k what should i do?

[kasi]

i went to see a movie with a few of my friends last night and there was a guy that i didnt know there. my best friend had a crush on him, and me and him sat by eachother at the movie & he was leaning on my seat etc trying to get closer i guess. so after the movie, he asked my best friend for my number and msn address and told her that he liked me, and now my best friend is extremely mad at me and i didnt do anything. what should i tell her to get her to be not mad anymore? i don't even like this guy anyway / never will.

[Ostinato]

i went to see a movie with a few of my friends last night and there was a guy that i didnt know there. my best friend had a crush on him, and me and him sat by eachother at the movie & he was leaning on my seat etc trying to get closer i guess. so after the movie, he asked my best friend for my number and msn address and told her that he liked me, and now my best friend is extremely mad at me and i didnt do anything. what should i tell her to get her to be not mad anymore? i don't even like this guy anyway / never will.

Aw, that's a shame. Basically, I think that because she was upset and sort of humiliated by the whole situation, shes just looking for someone to blame - but unfortunately there is no one.

You need to re-assure her you are not even interested in the guy and you don't even know him, so your friends welcome to him. Aswell as this, you need to tell her it is in no way your fault the guy didn't like her!

You should maybe also give her some advice, ask her to get talking to him o messenger or something and shel your maybe trying to help her get with him.

At the end of the day, we all know it wasn't your fault - including your friend, so she just needs to get over the rejection and accept it!

[NightSlayer]

Hey, Never say Never :P

[kasi]

Aw, that's a shame. Basically, I think that because she was upset and sort of humiliated by the whole situation, shes just looking for someone to blame - but unfortunately there is no one.

You need to re-assure her you are not even interested in the guy and you don't even know him, so your friends welcome to him. Aswell as this, you need to tell her it is in no way your fault the guy didn't like her!

You should maybe also give her some advice, ask her to get talking to him o messenger or something and shel your maybe trying to help her get with him.

At the end of the day, we all know it wasn't your fault - including your friend, so she just needs to get over the rejection and accept it!

i've done that, but she keeps making up an excuse. part of our conversation went like this...

her: :@
me: i didnt even do anything...?
her: yep, you did everything
me: okay then what did i do exactally
her: you made him like you and you knew i liked him :@
me: how did i? i went to the movies, and i didnt wanna sit by him so i sat on the other side of you so he would sit beside you. its not my fault he went over and sat by me...
her: yeah but he fell for you!
me: thats not my fault?!

and she hasnt said anything since... what should i say to her?

[foxyfox00]

She is just jelous because the guy she wants likes you. Its not your fault she is angry and taking out the easiest way my laying blame on you.

You could just tell the guy your not interested and that your friend likes him?
Or try to set them up together.

At the end of the day you did nothing wrong and she knows that. She has a case of unrequited love that she is blaming on you.

[Bugsey6]

I agree with evreyone she is just jelous and you didn't do anything wrong at all, in a couple of days she will relise that you dont fancy him & he was the one coming on to you , Just keep remembering you did nothing wrong and you have nothing to say sorry for! :) .

[Ostinato]

i've done that, but she keeps making up an excuse. part of our conversation went like this...

her: :@
me: i didnt even do anything...?
her: yep, you did everything
me: okay then what did i do exactally
her: you made him like you and you knew i liked him :@
me: how did i? i went to the movies, and i didnt wanna sit by him so i sat on the other side of you so he would sit beside you. its not my fault he went over and sat by me...
her: yeah but he fell for you!
me: thats not my fault?!

and she hasnt said anything since... what should i say to her?

Like I said, because she was rejected and she made it clear to everyone she liked him, shes feeling pretty humiliated so she is therefore looking for someone to pin the blame on - in this case you.

It's extremely unfair, so you just get her told that you did nothin wrong and if she can't just get over it then your going to need to put your friendship on hold. She isn't a true friend if, just because she didn't get her own way, she's going to try and blame you for her rejection!

[Bugsey6]

Like I said, because she was rejected and she made it clear to everyone she liked him, shes feeling pretty humiliated so she is therefore looking for someone to pin the blame on - in this case you.

It's extremely unfair, so you just get her told that you did nothin wrong and if she can't just get over it then your going to need to put your friendship on hold. She isn't a true friend if, just because she didn't get her own way, she's going to try and blame you for her rejection!

Your really good at helping people :) it's good to know that if i had a problem you could give good advice. You've basicly said it all =)

[Ostinato]

Your really good at helping people :) it's good to know that if i had a problem you could give good advice. You've basicly said it all =)

Lol aw thanks, it really means a lot to me when people are grateful for the advice I take time to give them! :]

[Lindzi]

Since your friend feels embarrassed you could plot together to embarass him mwahahahaha....:P

[dorothy]

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[beth]

i doubt it. u r nt irresistable.

[dorothy]

i doubt it. u r nt irresistable.

unless he goes 4 rats from china.

[jellme]

Shes jealous, well ive been like her before, i had like this guy but he fell for my friend, but you cant really force a relationship, so i kinda helped him out to get with my friend. well anyways. maybe you can talk to the guy, and try to hook him up with your friend

[Psychonaut]

she seems to be acting unreasonably, but i guess it`s quite normal in such a situation.. she definitely has a bit of an overdramatic element thing going on though.. or maybe she has other problems aswell and this just really screwed it for her

[Seacat]

Tell her to stop been so jealous and get a life ;)

[Sunny.]

Just tell her you dnt like him, n its nt ur fault he likes you.

Good luck

[Earthquake]

Sleep with him and send her the film

[Charlie]

The thread was made in August 2006. Why are you all posting? :rolleyes:

[Nightrose]

The thread was made in August 2006. Why are you all posting? :rolleyes:

Yush i agree
thread starter left ages ago.