Help Urgent!!!

[DJ-Precocious]

Me and my Girlfriend live quite far from each other, Her Parents are a bit overprotective, So they wont let her come down on the train to see me for a few days, My Parents think its fine, I go on the train to a lot of places, But i need help in persuading her parents to let her come down to Mine, all help will be very much appreciated and + Rep for Any Good Help

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why dont you go to hers?

[Nixt]

If her parents are protective of her it's going to be very hard! For now, I think you should go up there when you can, that way; her parents can get to know and trust you! When they begin to trust you, they may feel better letting their daughter go on a train to yours.

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and how old are you sorry?

[DJ-Precocious]

:]:]:];2130855']why dont you go to hers?

I cant go to hers cos it is my birthday this week and my mum wants me to be at home, thats why my parents dont mind her coming to stay with me

Im 13


If her parents are protective of her it's going to be very hard! For now, I think you should go up there when you can, that way; her parents can get to know and trust you! When they begin to trust you, they may feel better letting their daughter go on a train to yours.



I rekon that might be all i can do but The next time i can see her is Half term wich is so far away

[Nixt]

I think you should try and get your parents to speak directly to hers then? Let them explain that they are fine with making sure she is safe at yours and they will do their very best to look after her.
I think they would feel more comfortable with adults saying that she is safe going to yours than from you. (though admittedly I don't know your age :p)

[DJ-Precocious]

I think you should try and get your parents to speak directly to hers then? Let them explain that they are fine with making sure she is safe at yours and they will do their very best to look after her.
I think they would feel more comfortable with adults saying that she is safe going to yours than from you. (though admittedly I don't know your age :p)


I will try that, I would try anything to see her!!!!

BTW im 13

[Nixt]

Okay :) like I said, as parents they have a right to be protective. Let your parents give her's a call and let them explain she'll be fine.
If you let them know how desperate you are to see her too ;)

[DJ-Precocious]

I will try If it works i will tell you, anymore ideas???

[Rizla]

Wait until her house is empty, get the train to hers, and have abit of the old in and out ;)

[Ostinato]

Wait until her house is empty, get the train to hers, and have abit of the old in and out ;)

No, don't do that.

Perhaps ask your parents to speak directly to hers and maybe arrange a time you could all meet up so both sets of parents could get to know each other and supervise both of you. Your 13, so your still young and it's understandable her paretns don't want her travellig on her own to somewhere she doesn't really know and stuff.

Other than that, I think your just gonna have to put up with it for now till your older, and go up and see her whenever you can.

You see, that's the problem with long distance relationships! ;)

[Rizla]

Why did Nixt edit my post but do nothing? o.O

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[Nixt]

It was an accident.. I was supposed to quote you and then clicked edit instead. I am not used to having the edit thing there on other people's posts as I have only recently received Moderator powers. Sorry x)

I did it again with your above post :rollseyes: Sorry!

[DJ-Precocious]

I was gonna say im not the type to jump on the train for sum of the old in and out as you put it, im only 13 you know!! lol

[WhatDidIdoNow?]

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[WhatDidIdoNow?]

Oh come on, this forum is for teens, right? Who's going to get offended by that? :rolleyes:

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[Bef]

Hmm your 13 so i can see where her parent's are coming from. How about catching the train down to hers and meeting her parents properly? They proberly dont have a problem with you, they just don't want there daughter travelling alone, maybe if you were to come to the house and get her and then walk her home afterwards then that would be okay?