What do you Do In Times Of Sadness

[incubimaster]

I was just wondering when your sad, what do you do to cheer yourself up?????:s

[Nixt]

Lawl.. Meditate please <3

[Swastika]

Just go to my room, listen to some soothing music like:

Bone Thuz N Harmony - Cleveland Is The City
Tupac - Brendas Got A Baby

And generally any music that cheers me up which is near enough all Tupac stuff :)!

-Jamie

[omgabear]

Lol, listening to rap would cheer anyone up.

[foxyfox00]

Well when im sad I tend to cry alot, A random thought or song on the radio usually makes me laugh. I sing heaps and I always think of the pina-coladia song my friend and I sing.

Or even thinking about something funny works

[FlyingJesus]

Make fun of other people so I can drain their happiness and feel better.

[-Soph-]

If i'm by myself then I can't cheer myself up, But usually if my mum or someone talks to me then I can

[Many]

To cheer myself up - play football - meet up with mates.

[.DJ.Sunshine.]

Hmm well I stick some loud music on, or ring one of my friends :)

Gemma x

[StripedTiger]

i watch Greenwing, go on the computer, go on the xbox, go out and spend money, or lsiten to music

[stephen-]

I listen to music ^^ It makes me kinda happier.

[Virgin Mary]

Pretend I'm happy :(

[Ostinato]

Have a nice warm cuppa, then go out and blow a lot of money on clothes and stuff, then go out to a club or something at night and just dance all night lol.

='D Hehe!

[Clarissaa]

spend money, sleep, listen to music, get away from whatevers upset me.

[Victimized]

[QUOTE=incubimaster]I was just wondering when your sad, what do you do to cheer [/QUOTE/
OFFTOPIC: Do you like Incubus? I you do then you rock, k?

[JT-Fan]

Hm the last week I've been really upset and I guess I dont just mope around just do stuff, listen to music mainly for me.

[Uwe]

Watch Phantom over and over again and cry :'[

[MsTanya]

play footie or get ******
EternalMasque (Forum Moderator) Please don't avoid the filter.

[omgabear]

play footie or get pised

Sadness and booze is suprisignly a good combo.

[the wombats]

I go to my room and complain....

[IDK]

talk to my mates, listen to certain music.

[MsTanya]

Sadness and booze is suprisignly a good combo.
yes i know <3

[DMB-Hosting]

Hummm, wouldnt you like to know

[Azza]

listen to music ^^ wewt wewt <33

[Victimized]

Wallow in my own self-pity.

[HaboCola]

Cut myself x_X, listen to music, watch Happy Tree Friends.

[MsTanya]

Cut myself x_X, listen to music, watch Happy Tree Friends.
are you being sarcastic?

[Swastika]

I hope he is ^_^

-Jamie

[MsTanya]

i do too

[Rou]

go to boxing training , takes anger out =] Football with friends, and just sit and think.

[Rizla]

I curl up into a ball and cry myself to sleep :'(

[ilovejordan]

Cry? .

[sarey]

Hi pretty gal. =] ^^^^

Um, i usually cry yeah, sometimes i scream, then i put full blast music on and trash my room! :D Bad idea rofl.

[omgabear]

I'm really optomistic, so i just listen to music to get it out of my system.

[simon!]

I think the main situation I get myself out of is basically by doing something that makes me happy. Like calling a few of the lads up and going out for a couple of drinks.

[Herman]

I just cry my heart out. I don't hide my emotions, I just cry. Well, it makes me feel better.

[Blinger1]

i go to my room and think about what has just happened

[simon!]

