Friend confused about what gender she likes

[Hanurr]

My friend recently spoke to me about the fact that she thinks she is attracted to Adele, one of our closer friends. She said she is confused, because she really, really, likes Adele as more than a friend [almost loves her] but she is also attracted to a guy named Hamish.
She doesn't know what to do, and I don't know what to say or do to help her.

[Jacko2kn3]

Maybe your friend is bisexual. You can't make the decision for her, only she can. Letting her know you'll support her whichever "side" she takes is the best thing to do.

[Ciaran]

Yeh but people can become easily offended by that so i suggest you tell her to keep it quiet for the time being but she's gotta tell adele

[Mit]

i think u should just say 'follow your heart' that always helps me in tricky situations.

[-JT-]

yep, i gave dawn a valentines card! It took more guts than getting beheaded man!

[Janumz]

Just got along with whatever she is.. xS
I dont really know what to say..

[Hanurr]

:s One problem, guys. Thanks for your advice, but Adele has a boyfriend and so does this girl. So she likes a guy and a girl, but she also goes out with a guy. And I think Adele may just be homophobic. And plus, she's Adele's best friend. :o

[Chillzy]

What if Adele doesnt like her... and thinks she is gross?

[Hanurr]

Adele probably does think that... Which is sad. It'll ruin their friendship. :(

[ndman3]

She is probly going through a stage right now i know tons of girls who like to look at girls pics and think they are hot..but that does not make them gay..So like i said she is probly going through a stage and she will break out of it and if she dont then mabey she is bi.. and nothing is really wrong with that.. *so just support her**

Hope i helped
ndman3 :D

[Hanurr]

Thanks, ndman, and the rest of you. That was a bit of help. But today at school Swimming Sports, she kept remarking how hot Adele looked in her triangles and board shorts. :s

[ndman3]

its proby just a faze..dont worrie just be normal to her and pretend like u didnt even know she said that and if she ever wants to talk to you about it then talk with her..but for her sake dont really let it get out..Because people these days are Crazy.. :o

Anytime
ndman3

[Luayminator]

sHE Could be lesbian , but there is nothing you can do , its all her decision

[Ryan]

thers no such thing as bisexuall its just greedyness lol only jokin...

maybe she is ''bi'' theres nothing rong with it just let her go with whichever she feels best around

[Fingerboots]

My friend recently spoke to me about the fact that she thinks she is attracted to Adele, one of our closer friends. She said she is confused, because she really, really, likes Adele as more than a friend [almost loves her] but she is also attracted to a guy named Hamish.
She doesn't know what to do, and I don't know what to say or do to help her.
Exactly the same situation with my friend Rosa. Just remember, teenagers can get confused and sometimes don't really know how they feel.
I'm not saying she might not be bisexual but it's not uncommon to think it.

[Dave,]

I seriously suggest she doesn't "come out" though. You know what its like with all the bullying. People will also call you.

[GommeInc]

Homosexualism is apparently caused by a different mix of hormones.

I think it is confused hormones sometimes as you may feel gay but you're not. Odd, yet, true