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Riico
12-08-2006, 10:00 AM
I basically just ruined my relationship with my best friend , yeah i loved her like ive never loved anyone and when she broke my heart i didnt want to know her , she now hates me and never wants to speak to me again any adivce how to get it better?
Riico
12-08-2006, 10:12 AM
I told her i never wanted to see her again and i was gonna wipe her from my life , then after realsing what i did she wont accept my apology
Sorry for all the questions, but:
Why did you say that?
Riico
12-08-2006, 10:23 AM
Questions are k yeah she filled me full of fake hope that one day I would be able to go out with her then she turned around and said she was lying to my face , kinda hurt
=:Elliot:=
12-08-2006, 10:44 AM
Well for this i dont see why you need to say sorry as your friend was playing with your emotions and freelings just like Colleen on Lee from love island * she had hot pants on the other night did anyone catch that * anyways i think what you said to her was reasonable for what she did to you she broke your heart knowing full well she was lying to you and carried on in the words of Lee " You Invested alot of feeling into her " so i think it should be her to say sorry first but you still say it after - but anyways you want to make up easy if she wont talk to you face to face post her a letter write all your feeling into it
Example
Dear .....
Well i am writing to you because you wont speak to me face to face an listen to what i have to say to you what i said to you was wrong i know it was but the way you treated me was worse you built my hopes up and you knew full well you didnt feel the same way i would do anything for you i would give you anything just for a smile you mean more to me than the air i breathe ......... so on so on ...... so i just got really hurt buy what you did but i am so so sorry for what i said i dont want to lose you as a friend .......... so on so on ... sign your name
and place one red rose with letter
some may find it corny but it showing her you still care about her and your sorry - and if that dosent work then i will have a long think and get back to you :P
Riico
12-08-2006, 10:52 AM
Wow! Thanks she told me not to do that though , tbh shes just annoyed me so much atm she sent everything that reminds me of her to me torn apart
StripedTiger
12-08-2006, 10:53 AM
i can understand that totally. jake lied to my face and i was very upset.
if you wont accept your apology coming from you, maybe buy her a little something? not too much cos she might smash it up ;o but thats always worth a try?
if that doesnt work get someone who is yourfriend to talk to her, make the convo turn to you, and then make her feel guilty and make you sound really upset and you feeling really guilty blah blah blah. once she iss oftened up, maybe try talking to her but not face-to-face, maybe on messenger or over phone where she can get away if she wants to.
dont crowd her completely give her alot of room, if she wants to listen toyou then she wont run away forever.
=:Elliot:=
12-08-2006, 10:59 AM
Wow! Thanks she told me not to do that though , tbh shes just annoyed me so much atm she sent everything that reminds me of her to me torn apart
* Jack Sparrow Voice * Now thats not very nice, well as Aquae said give her abit of time space shall we say let her come round abit and just see what happens
i do hope it all works out for you mate :Ocass14
Riico
12-08-2006, 10:59 AM
Yeah I sent her like 4 pressies over the time and she probably has wrecked them now , she wiped me from habbo her phone and messenger which makes it harder and as she wont let me add her again , i donno what to do ,
Im sending her one last letter with the Aiden album in
Edit : Thanks I hope it works out too but the way things are going I doubt she wants to see my face again , im giving her as much time as i can without letting her go
StripedTiger
12-08-2006, 11:00 AM
hm mafter this dont buy her anymore cos she might be taking advantage of tha too ^_^
Riico
12-08-2006, 11:02 AM
hm mafter this dont buy her anymore cos she might be taking advantage of tha too ^_^
Yeah the thing is though ive lost about 5 mates trying to get her back and she knows that , i dont know when to stop
foxyfox00
19-08-2006, 12:24 AM
Well if you have appoligised, and tried to get her back theres not much more you can do. She might need more time to accpet your applogy and come to terms with the situation. Writing a letter is a good idea. Post it to her house and she might read it.
Well I hope you sort something out in the end.
Goodluck
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