I used to be able to cry, but I've lost the effort. I just either go to the bedroom and throw the pillow at the wall or I just talk it out with the person I'm angry at. Although its good to cry :)

[Riico]

I listen to depressing music and self harm

Thats not a good idea either

[=:Elliot:=]

Go to my room close the door lie on my bed and just think maybe shed a tear but remember in times of sadness think positive i know its hard but it will get you through

for example a loss of a loved one it's heart breaking if you have ever been through it you can agree but the person wouldnt want you to get all upset they would want you to be happy and enjoy life and remember all the great times you spent with that person

so think positive and turn that frown upside down :)

[Riico]

for example a loss of a loved one it's heart breaking if you have ever been through it you can agree but the person wouldnt want you to get all upset they would want you to be happy and enjoy life and remember all the great times you spent with that person

LOL Not in everycase , my thread she wants me to go as much pain as possible and tbh i want it back for her i also smash stuff when im sad

[=:Elliot:=]

LOL Not in everycase , my thread she wants me to go as much pain as possible and tbh i want it back for her i also smash stuff when im sad

lol very true but she knows perfectly well what she has done to you and its not on mate so smash away :P

[XxXTezerXxX]

I just sit there any think about what's happened.

[The Professor]

I listen to depressing music and self harm

Thats not a good idea either

Too right. When I'm sad I go on msn and laugh at the people like you on my list, and think "God, wouldn't i be a sadact with no life if i was like you!"

Or if I'm not feeling malicious, or if theres noone on my list on, I usually play on a sonic game or runescape just to blank my mind completely until something interesting happens, then go with that. its amazing how starting at a really easy game can blank your mind and turn it to the consistency of a vegetable.

[sarey]

Too right. When I'm sad I go on msn and laugh at the people like you on my list, and think "God, wouldn't i be a sadact with no life if i was like you!"

Or if I'm not feeling malicious, or if theres noone on my list on, I usually play on a sonic game or runescape just to blank my mind completely until something interesting happens, then go with that. its amazing how starting at a really easy game can blank your mind and turn it to the consistency of a vegetable.

You are so heartless.
Thats all im saying about you.
Have you ever researched selfharm, or seen the selfharm guide thread? God, get a life yourself, going on about there lifes proves you dont have one yourself! :rolleyes:

[simon!]

You are so heartless.
Thats all im saying about you.
Have you ever researched selfharm, or seen the selfharm guide thread? God, get a life yourself, going on about there lifes proves you dont have one yourself! :rolleyes:

Ditto to what sarah said [:

[=:Elliot:=]

Too right. When I'm sad I go on msn and laugh at the people like you on my list, and think "God, wouldn't i be a sadact with no life if i was like you!"

Or if I'm not feeling malicious, or if theres noone on my list on, I usually play on a sonic game or runescape just to blank my mind completely until something interesting happens, then go with that. its amazing how starting at a really easy game can blank your mind and turn it to the consistency of a vegetable.

Lol the fact that you would call someone like him on msn is just funny because i mean i know for a fact you wouldnt say it to his face because you would be too scared and the fact you actually think is a start shame you didnt before you posted that comment but the fact you think your life is better than people like him also makes me laugh as your someone who goes on msn to insult someone yeah some life you have there so in future dont post commets like that as they are not big and not clever and are not called for at all if you really think of yourself better than people like him then you shouldnt be thanking God because if you where religious then you would know God made everyone equal and if you think your some sort of superiour then fine its your own opinion on yourself but just ROFFLE on you i dont want to seem mean though but i just needed to say that so i dont dislike you or anything its just what you said annoyed me.

Anyways sorry about that just needed to get it off my chest *Rant Over*

[sarey]

Ditto to what sarah said [:

You are very agreeable arnt you. :rolleyes:

And i agree with Elliot also, with all of that.

[Rizla]

I agree with Alex, stupid little emos should realise they have a decent life and stop cutting themselves. And before somebody says "you've never had real pain in your life so shut up" or some shit like that, I have had real pain, I didn't cut myself or go cry in a dark room, I powered through it, it's what you do.

[sally37]

You have a point about emos but not all emos are like that, yeah maybe some of them a quite sad sometimes and cut themself but i have emos friends and i stop them hurting themself if you was one of friends would you do the same?

[Rizla]

I've no idea what I'd do in that situation, since none of my friends are like that, but I suppose I'd try and help. If they just ignored me though, what could I do? Why should you try to help somebody who just doesn't care?

