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photography
09-08-2006, 11:10 AM
Do you believe in the six stages of death?

SIX STAGES THROUGH WHICH PEOPLE MUST PASS
WHEN CONFRONTED WITH DEATH*



Depending on individual needs, a person may stay in one stage for a long time, move back and forth from one stage to another, or move through each stage in the order listed below:

DENIAL:
This may be expressed by feeling nothing or insisting there has been no change. It is an important stage and gives people a "time out" to reorganize. People in this stage need understanding and time.

ANGER:
Often, after denying a situation, people turn around and react. This reacting can be defined as anger. It can be expressed in nightmares and fears and in disruptive behavior. People in this stage need opportunities to express anger in a positive and healthy way.

BARGAINING:

The purpose of bargaining is to regain a loss. Consequently, a promise is made to do something in order to get something in return. Bargaining may be expressed through threats, tantrums, or demands. It can also be expressed in angelic behavior or perfectionist tendencies.

DEPRESSION:
This sets in when it is realized that anger and bargaining will not work and one begins to understand that a change may be permanent. This is a stage of grieving for whomever or whatever is lost. People in this stage need to know that others understand and are concerned about their feelings.

ACCEPTANCE:
Acknowledgement of a death _ a period of calm after release of emotions, demonstrated by a lifting of sadness and a willingness to keep living.

HOPE:
Evidenced by a revitalization of energy, a renewed interest in old friends, the development of new friendships, and the return of a sense of humor.


* This text was pulled off http://www.cusd.claremont.edu/safe/epp/stages_of_death.html*

Simple question answer poll and your views.

Craig
09-08-2006, 11:17 AM
This was on The Simpsons once =P

jordybumz!
09-08-2006, 11:34 AM
I guess I do kinda believe in it.

WHANGFACE
09-08-2006, 11:37 AM
I don't know really, there should be a don't know option ;p

MsTanya
09-08-2006, 11:44 AM
idk .. i suppose?

photography
09-08-2006, 11:45 AM
I can't seem to find the edit button.

-Soph-
09-08-2006, 01:16 PM
Nope don't believe in it.

SnowTwist
09-08-2006, 01:21 PM
Why aint i dead then ;'[

Victimized
09-08-2006, 01:23 PM
I don't mean to be stupid but i don't understand atall.

Herman
09-08-2006, 01:33 PM
I don't mean to be stupid but i don't understand atall.
Same, I don't get it.

omgabear
09-08-2006, 01:36 PM
that was on blackadder volume 3 episode 4...

WHY DO I KNOW THAT?

RedStratocas
09-08-2006, 01:42 PM
It isnt like believing in ghosts or something:rolleyes:

Yeah, I believe it. Its like asking if you believe in reading the directions before building something...

ilovejordan
09-08-2006, 04:42 PM
Do you believe in the six stages of death?

SIX STAGES THROUGH WHICH PEOPLE MUST PASS
WHEN CONFRONTED WITH DEATH*



Depending on individual needs, a person may stay in one stage for a long time, move back and forth from one stage to another, or move through each stage in the order listed below:

DENIAL:
This may be expressed by feeling nothing or insisting there has been no change. It is an important stage and gives people a "time out" to reorganize. People in this stage need understanding and time.

ANGER:
Often, after denying a situation, people turn around and react. This reacting can be defined as anger. It can be expressed in nightmares and fears and in disruptive behavior. People in this stage need opportunities to express anger in a positive and healthy way.

BARGAINING:

The purpose of bargaining is to regain a loss. Consequently, a promise is made to do something in order to get something in return. Bargaining may be expressed through threats, tantrums, or demands. It can also be expressed in angelic behavior or perfectionist tendencies.

DEPRESSION:
This sets in when it is realized that anger and bargaining will not work and one begins to understand that a change may be permanent. This is a stage of grieving for whomever or whatever is lost. People in this stage need to know that others understand and are concerned about their feelings.

ACCEPTANCE:
Acknowledgement of a death _ a period of calm after release of emotions, demonstrated by a lifting of sadness and a willingness to keep living.

HOPE:
Evidenced by a revitalization of energy, a renewed interest in old friends, the development of new friendships, and the return of a sense of humor.


* This text was pulled off http://www.cusd.claremont.edu/safe/epp/stages_of_death.html*

Simple question answer poll and your views.


No i do not. for example in all the deaths i've experienced i've never felt anger or bargaining [or w/e

Craig
09-08-2006, 04:44 PM
No i do not. for example in all the deaths i've experienced i've never felt anger or bargaining [or w/e

I think this theory is when you're told you're going to die.

ilovejordan
09-08-2006, 04:44 PM
I think this theory is when you're told you're going to die.

Oh.. lmao. Then nope i dont.

Craig
09-08-2006, 04:47 PM
Well no-one can actually say wether they believe in this or not unless they have been told they're going to die.

ilovejordan
09-08-2006, 04:51 PM
well craig i think i can because when my uncle was told he was going to die because of cancer he suffered neither depression, anger nor bargaining and denial.

RedStratocas
09-08-2006, 05:16 PM
well craig i think i can because when my uncle was told he was going to die because of cancer he suffered neither depression, anger nor bargaining and denial.

Well then your uncle is good at taking it:rolleyes: Obviously this stuff doesnt apply to every person, there isnt any need to point out specific people and say the whole thing is false.

Craig
09-08-2006, 05:25 PM
well craig i think i can because when my uncle was told he was going to die because of cancer he suffered neither depression, anger nor bargaining and denial.

People take death differently, doesn't mean your going to go through the same ways as your uncle, you could feel any number of them emotions so you can't deny you won't go through them.



Well then your uncle is good at taking it:rolleyes: Obviously this stuff doesnt apply to every person, there isnt any need to point out specific people and say the whole thing is false.

Exactly my point.

MsTanya
09-08-2006, 06:11 PM
Oh.. lmao. Then nope i dont.
cassie, youre so blonde lmao

Kyle.tk
09-08-2006, 06:13 PM
what if you get hit by a bus, going through all 6 stages in 0.00000008 seconds aint going to happen is it.

jordybumz!
09-08-2006, 06:19 PM
what if you get hit by a bus, going through all 6 stages in 0.00000008 seconds aint going to happen is it.
that's not what it means. it's what you go through when someone else dies.

Allan_banvict0m
09-08-2006, 06:19 PM
It's really the six stages to anything bad...

dying
pain
bereavement

y'know?

RedStratocas
09-08-2006, 06:21 PM
Yes, I think these are the stages when someone CLOSE TO YOU (FGS, no one say someone they barely knew died and they stages happen). And again, THIS IS JUST FOR MOST PEOPLE.

edible
09-08-2006, 06:46 PM
i dont understand. Im very dumb. Ask Craig

Azza
09-08-2006, 07:07 PM
It really depends on the person.
yer they might go through the 6 or some or none and do other stuff. I think its more of you personaltie than the stages. So you do all most half some few 1 none of them ^^
i shud of added commas.. hmm

hellogoodbye
10-08-2006, 12:00 AM
i believe in it i guess.

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