Online relationships.

[Aeon]

I seem to find I see alot of people in online relationships, i can't say i haven't been in one because I have ... I dont know why but they do sometimes seem deeper than relationships in reality.

I know some people see them as reality anyway but still, they are taken very very seriously sometimes ....

The one that I was in was very deep I felt, what do you think about them?

[Ostinato]

There used to be a huge thread on this somewhere...

Well, in my time using the internet I have been in a few, but regret doing so. From the relationships I was in over the internet, I learned that you cannot trully get to know a person that way and fully fall in love with them.

Although you may be falling in love with the character which is portrayed to you, you cannot fully get to know the little thing's that trully matter, and at the end of the day you are only finding out information which the person wishes to tell you, and keep from you.

[Stab]

Don't quite get online relationships yet.
there is nothing wrong with them

[blah blah blah]

Well probably the reason for a deeper relationships is msn.
its used so much and since youve got webcam and audio on it, its alot like reality.
but you only lacks the touch. (i know its sounds dirty but grow up:P )
Ive been in 1 but i managed to meet up with them.
BUT thats dangerous cause there are pedi's out there!

so just be careful lol:D

[AdamCookie!]

Im not saying it can't happen because it can, but i've met a fair few people off the net..

Even some from here :)

If you are going to meet with someone, do it where other people are around if you get me.. For example, I tend to use Alton Towers alot. (I know some ride operators, there is security.. And it's a controled enviroment :))

[omgabear]

They can be real, people tend to notice the true person by reading what they have to say and not what they do.

Sure they can happen, though I've never been in one, or attempted too.

[sarey]

I seem to find I see alot of people in online relationships, i can't say i haven't been in one because I have ... I dont know why but they do sometimes seem deeper than relationships in reality.

I know some people see them as reality anyway but still, they are taken very very seriously sometimes ....

The one that I was in was very deep I felt, what do you think about them?

I've had several.
Some actually very deep, he left me, so yeah, deep scar impaled emotionally, as you can see, i still remember him after a year.

The deepest one i had was in 2003-2004, he was so adorable i loved him to bits!!! But, he left me, as usual, they normally leave me.

Online relationships can be real, but most of them don't last, most arn't TRUE TRUE love, just very deep feelings of one another, i think online dating is a tad weird, but very natural. *cough* hormones (sp?) *cough*. :rolleyes:

[Rizla]

Flame all you want, but I think they're pretty sad. When you're 12-13, sure, you're still a kid, but I don't see the point as you get older, go get yourself a real person.



Although you may be falling in love with the character which is portrayed to you, you cannot fully get to know the little thing's that trully matter

[NightSlayer]

Flame all you want, but I think they're pretty sad. When you're 12-13, sure, you're still a kid, but I don't see the point as you get older, go get yourself a real person.


yeah, totally. :eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

[MsTanya]

ive never had one myself, and dont think i ever will, but you cant help who you fall for and all that shiz

[JT-Fan]

I guess its okay coz you get to know the persons personality maybe before seeing them like so you dont just judge on looks?

[Sabu]

I guess its okay coz you get to know the persons personality maybe before seeing them like so you dont just judge on looks?

Online relationships are weird. Because you want to love your partner but you can't because you actually know her, or what shes like. You get me? :P

[JT-Fan]

Yeahh I get you and theres no physical side like if you're upset they cant come hug you and you cant snuggle up and kiss them init. Unless you go
-SNUGGLEZ UP AND KIZZIES-
ROFL

[Sabu]

Yeahh I get you and theres no physical side like if you're upset they cant come hug you and you cant snuggle up and kiss them init. Unless you go
-SNUGGLEZ UP AND KIZZIES-
ROFL

Yup lmao :D

[JT-Fan]

But then you could meet someone online, meet them in real life and have a good relationship?

[Sabu]

But then you could meet someone online, meet them in real life and have a good relationship?

But the thing when meeting up is that it could be a setup :P Or whoever you think your partner is, she/he may not be who you think ;s

[jordybumz!]

if you meet up then i guess they can work.

and @ sabu, if you see them on cam and talk to them on mic and all that jazz, you can tell. i mean, i've met 3 people off this forum, and they're all just the same as they are online.

[xMicHeLlEx]

soz meeting up with peope is a skem

[Shatter]

soz meeting up with peope is a skem

ROFL.. Hows it a skem?

[Nadgers]

Back in the days, I did have some. Now I just find it kinda silly.. unless it is actually genuine and it leads outside of habbo (meeting up perhaps). But I think you are being mislead the whole time I mean you dont have a clue what the other person is like irl but I guess you can find a lot out from people online.