[FlyingJesus]

Why should you try to help somebody who just doesn't care?

Exactly, that's for people with morals.

[Seacat]

i never get sad

[Rizla]

Exactly, that's for people with morals.I have no morals?

[sarey]

I agree with Alex, stupid little emos should realise they have a decent life and stop cutting themselves. And before somebody says "you've never had real pain in your life so shut up" or some shit like that, I have had real pain, I didn't cut myself or go cry in a dark room, I powered through it, it's what you do.

Not all selfharmers are emos.:rolleyes_


I've no idea what I'd do in that situation, since none of my friends are like that, but I suppose I'd try and help. If they just ignored me though, what could I do? Why should you try to help somebody who just doesn't care?

Put yourself in the selfharmers position;
Sometimes all they really want to feel is love.
Sometimes they are angry, that they feel so angry.
Sometimes there feelings get in the way of what they really want to say.
Most selfharmers arn't emos, some actually do it for real reasons, and all of that above is true, sometimes all they want to feel is love, sometimes there feelings getting in the way of what they really want to say.
They may no care on the outside, but on the inside, i bet they do.

[FlyingJesus]

I have no morals?

Good boy.

[=:Elliot:=]

I agree with Alex, stupid little emos should realise they have a decent life and stop cutting themselves. And before somebody says "you've never had real pain in your life so shut up" or some shit like that, I have had real pain, I didn't cut myself or go cry in a dark room, I powered through it, it's what you do.

Well you shouldnt agree with alex because he was wrong to say that stuff as are you emo's are people like you or me and you dont know if they have decent lives or not people show they are hurt or in pain in diffrent ways its what this topic is about if you wish to just power through it then thats the way you handle things but you have no right to tell people how to feel because when people cut they are upset or in pain, and seen as though you have had real pain then you should Sympathize with emos some of them have a bad time as it is and dont need you insulting them more so its wise if you have opinions like that then to keep them to youself it will cause less arguments :)

anyways lol at Seacat that made me giggle for some reason :P

urm so yeah..........:werock: :P

[Rizla]

Not all selfharmers are emos.:rolleyes_I never said they were, I just happened to be talking about the emo ones ;)


Good boy.I'll just say this; Just because your morals aren't all the same as mine doesn't mean I have none. Also, I got that attitude from dealing with the LEA, they think like that :)


emo's are people like you or meNo, they aren't.

[sarey]

I never said they were, I just happened to be talking about the emo ones ;)

No, they aren't.

Yes they are, they are humans with feelings.

I know you never said that, i'm just making it clear that not all are emos who hurt themselfs deliberlitly (sp?).

[Barwy]

Find the company of my friends or my lover

Friends bring me up so much, love you all guys. The wont ever read this but they are fooking brilliant people. Just stressing the fact that they are probably the best people ive EVER Known. <3<3<3<3<3

[Rizla]

Yes they are, they are humans with feelings.

That last part was a joke ;)

[Ronaldo]

Scratch My Bottom

Seems Rather Pleasurable

[sarey]

That last part was a joke ;)


I don't find myself laughing.

[Nixt]

Scratch My Bottom

Seems Rather Pleasurable

I lol'd

Sometimes I start a project [this could be writing a short story or something] so as to take my mind of what is making me feel upset.

[Rizla]

I don't find myself laughing.I'm crushed.

[sarey]

I'm crushed.

Woohoo?

[Vibe]

In times of sadness -illusions comes online and never logs off habbox :p

or she either goes around bragging to everyone that shes gonna kill herself but then shes online the next day :rolleyes:

[FlyingJesus]

I'll just say this; Just because your morals aren't all the same as mine doesn't mean I have none. Also, I got that attitude from dealing with the LEA, they think like that :)

I was being serious when I said "good boy". Morals and conscience are our biggest downfall.

Barwy, I am the best person you've ever known.

