Fgs..

[sarey]

I seriously cant take this, my mum is drunk out her head, and im seriously about to loose it.
My grandads on holiday,he usually comes over when shes like this, and her suffering from depression, she isnt about to stop drinking now, and im not getting in her way cause she will just do what she usually does.

I seriously cannot handle this, so any advise at all!?
My sister is out, she usually helps her too, but im to young for this stuff for crying out loud, my sister is wey older and i cant phone her or get in contact with her, so yeah, ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE NICE. :(

[IDK]

try and get her into bed?

[sarey]

i tried that before, all she did was push me and put her music louder :/

[Victimized]

Aww Sarah your mum seemed so cool on webcam.

Umm, you could wait til she goes toilet or something and throw the alcohol away or fill the alcohol up with water.

[sarey]

I know, shes alright when shes sober, but when shes drunk, shes just.. urgh.
Shes like, in the sitting room with music playing, and i dont know where my sister is and i hate being alone with her when shes like this :(

[IDK]

offer her a glass of water, to try and sober her up?

[sarey]

i wish my sister was just here :(
before she was just like.. she was tipsy but she wasnt drunk, now shes totally drunk cause
1. her balance
2. shes got the music she plays when shes drunk on loud
3. her eyes are all veiny
4. her speech is stuttered
and later shes gonna do what she usually does, if i take her wine, she will got mental with me, i dont want that tonight, i cant exactly escape through sleeping, i cant even think with that music on...

[Victimized]

Make her a cup of tea, mums love that and they can't help but drink them.

[sarey]

no im just gonna stay out her way, if she gets any more drunk, im just gonna walk out and just wonder around, dont care if i get murdered or whatever, its better than here, thanks for the advise really appreciate it.

[IDK]

Make her a cup of tea, mums love that and they can't help but drink them.
^ good one.



no im just gonna stay out her way, if she gets any more drunk, im just gonna walk out and just wonder around, dont care if i get murdered or whatever, its better than here, thanks for the advise really appreciate it.

Getta train, come to my housee [:

[sarey]

if only clarissa. :(
the train station is like.. 4miles from my house, grr can someone just dose her with something to make her go sleep, im so tired ;(

[IDK]

just go and lay down, if your really tired you'll just fall asleep.

[=:Elliot:=]

Sarah it is best to just leave her while she is like this my mates parents get violent and stuff when they get drunk but they are all old enough to make there own desisions about this sort of thing its just best to let them fall alseep. i will come on msn to talk to you hunny

[sarey]

she has the bass like on 10.. and the volume is high.. god i hope the police dont get called.

[sarey]

Update:
Shes gone to bed.
So yeah, thanks to those who replied, really appreciate.<3

Sorry for double posting, can't edit previous post.

[Ostinato]

Update:
Shes gone to bed.
So yeah, thanks to those who replied, really appreciate.<3

Sorry for double posting, can't edit previous post.

It's fine, your now allowed to double post as long as it's not pointless and you are adding information about the topic being discussed.

I'm glad everything's worked out though, would you like the thread closed now? :]

Ostinato

[Seacat]

ummm
leave the house? or now shes sober try talking to her and let her know how selfish she is

[sarey]

It's fine, your now allowed to double post as long as it's not pointless and you are adding information about the topic being discussed.

I'm glad everything's worked out though, would you like the thread closed now? :]

Ostinato


Yes please, i actually have forgot how :o

Seacat, this morning i had a right **** at her, and she apologized, she said she that is was very unnessersary considering the circumstances and everything thats happening, so she treated me :D
She always does anyway, but my physc said shes gonna try and get her help before she leaves me. :D

Anyway, thanks for replies, if you could close the thread Ostinato, that would be greatly appreciated.

[Azul]

I lol'd.

[sarey]

Get off my thread if you are just gonna post pointless things.
I came for advise, and if you are loling at my mum getting drunk, then you are some sick sad child with no life who should, yes in a matter of fact, get one and stop being so stupid and loling at other peoples issues.

edit:
Don't tell me to get a life either, because i am getting one thanks, also you post more than me. ;]

[Azul]

I'm 'loling' at the fact that you're getting all depressed over your Mum being drunk, it happens.

[sarey]

HELLO, shes my mother, and when she gets drunk shes damaging herself, physically and emotionally, both for me and her, and my sister in that fact.
And more importantly, she does it frequently.
I am deeply sorry i care about my mother and what she does. :/

[Azul]

Point taken. Apologies.

[sarey]

Apology accepted, i guess.

Ostinato, if you could please close the thread, that would be appreciated.
As i said, i've forgotten how to do it. :(

[Rizla]

I think you would have been better with your Dad.

[sarey]

I don't particulary think so, considering as far as hes concerned, i do not nor have i ever existed, so i think i would of be better of without him.

I am better of with actually none of them, me and my sister discuss what it would of been like if we had fit parents, we may have turned out differently and had a better upbringing.

Anyway, this thread was created for advise, and i appreciate the replies i recieved, but now that this is over, i'd rather just close the thread other than having replies saying who i'm better of with, or laughing at this thread, ect.

Sorry if that sounded offensive, but i actually think im better with my mum, my dad drinks 24 7, hes a drunken unstable 'father' to me, my sister, his step son and son.

My mum tries her hardest to take care of me and my sister, sometimes the stress thats put on her causes things like this to happen, the depression she has started when i was 4, at the time of the divorce with my so called 'father', so in a way, im definetley better of with my mum.

Besides, my grandad (mums dad) helps alot, trust me on the alot part, i don't know how he can help us out so much, what with his age and everything. I'm glad i have a grandad like him, i consider him my father. So yeah, Ostinato, where are you? :) I have completeley forgot how to close the thread, if anyone could tell me that would be appreciated! ;)

Sorry for the lecture, just would explain alot better on the situation here.

[Rizla]

my dad drinks 24 7, hes a drunken unstable 'father' to me, my sister, his step son and son.How would you you?

[omgabear]

Ok sorry to hear that. If shes drinking alone, then its something to really worry about.

Sorry I cant be of any help, my parents hardly get drunk.

To close make a post and hit (close thread after post) at bottom of text box.

[sarey]

How would you you?


How would what and what?
Err.. ok weird.
PM me it anyway if you want, cause closing thread.

Thanks omgabear for the tip.