o dear lord plz help me

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o dear o dear
okay right
umm long story
but plz read + help
DONT JUST LOOKAT THE LONG PARAGRAPH AND THEN GO AWAY PLZ!
my mate maxine, went out with this guy called vinny
and shes quite frijid, so... yer..
in d end .. well i wont go into details but they did lots of stuff
n she rly liked him, but he finished her a week after
and she woz proper upset
n just recently she started to like him agen
and she showed me a convo with him wer he goes "oh id really like to bang u ur so buff" and she was in tears coz she thinks he just wants a bit of fun and doesnt really love her
so i was really agenst him coz shes my best friend n i dnt want her getin hurt
but wen she goes on bout him (which is lots) she tells me that hes rly sweet coz he always puts :)(L) at the end of a sentence
and i woz thinking.. oh he does that to me?
and then wen she was stayin round mine
i didnt put max here too in my name or nefin but i was flirtin with vinny then i said hu u lykin babe n he goes u;)(L)
so maxine was so gutted
and she dnt wana go out with him, but she does still like him
BUT
my school, and this other school, are now both the name of my school, with just 2 sites? and its run by the same ppl
but they come over to our site for some lessons
and he was there today and we was talking and he was so NICE and sooo OMGGGGGGGGGGGGG GORGEOUS and i wos like omg *DROOL* coz hes propa nice person aswell but that cood be fake? idno, but he wernt afraid to talk to me infront of mine + his mates so thats gd i spose?
but anyways
i like him :|
and now he keeps sayin o ur buff n stuf on msn and its like ARGEEEEHHHHHH wot da hell do i do here?!?!?!?!?!?1?!??!?!?!?!?!?!

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[Many]

no soz you cant go out with me.

erm, ask him out then, if he dont like maxine.

[-Undiscovered]

give him a try, maybe it just didnt work out for your mate and him, maybe when your confident with , be straight with him, and ask him if he likes you .

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yh but i just rang her n woz like omg vinnys so luvly n she goes
U SHUDNT BE TELLIN ME THIS IM MENT TO BE GETTIN OVER HIM
:(

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bump bump

soz but i do rly need help sorry 4 dat double post
ummmmm more updates

now im probs meetin him on saturday n yday he woz txtn me all like oh i know iv only known properly a few weeks ago but wood u eva want a relationship
i sed dno coz of the whole thing with maxine
so he was all like
oh well iv never been unfaithfull bla bla bla but um
idno!!!!!!!!!
AND BLOOMIN HELL
u no dat sayin boys r like bustops u wait 4 1 then loads come at once

errr yeh its like that
+ i really like them :(

cozzzz yer :(

[Hippacrocabear]

If maxine still aint over him then try and forget him. Mates before dates babes <33

[Ostinato]

Don't be stupid.

This guy has shown his true colours to your friend, so learn from her mistakes and don't fall into the same silly trap she did.

It's quite clear this guy is a bit of a player, and he only seems to be after one thing. Think about it, he stayed with your friend until he got what he wanted - then dumped her, and now he moves on to you? I'm sorry, but I don't kno any decent who do that, and then try and get with their ex's best mate right after it.

Fair enough, he's all charming and nice enough to you, but how charming and nice is he to all those other girls out there?

Even if you do end up getting with him, you'll be pressurised into doing stuff with him, and once you do you'll have the fear at the back of your mind whether he's going to do to you what he did with Maxine, and just dump you when he's finished.

If not for your own sake, don't go with him for Maxines. It's clear shes not over him either, and she'll be gutted if you end up going with him. Your supposed to be her best friend, so you should stand by her.

Trust me, it'll be better for everyone in the long run. Don't let this guy just get what he want's and when he's done with you, spit you back out.

You're worth more than that.

[Topjak]

To the first 2 replies, ARE YOU MAD?!
Never date a mates Ex, ever! Your friends always come before a partner, she'll always be there he wont, and by the sounds of things the guys a jerk don't do it, not worth the effort.

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To the first 2 replies, ARE YOU MAD?!
Never date a mates Ex, ever! Your friends always come before a partner, she'll always be there he wont, and by the sounds of things the guys a jerk don't do it, not worth the effort.
i think the whole "dont date a mates ex" is stupid
coz
i fink its ok if ther over them?
but max aint rly over him so ...

+ friends before partner yer?
but hes my friend too?

[FlyingJesus]

Sit on it and bounce. Seriously, I know you're not "meant" to get with your chum's ex, but if you got it and she don't, then there's no reason you should hold back just because she likes the same bloke.

[Memmish]

It seems like you know you shouldnt be with him, at the beginning you knew he was flirting with both of you, he treated your best friend terribly and will do the same to you. He sounds like a waste of space to me and you are going to really hurt your friend if you meet up with him etc.

all and all he sounds like an idiot to me. sorry! x