Help please.

[Sabu]

Okay, when I went to Dominican Republic, I met this really great girl (Kathryn). She's my age, kind, funny, smart and all that kind of stuff. Well, we got to know eachother, then we started walking around together at night. We held hands, hugged kissed. Holiday romance, eh?

Well, she lives not too far from me (she lives in Essex, same as me) and I would like to meet up with her one time. The thing is, I already have a girlfriend. We've been together for 4 years, but she isn't as nice as Kat. She is a bit, you know, she thinks she's the sexiest girl in my school. I know I'm being a little mean, but she can be a bit, out of order, sometimes.
She always *****'s about other people, and takes the mick out of 'ugly' people.

Kathryn never does this, but I'm really torn apart. I want Kelsey, but I want Kathryn too :'(

[Ostinato]

Okay, when I went to Dominican Republic, I met this really great girl (Kathryn). She's my age, kind, funny, smart and all that kind of stuff. Well, we got to know eachother, then we started walking around together at night. We held hands, hugged kissed. Holiday romance, eh?

Well, she lives not too far from me (she lives in Essex, same as me) and I would like to meet up with her one time. The thing is, I already have a girlfriend. We've been together for 4 years, but she isn't as nice as Kat. She is a bit, you know, she thinks she's the sexiest girl in my school. I know I'm being a little mean, but she can be a bit, out of order, sometimes.
She always *****'s about other people, and takes the mick out of 'ugly' people.

Kathryn never does this, but I'm really torn apart. I want Kelsey, but I want Kathryn too :'(


First of all, you've basically cheated on your girlfriend of 4 years for a silly holiday romance. That's really quite out of order and completely unfair on your girlfriend.

Basically, you need to compare both girls and decide who it is you want. A girl who you have been with for 4 years and know every little personal detail about - and know the important things that matter, even though she may annoy you at times - OR a girl who you have only met and known for 2 weeks, who seems to be the perfect girl at the moment.

Just remember dude, you have known your girlfriend for a long time so even if she may annoy you with little things, you probably annoy her aswell and it's just a common thing that gradually happens in relationships, but at the same tim eyou will still know every little detail about her and know a lot of personal stuff that actually matters.

You have only known this girl from your holiday for 2 weeks so you don't really know anything about her so far and what shes really like, apart from what you've seen on holiday which could change once you know her at home.

Don't be silly and rush into anything I say, take time and see if you can work your current relationship with your girlfriend and maybe try and get that old spark back by doing more things together, taking her out for dinner etc. and then decide whether or not you really do think you need a new girlfriend.

[hellogoodbye]

it's really up to you. tbh i'd prepher [sp?] kathryn, she seems cool. i don't go near the popular/******eh/stuck up girls. :P

but, you've been with her for 6 years. hmm it's tough. just yaknow follow your heart :8

[Sabu]

First of all, you've basically cheated on your girlfriend of 4 years for a silly holiday romance. That's really quite out of order and completely unfair on your girlfriend.

Basically, you need to compare both girls and decide who it is you want. A girl who you have been with for 4 years and know every little personal detail about - and know the important things that matter, even though she may annoy you at times - OR a girl who you have only met and known for 2 weeks, who seems to be the perfect girl at the moment.

Just remember dude, you have known your girlfriend for a long time so even if she may annoy you with little things, you probably annoy her aswell and it's just a common thing that gradually happens in relationships, but at the same tim eyou will still know every little detail about her and know a lot of personal stuff that actually matters.

You have only known this girl from your holiday for 2 weeks so you don't really know anything about her so far and what shes really like, apart from what you've seen on holiday which could change once you know her at home.

Don't be silly and rush into anything I say, take time and see if you can work your current relationship with your girlfriend and maybe try and get that old spark back by doing more things together, taking her out for dinner etc. and then decide whether or not you really do think you need a new girlfriend.




Thanks. Me and Kathryn are planning to meet up when she comes back from holiday (she went for 3 weeks), just to get to know eachother more.

[Stab]

Just be friends with kathryn: don't risk 4 years on a holiday romance.

Keep things good with her though, because if (4 years) and you break up, you'll have kathyrn ;)

Bit mean.

[MsTanya]

aww i want a holiday romance, too bad im with someone eh?