[:dallsgreen]

I don't like online relationships, but I'm in one right now.

[ilovejordan]

I don't like online relationships, but I'm in one right now.

Then whats the point in that? :s

[brandon]

I've been in a few, but I was only young, even younger then I am at the moment and I definately would not go in one now.

[Jamie!]

I wouldn't wanna be in an internet relationship, can't see the point in them. You are basically going out with someone you don't actually know?

[Aeon]

Hmm You've all got strong points I suppose,

They can be very deep, and like someone said earlier in the thread, sometimes you find the real person rather than the put on person they use in the real world?

Works both ways, they could end up totally better in real life than on the net or the other way around, I agree with them, but I'm not sure if i'd be too interested now...

[:dallsgreen]

Then whats the point in that? :s

I don't like the whole idea of online relationships, but I really like the girl I met so I don't wanna break up with her.

[FlyingJesus]

I guess it's quite an easy relationship, if you know that it's going to be short-term you can make yourself out to be anything and really escape yourself. I don't do it myself as I have an ego the size of Jupiter, so don't really want to escape myself.

[Aeon]

I guess it's quite an easy relationship, if you know that it's going to be short-term you can make yourself out to be anything and really escape yourself. I don't do it myself as I have an ego the size of Jupiter, so don't really want to escape myself.

Lol huge egos are cool :P

Let me guess you like your mirror? :D

[FlyingJesus]

Yeah but it likes me more.

[Allan_banvict0m]

I think... they can be alreet... but you never know who your falling in love with? or should i say "love" as let's face it... a few typing sessions aint love? And you often find you fall in "love" with their internet persona.... the net's all about how you portray yourself. I'd say you find that the people are the opposite in real life, normally.

appart from me... how you see me on the forum is how I am irl.
giant ego, bigger than jupiter :rolleyes: i'd say i'm just confident and know myself not really inlove with thy ol' mirror... judging by my looks LMAO BUT, yea. i'm arguementitive, loud, 'outspoken' etc. so i'm told...

[Lubricant]

I've been in one but ended a month after. We mostly talked to each other by the phone and were always texting each other. But knowing that you may not ever meet up is actually quite hard and that's what ends it.

[Mentor]

I dont believe in em, you cant have a relationship's entirely over the phone, or by letters, the same's true with the internet. Short of meeting someone you only have a very limited knowledge of them, and only what they choose to portray, 80% of communications isnt verbal, so internet relationships miss about 80% of the person so there no way people can truely know each other.
Friends? sure, you dont need to know if youd like em in real life, there fun to talk to on the net, thats all thats important.
But a relationship, its just not enough "/

[Nightrose]

Please dont get me started on online realationships Argh! -shivers- Can be scarey things but then again can work out you never know unless u have been in one

Im Guessing it is possiable to fall in love with the person but its not true love to you meet and see *** u act around each other. But u could be lying and then you end up hurting the person all together and you cant tell how they feel unless u meet them to be honest! Tho i have seen it work cause ive see it with my own eyes,

There is webcam and audio plus you could always phone each other to make sure its not a pervert or pedo. Thats why webcams are useful

What annoys me about online realationships is that people are like omg ur dump and they got a new internet Lover by the end of the day

I also think that the people can get to clingy to you and spec you to be there all the time, talking to them, when u cant , u have a life as well to live, they can also think they control you (happenend to me) and it was annoying saying whoi could go out places with and what to do etc,

Theres also no physical side to the realationship which can work but rarely, i would just stay dont set urself up for heratbreak with the person because thats the worse thing you can do.

[DMB-Hosting]

You must be sad to have an online relationship

[RbarisR]

Having friends online is good because sometimes you can talk about things which you cant in real life face to face but taking it a couple of step faward and turning it to a relationship is in my point of view is not safe and can cause you to be nurvous in real life for example if you date all the time online and stuf, and you reach the age of lets say 24 and you want to get a gf in real life etc you wont have any real life experiances, however if you start from young lets say 15 to have 'real life gf or bf then in the future you wont have that problem, if im wrong then correct me. But i do recpect other peoples choices as its there life.

[RbarisR]

Having friends online is good because sometimes you can talk about things which you cant in real life face to face but taking it a couple of step faward and turning it to a relationship is in my point of view is not safe and can cause you to be nurvous in real life for example if you date all the time online and stuf, and you reach the age of lets say 24 and you want to get a gf in real life etc you wont have any real life experiances, however if you start from young lets say 15 to have 'real life gf or bf then in the future you wont have that problem, if im wrong then correct me. But i do respect other peoples choices as its there life.