[sarey]

In times of sadness -illusions comes online and never logs off habbox :p

or she either goes around bragging to everyone that shes gonna kill herself but then shes online the next day :rolleyes:


Sthu, you don't know me, nor do you have a right in exposing that.
Personal issues do effect what i say and do, maybe you should think about this;
I DO HAVE FEELINGS.

Just, leave me alone, your being a stupid knowitall probably paedophile who knows nothing about me and bragging what YOU know, which is sterotyping.
Go and get a life yourself, if you haven't noticed, I DO LOG OFF.
Idiotic freak.

[Victimized]

Vibe:
Total Posts: 1,329 (10.87 posts per day)

Sarah:
Total Posts: 1,630 (5.84 posts per day)

That says it all really

[sarey]

Vibe:
Total Posts: 1,329 (10.87 posts per day)

Sarah:
Total Posts: 1,630 (5.84 posts per day)

That says it all really


Does that mean i post less everyday and he posts more so than me. :rolleyes:

[Victimized]

Yup that's exactly what it means.

[sarey]

Harhar, and he says I DONT HAVE A LIFE.
ROFL.
Besides, im lessening the time i spend on here, i got a school to go too now, its sooo cool, i actually like it now lmao. ;]

[FrozenWhisper]

I agree with Alex, stupid little emos should realise they have a decent life and stop cutting themselves. And before somebody says "you've never had real pain in your life so shut up" or some shit like that, I have had real pain, I didn't cut myself or go cry in a dark room, I powered through it, it's what you do.

That annoyed me for two reaons
1) Not all emo's Self harm
2) not everyone that self harms is an emo.

[Rizla]

1) Not all emo's Self harm - Never said they did, I was talking about the emos who do self harm
2) not everyone that self harms is an emo. - Read my other post

Is this forum just full of people expressing the same veiws constantly? There's no diversity here :rolleyes:

[GJay]

I was just wondering when your sad, what do you do to cheer yourself up?????:s

when i'm sad, i usually phone up my Karl...but if he has caused me to be sad, i might listen to music, cry and then settle. then i usually feel much better.

[RbarisR]

Just think for a long time and come up with questions which are never answerd :D

[edible]

Simon you better leave Sarah alone, i've seen what you said to her.
Just know i think your a sick person.

YOU DARE! Hurt my Cousin, and i swear i will want to hurt you.

[Rizla]

You on about me? If so, my names Ryan, if not, whatever.

[brandon]

this is what I do;

When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.

And when the broken hearted people
Living in the world agree,
There will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is
Still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be. Yeah
There will be an answer, let it be.

And when the night is cloudy,
There is still a light that shines on me,
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be,
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be. Sing along now and cheer up :]

[sarey]

You on about me? If so, my names Ryan, if not, whatever.

No, Vibe.
I neednt dare say the words i think of him when i type his name.

[Nixt]

Since when was this thread entitled -
"Emos, the great debate!" :'(

[sarey]

Since when was this thread entitled -
"Emos, the great debate!" :'(


It wasn't, someone just happened to mention about that topic.

[Rizla]

Since when was this thread entitled -
"Emos, the great debate!" Since Alex posted.

[sarey]

Too right. When I'm sad I go on msn and laugh at the people like you on my list, and think "God, wouldn't i be a sadact with no life if i was like you!"

Or if I'm not feeling malicious, or if theres noone on my list on, I usually play on a sonic game or runescape just to blank my mind completely until something interesting happens, then go with that. its amazing how starting at a really easy game can blank your mind and turn it to the consistency of a vegetable.


I agree with Alex, stupid little emos should realise they have a decent life and stop cutting themselves. And before somebody says "you've never had real pain in your life so shut up" or some shit like that, I have had real pain, I didn't cut myself or go cry in a dark room, I powered through it, it's what you do.


Well, actually, you both began the topic, seeing as Alex did start it, but you aswell also joined in and continued it. :rolleyes:
Anyway, now i just usually play my music if im upset.
Or i speak to my friends.