word for it?

[sarey]

The key to every relationship is trust.

Im sure both of you dont trust each other at the moment, but what she did was very wrong, if she promised, you just have to take her word for it, if she has done something, im sure she will tell you, just bare in mind she loves you, and that im sure you love her. Considering she has cheated on you, it makes taking her word for it even worse, but you two arn't going to get anywhere if you haven't got trust, try and focus on things for when she gets back, and take a breather for the moment.

[WhatDidIdoNow?]

While she's away, cheat on her. It levels it out and covers you just incase she does cheat on you again :)

[StripedTiger]

errr no... that doesnt help

[FatJoe]

Blah im so depressed right now.. I need someone to talk to :(

[sarey]

Well, im always here. <3
Dont listen to whatdididonow, that will just worsen the relationship.

[Swastika]

If you carnt trust each other, what are you doing together?
Split up with her ASAP, theres no point in trying to get the relationship back together, you'll still have the distrusting feelings.

-Jamie

[sarey]

Maybe they can get the trust back?
Ok ill put it this way.

If you wanna make it work.. try and make it work and stay with her.
If you think there is no hope at working it out, split.
If you dont want to work it out, split.
If she wants to work it out, stay together and see what happens.

Either way, trust is the key to any relationship, and love of course.

If you love her, try and work it.

[Drooped]

I'd say, go out and cheat once ;)

[alteration]

well when someone cheats on you the best thing to do is temporaiy get your own back, or tell her your true feelings ive had my gf for over a year since then:)

[sarey]

Not really alt.

If you get back at them, thats even worse, and then the relationship gets nowhere, cause it will turn into a circle of getting back, she will do it again, then he will, ect, ect.

[WhatDidIdoNow?]

Meh, open relationships work better as a teenager, I'm not looking for monogamy when I'm only 15...

Edit: I'm aware cheating on someone isn't exactly "open", that was just a general statement.

[Many]

If you dont trust her dont be with her!

[FatJoe]

Im so depressed.. I don't know ***reak to do :(

[Royksopp]

Im so depressed.. I don't know ***reak to do :(
theres nothing you can do exept trust her in what she says if you find out anything dump her simple if she loves you she wont cheat.

[FlyingJesus]

Bang one of her mates, see how she likes it.

Seriously, I think cheating is disgusting, but if she's willing to hurt you by doing it then you should feel no obligations to her. If I were in your situation I'd break up with her, however difficult it is.

[Alterate]

Hopefully she cheats on you and find's a new man. One that won't hit her..

[FatJoe]

Uh Huh.. Thanks guys

[edible]

Lol Alterate..

If you cant trust her.
Simple. Dump her.
k ?

[Ostinato]

Oh yeh cause cheating is the answer to all his problems isn't it? Don't be so stupid. You are all just trying to act the big hard man who goes out sleeping around by saying that, but in actual fact we know it's not true.

If you cheat on her whilst she is away, it just makes you as bad as her and simply makes everything a whole lot worse for you both.

If she's told you she wont cheat on you, your just going to need to take her word for it because there's no way you can know for your sure at the end of the day anyway. If you think it's just too much and you can't trust her, then you seriously need to re-think your relationship, as I'm very doubtful it would last long into the future if you don't have any trust for her even at this stage.

But cmon dude, she made a mistake and has apologised and moved on... give her another chance - we all deserve one every now and again.

[Azza]

simple really, i think anyway.
you should try trusting her even though it wud be hard due to the past but you should as a relationship isnt much of a relatinoship without trust and when she comes back she doesnt do anything its fine she does she aint really worth it ^^ cheating n her wudnt rlly solve anything though just wud seem 2 make things more worse ^^

anyways thats my opion w/e sp ^^