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xMicHeLlEx
25-08-2006, 09:07 AM
yeah i will start so you understand it but i want some advice what to do next or ur views. i asked some of my friends but im still not sure so im coming to you. kk im start from the start otherwise you wont understand.
I was in a relationship a few weeks ago, then we broke up he said he had really strong feeling for me, but i was going thru something personal, and we didt meet for ages, so it ended but the day after it ended he started going out with my mate, that caused a big argument, they broke up after 2/3 weeks, now i started talking to him ago [not the mate] Geting along really well but he is geting with someone, But i really like him, i have strong feelings for him and have had them since we broke up. So he is geting into a new relationship.
So what should i do?
:)

jordybumz!
25-08-2006, 09:09 AM
tell him how you feel.

Assid_Rane
25-08-2006, 12:26 PM
to be honest, it seems like hes moved on. if i was u... id only tell him how i feel if im fully prepared to be let down.

he probably knows u still like him, especially since you had an argument a few weeks ago because he was with ur mate.

is there not anyone else you like that you could try to have a relationship with?

if hes getting into another relationship, it might cause even more problems if you tell him how u feel and he doesnt feel the same way anymore... which could mean that you would lose contact with him again. it may be best just to wait + stay in contact with him as friends for now and hope that he realises ur the 1 hes supposed to be with. if not, then maybe your not supposed to be with him anyway then.

that may not be what you were hoping to hear, but its my honest opinion. if hes in a relationship, i'd stay away, at least until hes single again.

xMicHeLlEx
25-08-2006, 02:07 PM
thanks for the advice ;) ^^

Ostinato
25-08-2006, 03:14 PM
Well you split up, mainly due to stuff happening on your behalf, and as he said he had feelings for you I'm sure he would've been pretty gutted, so now he might just think 'Well if you dumped me, why should I take you back?!'.

It's good you've been talking to him again, but if what he said about having strong feelings for you was true, then it shouldn't be a problem, because I know for a fact your feelings don't just go away in a matter of days. Try get talking to him again and just take things from there, perhaps a wee bit of flirting or something and build up your relationship again. If you feel you would still liek to be with him and it could work out, then go for it, but don't stress too much cause I'm sure you'll still be fairly young, and have your whole life ahead of you.

Good luck.

Callum.
25-08-2006, 03:26 PM
find a new one joe, you're a cool person even though i dont know you much.

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